T-Time with Tori Totlis

How much is your mental game really affecting your score? This week, Tori welcomes back Kathy Hart Wood for a conversation about the hidden ways your mindset can impact your performance on the course. From closing the gap between your range game and tournament play to learning how to bounce back after a bad shot, Kathy shares practical strategies that every golfer can start using immediately. Whet...

Tori and Phyllis are back for another installment of the Tournament Series, this time heading to Stafford Country Club in western New York for an RDGA two-person best ball event. Tori had never played the course before, but Phyllis assures her it's one of the best — home to a legendary ladies' invitational and built by white-collar Buffalonians who wanted a hidden gem in the middle of nowhere. The...

All four episodes of the Creek Cup series are officially live on YouTube — and yes, they dropped out of order (episode four first, naturally). Click the playlist link below to watch them in the right sequence. In this episode of T-Time, Tori and Ashley are joined by Aubrey, the editor behind both the Desert Classic and Creek Cup series, to pull back the curtain on what it actually takes to turn ho...

In this second part episode on misses and fixes, Justin and I tackle the most frustrating short-game mistakes that cost golfers strokes: the chunk shot, the fat bunker shot, and the dreaded shank, and we teach you exactly how to fix them. We break down the mechanical flaws and mental triggers behind these misses, and we offer simple cues that help you stop hitting behind the ball and start making...

Stop losing strokes to frustrating misses! In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with the incredible Justin Klemballa, founder of Breaking Bogeys, to decode the shots that steal our confidence and our scorecards. We’re tackling the Snap Hook, the Slice, the Topped Shot, and revealing why your grip strength might be the silent killer of your fairway accuracy. Justin also breaks down the Swing Path...

In this episode of T-Time, I’m live on-course with Phyllis Haberer for a real-time breakdown of the 6-6-6 golf format at the historic Locust Hill Country Club. Today, we play 6 holes of Best Ball, 6 of Modified Chapman, and 6 of Scramble, testing our mental and physical endurance on a 100-year-old course that hosted the LPGA for nearly 4 decades (1977–2013). We share our unfiltered tournament expe...

In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with Michael Leonard, +2 handicap golfer, mental coach, and host of the Wicked Smart Golf podcast, to uncover the secrets to mastering your wedges. We trace Michael’s journey, from quitting his corporate job to averaging 60 competitive days a year and publishing multiple books. Michael breaks down the non-negotiables of wedge play: why custom fittings are esse...

Women now account for 52% of all golf participation gains since 2020. In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with Jessica Marksbury, Senior Editor at Golf Magazine and a driving force behind some of the most compelling women’s golf storytelling today. As a former varsity golfer, Jessica shares her unique journey from the course to the newsroom, revealing how she’s shaping the narrative for the mill...

In this episode of T-Time, Kim Eaton, Colorado Golf Hall of Famer and one of the most decorated amateur golfers in history, shares her proven, step-by-step guide to planning your club’s Guest Day Invitational or Charity Golf Event. From securing hole sponsors and building a budget to selecting winning tee gifts, prizes, and entertainment, we break down the entire process. We cover critical details...

Want to crush your next 4-person scramble and be the ultimate golf tournament partner? In this first-ever Tournament T-Time Series, I’m joined by the phenomenal Phyllis Haberer, 2025 Club Champion and President of the Durand Eastman Women's Golf Club, to break down real-time strategy, mindset, and teamwork that wins tournaments. We dive into Scramble rules and strategies to maximize your team’s st...

Want to be the perfect golf tournament partner? In this episode of T-Time, I’m joined by Phyllis Haberer, 2025 Club Champion and President of the Durand Eastman Women's Golf Club, to reveal the mindset and strategies that make a winning duo. We’re talking energy, attitude, and the little things that make a big difference when you’re playing side by side with someone. Phyllis shares her tried-and-t...

In this episode of T-Time, Alixandra Chesno from ShopAlix drops in to talk about tournament merch, fashion, and gear. Looking into planning a themed tournament for your club? We’ll share some inspiration, including swag ideas and decor to create memorable experiences. From tennis pro to golf fashion mogul, Alix shares how she built a brand that’s changing women’s golf style, and we bring back The...

In this episode of T-Time, I’m pulling back the curtain on the 2026 Creek Cup at Bandon Dunes, and let me tell you, it was magic - the highs, the laughs, and the moments that made it unforgettable. Want to know which Creek Cup location you should get to next? We rank our favorite past tournaments and locations. We kicked things off with the most important decision of the week: our tournament masco...

In this episode of T-Time, golf coach and performance expert Justin Klemballa returns to reveal his proven P.A.R. Method, a mental and practical framework every golfer needs to dominate the upcoming season. Whether you're aiming to break 90, win your club championship, or simply enjoy the game more, Justin breaks down how you can achieve your goals.  Discover why just making bogey might be th...

In today’s episode, we’re sitting down with Carly Gilleland, the creative force behind The Good Vibe Studios, to talk all about what went into creating The Making of the Desert Classic, our 6-part behind-the-scenes documentary following Arizona’s biggest women’s golf tournament. We talk about the chaos, creativity, and real-time problem solving that comes with filming something this big, including...

I'm sitting down with Evan Singer, co-founder of The Par Train, and we’re diving into the Masters Tournament at Augusta National. We’ll get into the deeper layers of the game, from course design to player psychology, and the emotional journey of the sport. What makes Augusta National such a unique challenge? We look at the evolving back nine, the planned rollbacks, and the public perceptions of so...

I’m so excited to be back on the podcast! We’re recording brand new episodes and will start dropping them weekly. In this episode, Ashley and I fill you in on what’s been happening behind the scenes and what exciting things are coming next – thanks for listening!   Watch this episode on YouTube! For more information on our 2026 & 2027 retreats and tournaments, please visit: CompeteConfide...

"Down the middle, down the middle, chip one putt." That was the mantra Phylly sang in her head throughout her breakthrough club championship win at Durand Eastman, Rochester's notoriously difficult municipal course. After years of close calls, including a tough shank into the water on the 16th hole during a Florida club championship, Phylly finally broke through. She entered day two tied for third...

"You wake up at 5:20, you put your tee in the ground, you hit your shot, and then the four of you walk off to the ball and you hit it again, and you keep on going. It's very simplistic. You go left foot, right foot until you're finished. 72 holes." Jason has tackled one of golf's most brutal endurance tests 13 times: the Bandon Solstice. This isn't your casual weekend round. Participants play 72 h...

Justin Klemballa tackled one of the most grueling endurance challenges out there – the 29029 Everting event at Jackson Hole. For those unfamiliar, this isn't your typical weekend hike. Participants climb a mountain 19 times in 36 hours to reach the equivalent height of Mount Everest (29,029 feet). You read that right – 19 times up the same brutal mountain. It's steep as hell and requires the most...

Today, I’m sitting with Debbie O'Connell to discuss the profound impact of state of mind on your golf game.   To Debbie, maintaining a positive mind is just as critical as a well-executed swing. She illustrates the power of mental fortitude through Amy Bockerstette's inspiring performance, explains how you can use positive self-talk and body language to boost your confidence on the course, an...

We’re joined by returning guest Donna Taylor, a veteran of the golf world and a yoga instructor who specializes in helping women enhance their skills on the golf course. With her unique approach, Donna has managed to make golf lessons more accessible and fun. She shares how her dad, a pioneer in the sport, inspired her and her childhood friend Julianne—who’s also joining us on the podcast today—to...

Who would have thought that a career in international supply chain logistics could lead to the launch of a sustainable golf clothing line? Today, I’m sitting down with Ali Putnam, a mom to five boys and the founder of A. Putnam, ”a luxury resort-to-sport brand for women that honors the traditions of golf”. Like most female golfers, Ali was frustrated at the extremely limited choices she had when i...

“You have to play golf to get better at it. Being out on the golf course is so crucial–you have to put yourself in an uncomfortable position to get more comfortable at it.”   Justin Klemballa is back to talk about how golfers can crush the 75 Hard Challenge and come out physically and mentally tougher than ever!   Listen in as Justin walks us through his morning routine to show how he us...

Today I’m sitting down with Jen Weiler, Senior Vice President of Network Relations at First Tee, a nonprofit dedicated to teaching kids life skills and building their character through the game of golf!   “At First Tee,” Jen says, “we believe that character is what you bring to everything you do; but you aren’t born with it.”   With 150 chapters across the country, the coaches at First T...