Super Secret Dad Club

In this episode, we get back into some highs and lows of a recent work trip and recap our eclipse experiences. We discuss our experiences and emphasize the importance of using gentle parenting techniques as well as two quasi-clueless dads can. This episode features our "Would You Rather" question: "Would you rather always know what your kid is thinking or have the ability to communi...

In Ep. 25 we tackle the intriguing Hygge Question, "If you could see into the future, how far ahead would you want to see?" as we navigate through the milestones of parenting and the essence of parental check-ins. From pondering the possibilities of glimpsing our children's futures to sharing firsthand experiences of their significant 'firsts,' we dive into the emotional and...

In this episode, we dive into our journey of balancing home renovation projects, managing household chores, and maintaining a healthy work-life balance—all within the confines of our weekends. We share our strategies on leveraging credit card points for savings on home improvements, the challenges we face with specific renovation tasks, and how we strike a balance between the endless cycle of hous...

In this episode, we dive into a "Would You Rather" segment with a unique parenting twist, debating over the choice between a magical bedtime routine that ensures our kids fall asleep instantly or a cure for all temper tantrums. Our conversation naturally unfolds to cover a broad spectrum of parenting challenges, including the trials of managing tantrums, the struggle of adjusting sleep s...

In this episode, we navigate the complexities of parenting, digital detox, and the pursuit of personal betterment. We share our experiences with adjusting our children's sleep schedules after daylight saving time, leading to broader discussions on phone usage, the impact of news consumption, and the challenges of political polarization on mental health. We also delve into personal stories of f...

In Ep. 21, we blend the worlds of dad and mom communities through candid conversations on the complexities of parenting, the beauty of morning routines, and the ever-persistent challenge of finding balance in work-from-home life. Special guest Bethany, Derek's wife, joins us for the much-anticipated "Go Ask Your Mother" segment, where she offers a refreshing perspective on motherhood...

In episode 20, we explore the fascinating idea of introducing an extra month into the calendar and share where we would ideally place this 13th month. We also dive into our personal morning routines, our coffee brewing preferences, and the strategies we've developed for navigating work-from-home life effectively. Additionally, we discuss the ins and outs of parenting, how to strike a balance b...

In this episode, we dive into the world of DIY projects, chores, and power tools . We tackle the Hygge question: "What song defines our generation?" and Pete gives an update on his current Screen Time Detox. From sharing our favorite tracks to navigating the highs and lows of home renovations, we explore the unique intersection of modern fatherhood and hands-on tasks around the house. ⁠J...

In episode 18, we kick off our new segment "Go Ask Your Mother" where we hear the perspectives of moms to help bridge the gap between parental viewpoints. Our inaugural guest is none other than Pete's wife, Rhiannon. We navigate the world of parenting with our signature blend of humor and real-life anecdotes, tackling everything from making dad friends at gymnastics class to childhoo...

In episode 17, we tackle the challenges of single parenting when our wives were sidelined by illness, leaving us to navigate the ups and downs of solo childcare amidst our already hectic lives. From bedtime battles to managing household tasks, we discuss the struggles and triumphs of fatherhood during trying times. Join us as we share our experiences, coping mechanisms, and the importance of findi...

In episode 16, we catch up on parenting and toddler activities, sharing our experiences with sleep deprivation and early morning wake-ups. Pete receives a surprise gift - a Tom DeLonge signature Stratocaster guitar from his family, adding an emotional touch to the conversation. We discuss introducing after-dinner activities like yoga and tumbling into our routines to help our kids develop balance...

In this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking Hygge question of the day: "Should advertising to children be prohibited?" We explore the complexities of this issue, considering how targeted ads affect young minds and their implications for parents. Alongside this, we address a pressing concern for modern adults – the necessity of a screen time detox. We candidly discuss our experience...

In this episode, we take you through the highs and lows of being a stay-at-home dad while juggling the demands of working from home. We kick things off with a hilarious trip down memory lane, reminiscing about the best $100 purchases we've ever made. Then, we dive deep into the world of remote work, exploring its benefits and challenges, especially when you're parenting at the same time. F...

In episode 13, we embark on a candid discussion about our journey as dads striving for perfection in the digital age. From navigating baby gender reveals and challenging gendered clothing norms to the impact of technology on parenting and screen time concerns, we discuss the complexities of modern fatherhood. We also explore the influence of the internet on our parenting styles, from seeking advic...

In episode 12, we dive into the world of children's music and have a great 'Would You Rather?" question. Join us as we discuss the impact of children's music on kids, explore coping strategies for pet loss while parenting, and ponder the challenges of always having the right words for our children. From embracing lifelong learning to nurturing children's musical talents, we&#3...

In episode 11, we dive into the question: Do millennial dads spend more time with their kids compared to previous generations? We explore insights from a thought-provoking article, engage in a fun 'Would you rather?' game, and tackle a new Hyggee question of the day. Our conversation delves into the changing dynamics of fatherhood in the modern era and the unique challenges faced by today&...

In Episode 10 of 'The Super Secret Dad Club,' we dive into the world of Internet Parenting. Pete and Derek, discuss whether we're evolving as parents in the digital age or simply overloaded. Join us as we explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting in the 21st century, with a particular focus on the impact of the internet. We discuss baby data tracking apps, screen time limits, an...

In episode 09 "Dynamics of Partnerships and Parenting Roles", we kick things off by diving into the intricacies of balancing the roles of mom and dad versus husband and wife. While sharing relatable stories and anecdotes, we'll navigate the ups and downs of parenthood, all while maintaining our strong partnership. From humorous food escapades to the challenges of parenting, we explor...

In Episode 08 of The Super Secret Dad Club, we're diving headfirst into the unpredictable world of parenting, where milestones and challenges often come unannounced. Pete and Derek candidly share their hilarious experiences, from Jack's Halloween costume escapades to messy toddler accidents. Get ready for an honest conversation about sleep deprivation, self-doubt, and finding the balance b...

In "Breaking Family Traditions," episode 07 of the podcast dives into the dynamic nature of family customs as hosts discuss the personal shift away from long-held traditions to create their own. The episode begins with a brief segment inspired by the Hygge question of the day, touching on solo travel aspirations. It swiftly transitions into the core discussion of evolving holiday practic...

In episode 06, "Rediscovering Hobbies as Dads," Pete and Derek tackle the familiar parental challenge of maintaining personal hobbies amidst the hustle of family life. Prompted by a dad forum's insights into fathers feeling adrift during rare free moments, they explore the act of carving out time for personal interests. From buying a family-suited Chevy Trailblazer to navigating play...

In Episode 05, "Confronting Dad Loneliness," Pete and Derek tackle the nuanced topic of isolation in fatherhood. They open up about their children's developmental milestones, with Pete sharing Lacey's progress in story comprehension and Derek noting Jack's use of signs. Both hosts revel in the joys of witnessing their toddlers’ growth. The core of the episode focuses on the l...

In Episode 04, Pete and Derek delve into the intricacies of fatherhood, setting parenting expectations, and the challenges that come with it. From the simple joys of improved nap schedules and transitioning to solid foods, to the highs and lows of balancing personal identity with their roles as dads, the episode gives a candid look into modern fatherhood. The duo touches on various topics, from na...

In Episode 03, Pete and Derek dive deep into the rollercoaster of parenting and the unique challenges of traveling with young children. They openly share their individual experiences, from witnessing their children's milestones like walking and talking, to the highs and lows of family adventures on the road. The duo offers travel hacks, including clever ways to keep kids occupied during trips...

In this episode of The Super Secret Dad Club, hosts Pete and Derek delve into the complexities of celebrating birthdays as parents. Reflecting on their own experiences and comparing childhood birthday memories, they explore the changing dynamics of birthdays in different generations. They discuss the pressure of hosting the perfect party, sharing funny anecdotes, and the emotional impact of seeing...