Strong Men Strong Marriages

No matter WHAT is happening in your marriage, whether it’s.. -Infidelity -I love you but I’m not in love with you -Poor communication -Conflicts about sex -”I’m not sure why I feel the way I feel…”  This tool will help you know EXACTLY... 1. What is CAUSING the problem in your marriage 2. What you can do to solve it This is the #1 tool I use with my clients (and on myself). Summary: -STFAIR Model...

If you have lost your wife's trust or love... Either by something BIG (like an affair)... Or by not doing the "little things" over time... There is a PROVEN strategy to win back that trust and love. And, there is ONE phrase that can SPEED UP that process. Summary: -Trust and love are LOST by breaking promises, big or small -Trust cannot be GIVEN -You have to EARN it by making and ke...

We are in unique times with the Coronavirus pandemic. Many people are losing jobs or having their hours reduced. It has even affected the most stable jobs... including my work as a psychiatrist. Here is my journey through my thoughts and fears about losing work... and how I got to a place of peace. If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can c...

Is your wife EXCITED to see you every day? Does she tell her friends how great you are? Does she tell your boys to be just like you, and your daughters to marry someone just like you? If not, you may be acting like a DICTATOR or MOSQUITO… and not even know it. See how you might be REPELLING your wife… and how to fix it in this episode. Summary: -When you don’t have a strong sense of self-worth, yo...

Can you do something nice for your wife… but STILL cause problems in your marriage? YES! See how doing the dishes (or other “nice” things) can either HELP or HURT your marriage. It all depends on how you SEE your wife. Summary: -Concepts from the book Leadership and Self-Deception from The Arbinger Institute -When you see your wife as a PERSON, you see her as HER OWN PERSON and someone you can ser...

Why You Must STOP Trying to Make Your Wife Happy You’ve heard “Happy Wife, Happy Life.” Trying to live that phrase sent me to my car SCREAMING. Learn from this video why you must STOP trying to make your wife happy…  And what to do instead. Summary: -You can’t control other people’s emotions… even their good ones -When you try, you are doomed to fail… AND you are being “manipulative,” which is una...

If you find yourself saying "if my wife would just..." Appreciate me more Respect me more Have sex with me more, etc. You are falling victim to the common MYTH that your wife has to act certain ways for you to be happy. Find out how this belief is driving your wife AWAY and is REMOVING your power and strength... and what to do instead so you can feel STRONG and POWERFUL and ATTRACT your...