Strong Men Strong Marriages

When your wife points out what you’re doing wrong… It doesn’t feel good. Men tend to respond by getting defensive, pointing out her flaws, or desperately trying to earn her approval. None of these work to create a strong, intimate marriage. Instead, we need to: -Calm down -Find the request in the complaint -Decide if we’ll honor that request or not Learn how to do this in today’s episode: Watch on...

High achieving Cristian men use their judgment often. They evaluate ideas and reject some as inferior to others. This can be very helpful in the workplace. But it can drive a wedge in your marriage. Learn what to do instead of judging your wife’s ideas or actions around money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and how she spends her free time (like being on her phone)... So you can crea...

If your wife is on her phone in the evening or in bed… It can be frustrating.  You wish she would spend more time talking with you instead of on her phone. Unfortunately, the things you’re doing now are probably making her MORE likely to stay on her phone instead of talking to you. Learn how to approach your wife when she’s on her phone in a way that will make her WANT to pay attention to you more...

If you’ve been betrayed… Or if you’ve betrayed your wife… There are certain steps of healing that need to happen. So you can get back on the road to recovery… And create a great relationship again. Today’s interview with Dr. Debi Silber will explain those steps to you. You can learn more about Dr. Debi at her website here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christi...

The interactions in your marriage could be considered a dance. Do you like the dance you’re doing? If not, then TAKE THE LEAD and CHANGE IT! And invite your wife to follow. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…...

Feel like you’re getting run over in your marriage? Or, is your wife complaining that you never listen or don’t respect, appreciate or prioritize her enough? Or maybe both? Learn how to take the lead in an effective, masculine, attractive way in today’s episode. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and em...

Do you find yourself feeling frustrated and resentful in your marriage? About things like money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time? Has your wife accused you of being passive aggressive? Learn the symptoms… and how to stop being passive aggressive for good… in today’s episode. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to...

Nikola Jokic won the NBA’s MVP award two years in a row. How? By not caring about it. You see, winning that award was not in his control. So he spent no time thinking about it. Instead, he focused on practicing and becoming a better player. Things within his control. Which, in turn, made it more likely for him to win the award. What your wife does or doesn’t do is out of your control. And if you s...

Your wife told you “out of the blue” that she wants more space, separation or divorce. Or, you’re making positive changes… But your marriage isn’t changing yet. These can be very distressing…  if you don’t understand The Law Of The Harvest in marriage. Once you understand it, it will all make sense. Learn this law on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.   Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I...

If you’re thinking of joining Strong Men Strong Marriages before the deadline (TOMORROW, April 27th at midnight pacific)... You might have a few questions. I answer some of the most common ones in this episode. However, here are the main questions you need to ask yourself to decide to join: Do I want to become a stronger, more attractive man, while living true to Christian principles? Do I want to...

Strong Men Strong Marriages is open until this Thursday, April 27th at midnight. If you’ve wanted a sneak peek into how the program works… And is helping men like you become stronger, more attractive, more Christ-like men… And create sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in their marriages… While becoming the example for generations to follow… This is your chance. Listen on the Strong Men Strong M...

If you've been wanting to become a stronger, more attractive man... So you can create sexual, mental, and emotional intimacy in your marriage... And set the example for generations to follow... Now is your chance! The Strong Men Strong Marriages program is open NOW through next Thursday, April 27th. CLICK HERE to see the presentation and learn more. P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be...

A good friend of mine died in a car accident early Easter morning. None of us know how long we have left. How do you want to be remembered? Here are a few good questions to ask yourself: -What do I want my wife and kids to say at my funeral? -What do I need to stop doing and start doing for them to say that? -If today were my last day with my family, are these the memories I would want them to hav...

You’re making good changes. You’re putting in a lot of effort. But, your wife isn’t changing. She’s still bringing up the past. She’s still interested in another guy. She’s still talking about separation or divorce. And that’s frustrating. Because she should be acting differently. Right? Maybe she should. But thinking that way will only cause you frustration. And make you less attractive. And make...

Frustration comes from thinking things should be different from what they are. Your wife should appreciate your changes. Your kids should listen. And maybe they should. But, you're arguing with reality. Instead of whining that "things should be different..." Accept reality and choose your response. Like a strong man. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.   Dr. Mike P.S....

Can’t get to agreements about money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time? Feel like you just have the same fights over and over, but don’t get anywhere? Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.   Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/JE2hmr1JCZ0 Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, prof...

While it's important to understand your wife... You don't have to agree with everything she says. And really, you shouldn't. From my upcoming book: As Stephen Covey puts it, it’s “seek first to understand.” Now, a lot of people mistake understanding for agreement. You don’t have to agree with everything your wife says. And really, you shouldn’t. Winston Churchill said “If two people...

You’re doing a lot in your marriage. You pay the bills. You help cook. You help clean. You help with the kids. But, your wife rarely seems to notice or say “thank you.” Your kids take what you do for granted. It’s VERY frustrating.  And, when you ask for them to appreciate you more… They might for a little while… But then they stop. It makes you want to stop contributing so that they can FEEL what...

If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward...

Your wife doesn’t seem interested in having sex with you. She says “no” more often than she says “yes.” Or, you’ve given up asking, fearing yet another rejection. Why is it that she has lost interest in you? At the end of the day, here’s the hard truth: She has lost attraction for you. In this episode, we’ll cover: -The top reasons why your wife has lost attraction to you -The #1 trait that women...

You’ve made mistakes in your marriage.  Whether those are “mosquito” mistakes, like doing “nice things” for your wife, expecting, attention, appreciation and affection back, getting frustrated when you don’t get it, then exploding in anger or escaping into pornography or other things… Or more serious mistakes like pornography or infidelity. And, it can be tough to forgive yourself for those mistak...

Michael Jaquith, The Catholic Life Coach For Men and I discuss what it takes to find true confidence in your decisions at home. We also discuss how to grow in your faith, fatherhood, and have more success in your work. If you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is wanting more sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in his marriage... Apply to join us in Strong Men...

You’re a faithful podcast listener. You read books. You take courses. You learn as much as you can to create sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife. And, you’re making some steps in the right direction. But, you’re not quite where you want to be. Or, you make some progress, then seem to slip back. It’s not that you need to listen to one more podcast or find just the right book. Your...

Do you find yourself saying “I forgot” to your wife often? Do you come home and realize that you forgot to pick something up from the store? Does your wife ask you repeatedly if you did something she asked you to do? It may not seem like a big deal. Usually the things you forget are small. But, those small things are slowly eroding trust in your marriage. And, they’re showing your wife that she’s...

This bonus episode is actually a module from my program, Strong Men Strong Marriages, that I wanted to share with you. It will help you: -Understand EXACTLY how to build your self confidence -Help you stop beating yourself up to get to the "next level" -Unlock new sources of self esteem and motivation -How to keep your motivation AND be grateful for what you have now (the secret to livin...