Stop Losing Women Podcast with Harry Wilmington

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a question from a guy who made some "dating errors" on a previous date that have him wondering if he should cancel the next one he's scheduled with her! Specifically, we go over: Whether or not you should ever cancel a date & why Why you need to avoid talking abou...

In today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss how a girl either likes your or doesn't, and why her having both feelings for you is impossible! Specifically, we talk about: The importance of understanding the word "BUT," and why it correlates with her lack of interest Examples of ways women verbalize a "dual reality" Examples of ways women actionize a "dual reality" The golden way...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a question from a listener who wants to know if you can ever get to a point in a relationship with a woman where you can be vulnerable without chasing her off! Specifically, we go over: Why you do NOT want to talk about vulnerabilities too much, ESPECIALLY in the...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a 2nd message from a guy who has been dating a woman for 5 years and is engaged to her… but now isn't so sure he wants to marry her! Specifically, we go over: The various reasons why it's a BAD idea to marry someone for the WRONG reasons Why it's not fair to the p...

It's the Mother's Day show!!! On today's podcast, we're talking about a topic that hasn't been approached on this show before, and that's how your love life is affected by the way you treated your mother growing up! As the first woman ever to appear in your life, the way in which you were taught to interact with her growing up helped to mold your viewpoint about women in general: how they deserve...

Why is it that some guys get into relationships and allow their women to either (a) dictate the rules of the house, or (b) throw sarcastic insults at them? I recently witnessed two of my guy friends deal with these issues. With the first one, I was told that, were I to come into town to visit him, I couldn't stay at his place because his fiance didn't approve of guest staying in their one bedroom...

The "Hero" Moment: the moments in relationships where a woman asks for her man's help, thus giving him a chance to be her man in shining armor. But what happens when these opportunities are presented and then mishandled? How do guys end up shooting themselves in the foot when attempting to "help" their girlfriend in the way they THINK they should vs. how they REALLY should? On today's episode of t...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who has been dating a woman for 5 years and is engaged to her… but wants to stop talking about mundane things and have more intellectual conversations with her! Specifically, we go over: Why women are more willing to change themselves for you...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of not starting fights with your woman over stuff not worth fighting about! Specifically, we go over: A recent example of a situation I encountered where a close guy friend of mine started a fight over dumb stuff The importance of analyzing what you're about to get mad about… and seeing if it's REALLY worth fighting...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we read an unread message from a guy who listened to the advice from this show, asked out a co-worker… and had a GREAT date! The listener was nice enough to send a message about how the date went, and his letter is being read to show you guys an example of what a date with a highly interested woman looks like! Specifically, we go over: The vario...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we're talking about how to get the girl you're seeing (or are in a relationship with) to start paying for dates and other things! Specifically, we go over: The various reasons she's not paying for your dates How to bring up that you'd like her to pay for stuff – and why it's important to do it on the first date How to break a girl out of the min...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who insulted a girl he was "casually" dating, and wants to know how to win her back! Specifically, we go over: Why you're never just "casually" dating a girl The importance of using loving words with a woman, even when you're mad at her Why a...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we're talking about how to keep your girl "friends" in your life when you have a girlfriend! Specifically, we go over: Why men typically don't fight back when their women give them flack about having other girls in his life The reason you should NOT agree to get rid of your female friends The conversation(s) you need to have with your girlfriend...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we're talking about the #1 way men get trained (by Hollywood) into screwing up their dating life! Specifically, we go over: My favorite TV show, and why it's one of the MANY culprits that give guys a false impression of dating How TV and movies corrupt the dating ideals of men by age 13 The myth: why you don't REALLY love that girl when you firs...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss why you should never underestimate the kind of girls that will want to date you! Specifically, we go over: How your feelings about yourself determine the WHY behind your dating choices Why you should never feel intimidated about approaching any woman, whether she's a 5 or a 10 How the subjective nature of what we each determine as "a...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss how to recognize the "growing pains" phase of the relationship, and why it's important to NOT get rid of her during these annoying times! Specifically, we go over: What the "Growing Pains" phase is Why a woman may upset you without knowing she's doing so during this phase Learning how to not take certain actions personally Learning th...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who wants to know (a) how to tell a girl he's been dating for a month that he likes her, and (b) what he should do about Valentine's! Specifically, we go over: How (and why) to let a girl know you like her without verbalizing it The reason men...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to decrease your time on the phone with your girlfriend without hurting her feelings! Specifically, we go over: An article I typed up talking about why the phone should only be used to set up dates The quandary: what to do when the girl is your girlfriend and she calls you a lot How women become LESS attracted to you the more t...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about what you need to be doing during the dating phase to avoid getting divorced later! Specifically, we go over: The importance of seeing a woman as she is when she first presents herself to her Examples/stories of people who got divorced within a year – and what they all have in common Why men are willing to overlook a woman’s behavio...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to emotionally deal with your woman telling you about her sexual past! Specifically, we go over: Why her past is so unimportant to your present relationship with her Why being judgmental of her sexual past is a No-No Hypocrisy: How not to be upset with her sexual past when you yourself have one The reason women tell you about h...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who wants to know if he should forgo being his goofy, joking self in exchange for being a man that’s silent and aloof! Specifically, we go over: The problem with being Mr. Goofy – and it’s not what you think The 3 reasons your humor may be cau...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to respond when your girlfriend says “It’s getting too serious, too fast!” Specifically, we go over: What makes a girl want to say that statement in the first place Mistakes most guys make that cause a woman to feel like things are moving too fast How to pace out the relationship so she NEVER has this speech with you – and has...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss how you can become “The Body Whisperer” that REALLY turns her out in the bedroom and will make her want to keep seeing you! Specifically, we go over: The seemingly “duh” secret to having a GREAT sex session with any woman – and why most guys still don’t seem to get it How to become “The Body Whisperer” that can totally satisfy her in...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who has insecurities about women and dating based on certain self-esteem issues from his childhood/early dating years, and wants to know how to get past them! Specifically, we go over: The concept of “time” and how it effects the way we see ou...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the SECRET to getting a new girl you take out to want to come back to your place (or hers) – and it’s not the way you think! Specifically, we go over: The #1 mistake most guys make that deters a woman from wanting to go back to his place How focusing on her COMFORT – not YOUR chances of laying her – can get her in the mood The thin...