Sue Me Later

What happens when abuse leaves no bruises? In this episode of Sue Me Later, Hayder Shkara sits down with family lawyer Amy Pattle to discuss coercive control, one of the most misunderstood and difficult forms of domestic and family violence. Coercive control often occurs behind closed doors and can involve manipulation, isolation, intimidation, monitoring, financial control, emotional abuse, and p...

Are Australians about to face inheritance tax by stealth? The proposed changes to testamentary trusts could have a major impact on how families pass wealth to the next generation. For years, testamentary trusts have been used as part of estate planning to protect assets, provide flexibility, and manage tax outcomes for children and beneficiaries. But if the rules change, your will may not work the...

Thinking about studying in Australia? Before you choose a course, you need to understand where that course is actually taking you. Too many international students enrol first and ask questions later. They spend thousands of dollars, commit years of their life, and only then realise their study pathway may not lead to the visa or migration outcome they were hoping for. In this video, we explain why...

What actually happened after the ISIS Brides and children returned from camps in Syria to Australia? One woman is facing terrorism-related charges (including allegedly entering or remaining in a “declared area” and alleged membership of a terrorist organisation). Two others are facing some of the most serious allegations you can see in an Australian courtroom: slavery offences and “crimes against...

Buying property is exciting, but it can also be expensive if you miss the wrong details. In this video, I break down 3 costly mistakes property buyers make and what you should watch out for before signing a contract, paying a deposit, or committing to a purchase. These mistakes can lead to unexpected costs, delays, disputes, or serious regret after settlement. We cover: Why you need to understand...

I break down the Interim Report of the Royal Commission on Antisemitism and Social Cohesion. This report was released while criminal proceedings are still underway, which means the Commission is legally limited in what it can reveal publicly. So instead of a full blow-by-blow narrative, the public version focuses on the systems behind national security: how intelligence is handled, how agencies sh...

Can you actually go to jail for what you say in Australia? In this video, I break down: What hate speech actually means under Australian law The difference between offensive speech vs illegal speech When your words can cross the line into criminal conduct And where free speech really stands in Australia today This is about understanding the law so you don’t accidentally find yourself on the wrong...

You’ve been arrested. Now what? Most people think they know what to do… They don’t. And in the first few minutes after an arrest, one wrong move can make your situation a lot worse. In this video, I break down the 7 things you need to remember if you’re ever arrested in Australia. 👉 What you say will be used against you 👉 What you do next actually matters 👉 And most people get it completely wro...

In this video, I respond to some of the claims I have heard online about the Roberts-Smith case. How the outcome of the defamation trial matters Does indemnity automatically destroy a witness’s credibility? Do the rules of engagement override the laws of armed conflict? This isn’t about picking a team. It’s about understanding how the rule of law actually works when allegations are this serious. T...

In this podcast, I break down the recent court decision that struck down New South Wales’ protest laws and why it matters more than most people realize. These laws were introduced quickly, with the intention of giving police broader powers to control protests. But when tested in court, they didn’t hold up. So what went wrong? It’s about the limits of government power. It’s about how far the law ca...

The case against Ben Roberts-Smith is shaping up to be one of the most difficult prosecutions Australia has ever attempted. In this video, I break down the real problems with this case from the perspective of an Australian lawyer. Once you strip away the media coverage - what you’re left with is a prosecution that faces serious legal and practical hurdles: – Allegations coming out of a war zone, y...

Ben Roberts-Smith is back in court with his bail application.  In this video, I break down what actually happened at the bail application, what the court is considering, and why this stage of the case is far more important than most people realise. We go through: What Roberts-Smith has been charged with The legal test for bail in Australia The key arguments his lawyers are likely making The risks...

If you’re going through a separation or thinking about starting family law proceedings, the process can feel overwhelmin and confusing. In this video, I break down the entire family court process in Australia from start to finish. ⚖️ What we cover: -What happens before court even starts -Filing an application in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia -The first court event and what to e...

Domestic and family violence in Australia doesn’t always look the way people expect. It doesn’t always involve sirens, shouting, or visible injuries. In this video, I break down what domestic and family violence really looks like, how common it is, why leaving is one of the most dangerous moments, and where Australia’s systems succeed, and fail, in keeping people safe. Using national data, real ca...

How do Australian courts really decide parenting cases? If you think it comes down to who is the “better parent” or whether parenting will be 50/50, you’re not alone. But that’s not how the Family Court actually works. In this video, I break down how judges make parenting decisions in Australia, what the court really focuses on, and the biggest myths that cause parents to misunderstand their own c...

I know most people have heard the horror stories of estate planning gone wrong. In this episode, we break down what really happens to your assets when you pass away and why so many people get it wrong.  Too often, people delay estate planning because it feels uncomfortable or complicated.  The reality?  Not having a plan is what creates the real problems! We discuss: What a will actually does (and...

Going through a high conflict divorce with a narcissist? You’ve probably seen these all too familiar patterns. I’m Hayder Shkara, Australian family lawyer, and in this video I break down what I call the Narcissist Playbook in Divorce - the predictable tactics narcissists use to manipulate, control, and exhaust their former partners.   I’ll show you how to recognise things like charm offensives, ga...

Buying or selling a property isn’t just about finding the right price it’s about understanding the legal risks that can cost you thousands if something goes wrong. In this episode, Hayder Shkara sits down with Vanessa Anderson from CJC Law, an experienced Queensland conveyancer, to unpack what really happens behind the scenes of a property transaction and the mistakes buyers and sellers often don’...

In this episode, we sit down with Toni Whitaker, an experienced succession and estate lawyer, to uncover one of the most misunderstood areas of law: what really happens when someone passes away without a will or an appointed executor. Toni explains how poor estate planning can create stress, legal battles, and unexpected costs for families. She shares why appointing an executor is critical, what c...

In this episode, we sit down with Gerard Pander, a third-generation Ipswich lawyer whose family has been shaping the local community for almost a century. From growing up inside a small family law firm to becoming a trusted advisor and long-serving hospice board member, Gerard shares a powerful story of legacy, service, and what it truly means to practice law with purpose. He opens up about: 🔹 Be...

In today’s episode, we sit down with criminal lawyer Julianne to break down one of the most important legal topics: What should you do if the police arrest you? Many people panic, say the wrong things, or feel pressured to “explain themselves.” But legally, that can lead to big problems. In this episode, we go step-by-step through what happens during an arrest, what the police MUST tell you, what...

In this episode of the podcast, we go deep into a part of the legal world most people only hear about in whispers — debt collection. Our guest, Kirsten, has spent 19 years in insolvency and debt recovery, handling everything from modest unpaid bills to multimillion-dollar defaults. She explains the real difference between debtors who can’t pay and those who won’t, and why that distinction matters...

The holiday season can be one of the most challenging times for separated parents. Family traditions, travel plans, and the pressure to “make Christmas perfect” can lead to conflict if there isn’t a clear parenting arrangement in place. In this episode, Hayder and Dannielle Young talk about how to plan Christmas parenting arrangements in a calm, child-focused way. They discuss the importance of pa...

Buying a property is one of the biggest financial decisions you’ll ever make — but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.  In this episode, Solicitor Sneha Chand shares her insights on how conveyancers and property lawyers simplify the legal process and protect buyers every step of the way. Hosted by Hayder Shkara, this conversation dives into what really happens behind the scenes — from reviewing co...