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She talks about the other woman. How the Blackman uses her to escape reality. she talks about how he uses sex to basically shut his wife and her up.

In this section she gets a little sexual as she describes the blackman and his so called big penis stereotype. I laugh as now I think that's why he wants the whitewoman because she ain't never had too much and if he don't measure up to what society thinks of him, she will still thinks he's the best. Lol that is just me talking.

What stood out to me in this section was when she talked about Fatherhood. I never really thought about the blackman not having a chance to really bond with his kid since there is normally a breakup and the mother downs him.

The author gets deeper into understanding the relationships between the blackman and the blackwoman. She points out how the blackwoman makes the blackman feel worthless and most of the time they rather flee.

This chapter starts off talking about how blackmen deal with relationships. She explains why they blame the blackwoman for their shortcomings.

The author mentions several Blackmen that formed their own religious organizations in opposition to slavery taught Christianity. She ends by talking about the ego of the Blackman playing a huge part in him not facing up to the fact that he has been misguided for hundreds of years. The solution is that he be re educated. He has to wipe his brain clean of all the falsehood.

She begins to talk about Jesus and how the bible speaks little about the history of the man. We know little facts like he was born in a manger with two parent home etc. She then talks how the supernatural things added makes us pay more attention. Immaculate conception, rose from dead.

She just goes deeper into the misguided religion that was forced on the Black man. She goes into the bible and points out verses that the whiteman used to trick the blackman into staying submissive to their wordly Master. "love your enemy" "turn the other cheek"

This section focused on the history of religion and how Christianity was put into the minds of the slaves. She talks about how the slaves sung negro spirituals that were made by slaves who before being able to fully speak the English language, were crying out and trying to get back to Africa. They would then connect songs with their new brainwashed teaching that they would die and be happy. Death...

She talks about lack of rehab and how crack cocaine is very hard to get off of.

This Chapter is titled The Law 911 She does a great job with the statistics in this chapter. She points out that there are too many blackmen incarcerated to be a small part of America.

She gets into entertainment in this section. I like how she compares the role of the Blackman in Good Times (James) verses The Cosby Show (Cliff)

What stood out to me in this part was her mentioning that the Blackman because of his superiority in physical strength was still being treated like he was in slavery for entertainment purposes of the whiteman. Now he gets a pat on the butt and a big paycheck which normally pairs him with a white woman.

This chapter is titled recreation. She describes how the playing sports and other games is deemed as great but has a negative impact on the blackman

I love how the author talks about pulling our resources together to own our own stores, restaurants etc in our own neighborhoods. She points out how easy it seems to be for Chinese people and others to settle in the black neighborhoods with their stores. They heard that black people were some of the biggest consumers even with little money. We help others get rich and stay rich while watching our...

The author may touch a few nerves as she points out some of the excuses that the blackman has become accustomed to using and the truth of how he acts on the jobsite. I think that she is brave for telling the truth especially since she is trying to bring understanding to the blackwoman and guide her to being able to be with her blackman again. Maybe if we understood them, they wouldn't run and...

This chapter brought me to tears and made me commit deeper to loving my blackmen in my life. My husband, father, brothers, grandsons, nephews, cousins and more. When you are reading this chapter, you can clearly see that some huge systematic way of life was not for the original man of the planet.

She is getting deeper into the conditioning of the blackman. She mentions how he is not treated equal on a job and made to feel as though he would rather not work.

This chapter is dealing with employment conditions of the Blackman. She uses a great resource in stating the huge wage gap between other races and the blackman. The hardest worker is at the bottom and still is today in America

She discusses how whitemen have always had a way of educating their men without interference of others. She suggests that blackmen need to stop asking for support of white people in order to achieve success.

She get's into how important it is to have our own schools as black people here in America. How some tried but was rejected.

This chapter focuses on the education problem of the Blackman/ She talks about how every since integration in 1954 the Blackman has been on the lowest level of the educational scores.

When the Blackman adapted the saying by Malcolm X "By all means neccessary", did he mean it? It seems that communicating some beliefs are not followed through with action. Some things that are said like war against the whiteman is impossible without certain things in place. She goes into the things that it takes to fight a physical war and that most that talk about it can only be talking...

In this section she talks about why the Blackman exaggerates the truth often or has become a habitual liar. Especially about subjects that will make him be viewed as small by society if they only knew the truth.

I learned something very important from this section. The author pointed out that most of the arguments between the blackwoman and blackman is because of their inability to understand eachother's dialect. This causes confusion. She goes deeper and blames it on the messed up fragmented English language.