Success Secrets and Stories

Send us Fan Mail Public speaking gets labeled as “stage work,” but for most of us it shows up in conference rooms, staff meetings, budget reviews, project updates, and the moments when a leader has to be clear under pressure. John Wandolowski and Greg Powell dig into a different way to think about presentation skills: it is not a performance, it is an engagement. When we stop trying to sound impre...

Send us Fan Mail AI can write your resume in seconds. AI can also reject your application in seconds. The hard part is the question nobody wants to own: when an algorithm screens people out, who is responsible for the damage it can cause? We dig into the real-world legal and leadership stakes behind AI in hiring, including the warning shot from the Workday case and how automated scoring and sortin...

Send us Fan Mail Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like a capable person still hitting deadlines while quietly losing sleep, losing humor, and losing the feeling that their day is theirs. Greg and I start with that familiar late-night moment: one last email, a new problem, and the steady pressure that keeps your nervous system switched on. From there, we break down...

Send us Fan Mail A hiring freeze hits, overtime gets cut, deadlines don’t move, and suddenly every manager hears the same message: make do with what you have. We start with a real factory-floor moment where the pressure is obvious, the team is tired, and the work still has to ship. Then we share the twist: performance improves anyway, not by adding people, but by growing people. We dig into Manage...

Send us Fan Mail A missed deadline can feel like disrespect, but it often starts with something far less dramatic: an expectation nobody ever agreed to. We open with a simple workplace story a budget report “due Monday” that someone thought was due Wednesday and use it to expose how easily leaders create conflict through vague requests, inherited norms, and unspoken rules. Our goal is practical le...

Send us Fan Mail We would like to announce Dr. Durst and I have created a new leadership novel, The Fifth Gear of Leadership: A Leader’s Transformation , built around the MBR program and written for people who learn best through story, pressure, and choices that actually feel familiar. The Fifth Gear book walk through why a narrative can teach leadership development better than a list of tips. Our...

Send us Fan Mail Blame is easy, but it’s expensive. When teams live in “they did it to me,” deadlines slip, trust erodes, and coaching turns into policing. John Wandolowski and Greg Powell get real about human-centered leadership using Dr. Durst’s Management By Responsibility (MBR) framework, starting with one shift that changes everything: moving from effect to cause by owning our response, even...

Send us Fan Mail Time is the one thing even the richest people can’t buy more of, and that truth changes how we think about leadership. Greg and I dig into why “more valuable than gold” isn’t a slogan, it’s a real compass for your career, your family, and the choices you make when nobody is watching. If you’ve ever felt the middle of life speeding up while you’re just trying to keep up, this conve...

Send us Fan Mail Being a manager right now can feel like getting squeezed from every direction: bigger goals, tighter budgets, fewer people, and a job description that quietly expands until it’s impossible. We talk about that reality head-on and name what so many leaders are living through: super manager syndrome, where you become strategist, coach, analyst, motivator, crisis manager, and the pers...

Send us Fan Mail “It’s not my fault” can be a fact, but it’s also a trap. When teams lead with explanations instead of ownership, responsibility gets diluted, problems get escalated, and leaders turn into bottlenecks. John Wondolowski and Greg Powell break down how that pattern forms and why it’s so common in otherwise smart, hardworking organizations. Greg and I use Dr. Durst’s Management By Resp...

Send us Fan Mail Your team is telling you the truth every day, but not always with words. When leaders treat silence as satisfaction, careers stall, engagement drops, and “development” turns into a once-a-year checkbox. Greg and I talk through the Management by Responsibility (MBR) mindset and why leadership is about accountability for employee growth, safety, and long-term well-being. From there,...

Send us Fan Mail The resume is neat, confident, and full of bullet points. The reality is a human being who shows up on Monday morning, and sometimes that gap is not a gap at all, it is a canyon. Greg and I talk about why skills may get someone hired, but character is what decides whether they last, especially once the pressure hits and the probationary period ends. We dig into “interview theater,...

Send us Fan Mail The fastest way to derail a leadership interview is to treat it like a normal promotion chat. We open with the question that decides more careers than people want to admit: “Why do you want to be a leader?” Then Greg and I unpack what interviewers are really listening for in those first few minutes and how your answer signals maturity, motivation, and readiness before you’ve even...

Send us Fan Mail Leadership doesn’t usually fail because someone lacks skill. It fails when pressure shows up, trade-offs get real, and doing the right thing costs time, comfort, popularity, or control. That’s where character shows itself, and where a lot of leaders discover that integrity and character are not the same thing. Greg and I break down a simple but powerful distinction: integrity is c...

Send us Fan Mail Your career was never meant to be a straight line, and trying to force it into one is where a lot of stress begins. Greg and I break down a simple model that instantly makes work feel more navigable: business cycles and career cycles move through expansion, peak, contraction, and bottom phases. When you can name the phase you are in, you stop spiraling over normal change and start...

Send us Fan Mail The promotion you’re waiting for isn’t late—it’s not coming. Greg and I take a hard look at how careers actually advance today and share a practical blueprint to stop waiting for permission and start building momentum, whether you’re aiming for leadership or technical mastery. From shrinking training budgets to selective programs that rarely include everyone, we unpack why relying...

Send us Fan Mail What happens to a team when confidence turns brittle and the smartest person in the room insists on being the only mind that matters? Greg and I pull back the curtain on the real tension leaders face every day: using ego to step forward while using humility to keep the room speaking up. Through a candid story of an insecure yet brilliant manager and the breakthrough of “11 minds o...

Send us Fan Mail A 20% cost reduction isn’t a tweak—it’s triage. We unpack what leaders can do when the email lands and the room goes quiet: how to spot the warning signs before the meeting, protect non-negotiables like safety and compliance, and turn “overhead” into measurable value. Along the way, we share raw stories of being told to “write down a name,” the shock of realizing payroll is at ris...

Send us Fan Mail Ready to set goals that feel ambitious, doable, and worth the effort? Greg and I dig into the craft of stretch goals and show how to design targets that motivate teams, protect resources, and deliver results you can take to the board with confidence. From facilities operations to HR recruiting, we share battle-tested stories that turn theory into practice. We start with a simple t...

Send us Fan Mail Change arrives with a new title, but trust doesn’t. Greg and I dive into the first 90 days of leadership and show how acceptance—not authority—unlocks performance, psychological safety, and durable culture. From replacing stiff reviews with coffee chats to hosting open listening sessions, we map the simple behaviors that turn wary teams into willing partners. John shares a powerfu...

Send us Fan Mail What if the most powerful analytics tool in your organization is the data you already collect? Greg and I dive into the mindset shift leaders need to make statistics useful: start with clear definitions, ask sharper questions, and turn simple datasets—like power bills and budgets—into fast, confident decisions. Along the way, we unpack a laugh-out-loud “seasonal days” misread, the...

Send us Fan Mail Ever feel like you’re carrying your team’s deadlines on your back? We dive into a real story from a manufacturing floor where late, incomplete reports were wrecking schedules, burning out a supervisor, and eroding trust. The fix wasn’t louder emails or tighter control—it was Management by Responsibility, a practical way to turn fuzzy expectations into clear, co-created agreements...

Send us Fan Mail Office life can feel like a maze of meetings, vague goals, and energy-sucking routines—and that’s exactly why Scott Adams’ ideas still hit home. Join John and Greg as they unpack the practical playbook behind the humor and explore how to turn everyday skills, smarter systems, and a sharper mindset into real career momentum. We start with talent stacking, the underrated strategy of...

Send us Fan Mail Feeling like the bottleneck at work? We break down a simple, human framework that helps supervisors stop rescuing and start leading, so teams think, anticipate, and own results. Drawing on Management by Responsibility (MBR), we share practical shifts that move you from control to genuine ownership without losing standards or speed. Greg and John start with the supervisor trap—why...

Send us Fan Mail What if your tech stack made people feel more capable, more connected, and more heard? We dive into a people-first playbook for leaders, educators, and builders who want technology to amplify human potential rather than squeeze it into a workflow. From high-fidelity remote collaboration that makes distributed teams feel in the room to mobile video that turns solo field work into i...