Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 58 year young woman and I have been involved with this man since 2007 and he is a lying cheating thot! We are not together right now but I can’t get rid of him. When we were together, he cheated on me over and over and the worst part was when he got addicted to smoking weed. We stayed together and tried to work it out because I loved him. I’m dating again and I am ha...

Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 32 year old newly divorced mom of a one year old. I haven’t dated in a long time, so I decided to join an online Christian dating site instead of suffering through blind dates and meeting losers whenever I’m out with my girlfriends. I have been on the Christian dating site a few months and I met a nice 39 year old man. We’ve been chatting and talking for the last mont...

Dear Steve and Shirley. Hey Tommy. My mom is 52 years old and she's been dating this guy for ten years. It's very good to her He wines and dines her and spoils her with gifts and money. He also attends our family events and holiday celebrations with her. Whenever I need anything, he's been there for me. So here's my issue. He lives three hours away and when he comes to visit my mom he rarely stays...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old single mother of two beautiful girls and I’m in the US Army. I’ve been casually dating a gentleman for 2 years now. We are not exclusive, but he’s met my kids and my family and our bond is incredible. I have never been in love like this and I want more than he’s willing to offer. He’s the one that doesn’t want to be in a monogamous relationship but he mak...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 40 year old man and my wife is 36. After my wife had our two sons, she gained a lot of weight. I love her so much and I’ve tried to encourage her to lose weight by working out and eating right, but she won’t stick to a diet and exercise plan. I was honest with her and let her know that I was not sexually attracted to her anymore. She promised to work harder to lose th...

Dear Steve and Shirley, my lady and I have been dating for three years. We met at work… She’s a nurse and I am an administrator. We love working together because we get to eat lunch together several days a week. Back in June, we were headed to lunch and I was dying to try this new BBQ food truck that was parked in the courtyard of the hospital. You could smell that good hickory wood smoke smell fr...

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been living together for three months. He prides himself on being the man of the house and he enjoys paying all of the bills. I handle all of my personal bills and I buy the groceries. Shortly after we moved in together, he started flexing and setting rules, saying he needed to run his household in his way. We have a one year old child and he said th...

Dear Steve and Miss strawberry. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and I love him so much. We hardly ever argue or fight because we live an hour away from each other so when we are together we make the best of our time. We do everything together except one big thing when we do see each other. I always find a way to avoid having sex with him. He is very handsome but when it comes to th...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old white female and I am proud to say that I am still a virgin. Five months ago, I met a very nice 33 year old black man through an online dating site. We’ve   been inseparable since we met and he’s so perfect for me. I have decided that I want to make love to him and he promised to take care of my heart and make it a memorable experience for me. I’m not sur...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have heard Steve Harvey and an elder in my family say that you can train a man to do anything you want him to do. Well, I have tried it and it’s not true. I have been dating a really great guy for 3 years and as time goes on, it’s becoming clear that he has an issue with contributing financially to whatever we’re doing. He tries to do sweet things for me, but he does them...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 27 year old woman and I've been dating a 29 year old man for a year. We met in graduate school and immediately hit it off. He wants to start a business and I'm in the medical field, so we both have big dreams and aspirations. We have talked about a future together and I can see myself with him forever. But there’s a big part of my life that I’ve been keeping from him....

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in my late 40s and I’m married to a wonderful man. We had a very normal sex life until he had a car accident and became disabled. We haven’t had sex in almost two years now. We have tried everything, but nothing has worked for us. I am suffering, but I do not want to cheat on him. One night we were watching a strange movie where a man in the movie did not want to have s...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I reconnected with an old high school flame in January and we got engaged a couple of weeks ago. Well before he asked me to marry him he told me about his female best friend. He told me that he had sex with his best friend years ago but they didn't have any romantic feelings whatsoever for each other. Now of course I was very uncomfortable with their friendship but I didn't...

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been living together for a year, but we’ve been together for 9 years. I have 3 kids that live with us and his mom lives with us too. My boyfriend works long hours to make sure that our finances are taken care of and I work full time too. We split the household chores and since my older kids are out of school for the summer, they have chores that we e...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m dating a woman that is 36 years old and I’m 26 years old. The age difference doesn’t bother me much but she has a son that’s 15 and he had a problem with it at first. When we first met, everything was amazing and we couldn’t stand to be apart from one another. We were holding hands and kissing in public, constantly on Facetime with each other and we always went to churc...

Dear Steve and Shirley, three years ago, my best friend and my older brother started dating. I was against it from the start and I told her that my brother is a sorry excuse for a man. He can not keep a job and he moves around a lot, depending on what girl is crazy enough to let him stay with her. He plays video games all day and he hangs out all night. As soon as he started dating my friend, he m...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old man and my wife and I have been married for 4 years. Our marriage got off to a rough start and we separated for a short period of time in the beginning. Right after we separated, I met a chick with the body of a goddess and ended up having an affair with her for two months. I got bored with just having great sex and no real connection with this chick, so...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a big problem. Two years ago I relocated for work. Before I moved I had a special lady that I enjoyed spending time with. She was a big fine woman, thick in all of the right places. It's been a year since I had seen her and I was missing her good loving so I called her and told her I was sending her a bus ticket to come visit me. Yes, a bus ticket because a brother a...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an issue with my wife's image on social media. My wife has an Instagram account and I feel like the picture she posts are inappropriate for a married woman. I don't have an Instagram account. So for a long time I had no idea what she was posting on her page. One day I asked her to see her Instagram page and as I was as I started flipping through the pics I was so sho...

Dear Steve and Shirley I am I am darn near 50 years old and my wife is 40. We've been married for almost ten years and have two children both under the age of five. I want to make sure you all have the details. First of all I love my wife, but here is the problem. If I want some cookie I have to initiate it Ninety five percent of the time. Some times she will but it is rare for me. I don't want to...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have known my husband for 20 years and we've been married for three years. He cheated on me multiple times with multiple women but I'm standing by my wedding vows. I always pray that the good Lord would see us through his infidelity and now we're rebuilding our marriage. Not many women would be as forgiving as I am. Having said all of that I still have plenty of good sens...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm stuck. I've read your book Steve and I've been with my boyfriend for four years. In the four years we've bought a home and had lots of beautiful vacations together. We're under 30 years old and we have a solid relationship. He provides protects and professes his love for me. So why after four years I still don't have an engagement ring? I haven't given him my all yet be...

Good morning Steve and Shirley, I am 50 year old divorced lady with a 28 year old lover. We’ve been together for two years but I met him when he was in college with my son. He came home a few weekends with my son and he started calling me mom back then. After college, he continued to hang out at the house with my son, so I got used to him being around. Well on Easter Sunday, 2017, things changed i...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need your advice for this issue I’m having. I have fallen for someone that I have never met in person. I have heard him speak almost everyday and I'm not sure if he is single, but I would love to meet him in person. I am single and ready to mingle with him if he is available. This guy makes my toes curl when I hear his voice and the icing on the cake is that he is...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 20 years and it’s been the longest 20 years ever. Neither of us have been perfect in the marriage, but I got myself together and I was hoping that my dumb ass husband did too. But it seems like there are far too many ways for him to do his dirty deeds now. About three months ago, he sent me a text that was intended for someone else. He wanted to meet...