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We're joined by Sean Taylor (@heyseantaylor) from Season 1 of The Circle!!! We talk about her time on The Circle, fat representation in reality TV, and learn the story of how she met her boyfriend. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why is it easier to hook up with an extremely hot guy than with an average dude? We dig into social currency and how it affects our relationships.   Tiktok we discuss is by: @queenreenuka   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Let's talk about sexts, baby! Alex is in two sexting situationships, we get details on those, talk sexting rules, our preferred ways of doing it, and our regrets. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is a true look into a typical Alex & Nicci conversation that jumps between ghosts, shaming, pimps, and MMA. The bulk of our discussion is shaming which stems from Tess Holiday being named one of the "worst beach bodies" and we talk about how it's affected us and our relationships. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/priv...

This week we’re joined by body-positive sex educator Elle Chase @theellechase. We talk body confidence, sex positions, and even get some personal advice! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We get an update on Alex's second date she told us about last week and then dive into the worst dates you all have been on! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

While out at a bar Nicci was accosted by a drunk woman and then she was given an unsolicited pep talk that Alex got unwillingly dragged into.  This starts a discussion about people commenting on our bodies because of their internalized fatphobia and then we open up about our own internalized thoughts. We also give a listener some advice after she sent us a DM seeking help with battling her insecur...

We're back and we have updates!! A lot has changed in two weeks! Alex and Nicci recap their vacation, they had some adventures, we get dating updates, one went to an astrologer and the other got a drawing of their future partner from a psychic and they both open up about feeling a little insecure at the moment - but in different ways.   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Priva...

We're joined by Megan (@msgiggles) who is a content creator, fat activist, business owner and OnlyFans content creator. We talk about dating after the pandemic, what Megan's looking for in a partner, OnlyFans, she gives us her dating tips and Alex gives us a Happy Endings update! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are Chubby Chasing and having a Fat Fetish the same? We're joined again by Cheyenne M. Davis (@cheymodee) to get her take on it, she drops more wisdom on us and we get a dating update from Alex. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's our 30th episode, so we thought it'd be fun to get your assumptions about us. You didn't hold back! And Alex has a dating update. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We find out about Nicci's weekend with her visitor, get an update on Colorado, take an Attachment Style quiz, dig into our results and how they affect us. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nicci got sent a boomerang, we get an update on Alex's weekend and we're joined by Natalie Drue AKA @nataliemeansnice!!! We talk all about her dating journey and the lessons she learned, dating mantras, being fat-shamed while traveling, Mouth to South and so much more!! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We wrote an article for HuffPo called "This Is What It's Really Like To Date While Fat." The trolls in the comment section had lots of issues with us, so let's break down the article and see if we minced any of our words!    READ IT HERE: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/dating-while-fat-alex-stewart-nicci-nunez_n_6096e16de4b0aead1b846ab9 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/...

Dating in the Modern Age has wrapped and filming brought up a lot of feelings for us. We discuss those, feeling alone and our long-distance situations.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Rosey Blair (@roseybeeme) hosted our Dating in the Modern Age Reunion so we had her on to talk about the show, her dating journey, how she ended up with her now fiance, Houston, and fat people in the media. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We asked for questions and you delivered! We answer questions about dating, body confidence, sex, grief and so much more. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dating in the Modern Age recap, Nicci is told her body is disgusting on the bus which turns into a conversation on negging.  We discuss the difference between negging and guys having awful "locker room" talk. And then that turns into a discussion about how we don't feel safe in the world. Also, there's a little Ted talk. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy &...

We dive into Fat Fishing, the insecurities we have from the trauma of guys on apps thinking we misrepresent our body (WHICH WE DON'T), and if we think there should be body preference options on dating apps. We jump all over the place in this episode but it's a fun ride! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On this episode we dive into why we keep dating guys we're not that into, what we want out of a relationship, stalk freezing eggs and PCOS, and we come up with our new dating mantra. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Part 2 with Tony P from @weightsinthewings on TikTok.  We talk guys jumping into DMs, why he thinks you should wait to have sex, he diagnoses Nicci with intimacy issues, we learn about a new sex toy and what a FUPA actually is, and a lot more! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We have on Tony P aka @weightsinthewings who does Plus Size Q&As from a guy's perspective on TikTok! We talk about fat preference vs. fat fetish, how he's always been attracted to plus-size women, Nicci gets a little too heated over a couple of his videos, but by the end, we're all friends and getting sex position advice from him.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brand...

We find out if Alex completed her challenge from the last episode and then dive into all things SEX BA-BY! How do we navigate it as fat women? What was our first time like? Did we have a sexual awakening? What struggles do we have to overcome while having it? How do you have a conversation about concerns? We open up about it all.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-O...

Fat women are either ostracized or over-sexualized which can lead to being a sexual late bloomer. Alex shares her experience with being over-sexualized at a young age and Nicci talks about how bullying affected her relationship with men. We take a big turn and talk about eating disorders and how our relationship with food has affected us with men. Alex admits that she thinks every guy that likes h...

We dish on our reactions to the first episode of Dating in the Modern Age and then dive into thin privilege - how we were treated differently when we were thinner, struggles that straight-sized people don't have to think about, Alex discusses what it's like to travel and be adventurous in a fat body and Nicci opens up that she is nervous for a date this weekend. Advertising Inquiries: http...