A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

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A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.  https://ajmahari.ca/sessions https://ajmahari.ca/gottatal k - After Hours https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts https://survivngbpdbreakup.com

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Latest episode

May 10, 2026

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Episodes

BPD Relationships BPD Ex Carlos On His Experience Dating and Breaking Up 16.06.2021

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups - BPD Ex Carlos On His Experience Dating and Breaking Up with a woman with Borderline Personality. Carolos has some very empowering and positive experience to share near the end of this episode. If you want to be interviewed and/or share your story please go to https://ajmahari.ca/contact and email A.J. Mahari.

BPD Ex A Man Beaten Abused Discarded and in Legal Appeal To See His Son 15.06.2021

A.J. Mahari interviews a man who was in a relationship and marriage with a Borderline woman. He was beaten, raged at, discarded, and is currently appealing a court ruling that has left him without seeing his son for over 2 years. He divorced the BPD wife, now Ex, there was a brief relationship recycle try and as all-too-many men know the courts most of the time do not understand untreated BPD and...

BPD Male Instant Trauma Bond Dynamics With Codependent Woman Mary's Story 08.06.2021

Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari shares insight into BPD Male Instant Trauma Bond Dynamics With Codependent Woman Mary who shares her story and experience with a man with BPD and her Codependency.. Many people ho are or were in a relationship with someone with BPD have Codependency.

BPD Relationships and Breakups Man with 6 BPD Breakups Interviewed 05.06.2021

Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach, A.J. Mahari, Interviews Mikael, a man who has been in 6 relationship with 6 different Borderline Women and has Survived 6 BPD Breakups. He is currently aware he has codependency and is 60 days full no contact from his last BPD Ex.

BPD & Mental Health Challenges Mother's Day Movie Writer Director Travis Carlson Interview 19.04.2021

BPD & Mental Health Challenges "Mother's Day" Writer Director Travis Carlson Interview. Travis Carlson talks about his movie and his experiences with his mother and Mental Health Challenges. This movie is a must-see!

BPD Mother Adult Child Codependent Independent Movie Must See Interview Coming and More on The Movie 15.04.2021

BPD Mother Codependent Son and the pain in between Independent Movie All Will Relate to "Mother's Day" and his experience. A son trying to help his mother see her impulsive decisions and a Mother who thinks all black or all white and who needs to be parented. A mother who is fear based and can't even train her dog properly. A mother struggling - it it BPD?

BPD Relationship Dynamics with Codependents Projection and Introjection 09.04.2021

BPD Relationship Dynamics with Codependents Projection and Introjection is explained more in depth and A.J. Mahari has a course coming that goes even more in depth designed for people with Codependency needing to break the trauma bond with a person with BPD and who will benefit from their own healing and recovery journey. Included Melanie Klein's Phantasy that addresses the beginning of life in an...

Borderline Communication Impossibility 30.03.2021

It is next to impossible to communicate with a person with untreated BPD in any and all attempts to seek closure and reparation of any BPD Episode. BPD communication impossibility ends up in accruing pain and confusion for loved ones or Ex's and often leads to the "J.A.D.E. Conversation".

BPD Breakup Codependency Trauma Bond Not Caused or Resolved By Focusing on Attachment Styles 20.03.2021

A commenter on a video on my Youtube Channel (as a few have recently) asked about Attachment Style vs Codependency. It is Codependent denial to think that the trauma bond with a borderline was caused by or can be resolved by a focus on the non-borderline's attachment style. Also explained in this episode is the impossibility of a relationship with someone with untreated Borderline Personality Diso...

BPD Relationship Breakups and Recycling 5 Reasons 07.03.2021

Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup means not re-cycling the relationships one or more times as many people do. 5 Reasons why BPD Ex's re-cycle back into these relationships. Codependency makes it even more challenging to break the trauma bond.

BPD Breakup Codependent Protective Patterns Inhibit Recovery 07.03.2021

BPD Breakups Codependent Protective Patterns Inhibit Your Recovery - From a Live Stream on A.J. Mahari's Youtube Channel. Codependency recovery is painful as is recovery from the BPD Breakup.

Borderlines Playing the Victim Are Borderlines Professional Victims 07.03.2021

Do Borderlines play the victim? Are Borderlines professional victims. Where that victim mentality comes from and how it more often than not is an unconscious repetition compulsion. What does this mean if you have been abused by someone with BPD?

BPD and Codependency defined and explained 14.02.2021

Understanding BPD and a definition of Codependency that helps people understand the trauma bonds of these unhealthy relationships. Why people with Codependency need to heal in therapy to survive a BPD Relationship Breakup.

Borderline Magical Thinking Explained 06.02.2021

Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari explains Borderline Magical Thinking

Borderline Behavior and Abuse No Shared Objective Reality 31.01.2021

Why do people with Borderline Personality especially untreated behave like they often due, abuse you, not ever take responsibility for that. Another relational impossibility is that people with BPD until and unless significantly treated cannot share objective reality with you.

BPD Ex's Codependents Needing Next Relationship after BPD Without Recovery Not Healthy 26.12.2020

Too many BPD Ex's Codependents Need To Rush To Next Relationship Before Recovery which is not healthy, practical or wise. It is often many people with Codependency continuing to avoid their own needed healing and recovery and continuing to abandon themselves.

3 Stages of the BPD Relationship 25.12.2020
BPD Relationships Begin to End From the Start 25.12.2020
In Search of Intimacy with A Borderline 04.11.2020

In search of intimacy with an untreated person with Borderline Personality proves to be relationship ending one way or the other sooner if not later. People with BPD untreated are not capable of emotional intimacy.

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