Stop Losing Women Podcast with Harry Wilmington

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's another installment of ASK HARRY, where I answer a listener's question! I answer a message from a guy who wants to know how he can pull off breaking up with a girl yet still remaining friends with her! Can it be done? Is it worth trying to pull off, or is it better to just let her go? Would she ever be able to be around him without wanting...

Like us on Facebook at http://www. Facebook.com/StopLosingWomen! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today's question comes from a guy who likes a girl he met through a mutual friend. They've known of each other for 3 years but haven't hung out much. Now, he wants to get her number and ask her out but is afraid asking her...

2 Years!! That's how long this podcast has been on the air, and I couldn't be happier to have been able to help so many guys out in that time! You guys have really helped make this show what it is, and I am very grateful! Today, we're going to look back at some of the testimonials that have been sent in to me from guys whose dating lives have been transformed as a result of listening to the podcas...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss the SECRET to ending up in a long-term relationship with your high school sweetheart, even if you end up going to different schools in different states! Specifically, we discuss: The importance of letting go How years-long separation from her can actually give you a better chance at marrying her later on The reason holding on to her i...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how removing one simple word from your vocabulary when having an argument with your mate can significantly increase your chances of the fight having a better outcome! Specifically, we talk about: Why this one word can cause her to feel like you're attacking her, even if you're not trying to Sentence structure: how you can phrase yo...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the importance of becoming more aware of the things you're doing/saying and your environment when dating new women! Specifically, we discuss: Why it's important to analyze the things you're doing on dates How your ego and old habits are out to sabotage your dating efforts What to do when you feel yourself starting to back-peddle in...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we open up the ASK HARRY mailbag to answer a question from a guy who was in a situation where a girl who was a "friend" of his showed interest... but after starting to escalate with her, he stops short of going further with her, only to have their relationship feel "weird" now! Specifically, we talk about: What moves he did right and wrong The i...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we give you guys a true life example of what can happen when you see a girl waaaaay too much during the dating phase of a budding relationship. We go over a story one of my friends told me, about a guy she recently broke up after him having spent almost a month at her house extensively! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic yo...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss the various benefits of receiving one-on-one date coaching! Back when I was horrible with dating, I would have KILLED to have at least one person show me the ropes on how I could be doing dating better. I finally got it right after 10 years, and I'm sure there are others out there who would like to finally understand what improvements...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where I answer a listener's question! Today, we have a question from a guy who met a girl online, got sent the number, texted her a few times, and when he went to call her for a date, he got NO response! He's now wondering if he should reach out to her a 2nd time. Specifically, we talk about: Why it's better to ask for the d...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast (courtesy of www. StopLosingWomen.com), we discuss why it's a better idea to ask a girl out in the earlier stages of meeting her, as opposed to asking her out after having gotten to know her. Sounds backwards, right? Specifically, we talk about: The main reason women who have gotten to know you are LESS likely to want to date you How "guy logic"...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast (courtesy of www. StopLosingWomen.com), we discuss what the "2 Strikes" dating policy is, and why it's important for a man to use it when asking out new women! Specifically, we talk about: Why repeatedly going after a woman that's giving you negative buying signals is for suckers Why getting rid of a woman who flakes or says "no" to a date one ti...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast (courtesy of www. StopLosingWomen.com), we answer a MAJOR question many guys have when it comes to how they feel about themselves: do you have to sleep with a lot of women to be considered an "Alpha" male? Specifically, we talk about: The definition of an "Alpha" male and a "Beta" male (http://www.differencebetween.com/difference-between-alpha-ma...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we reach into the mailbag and answer a listener's question in our ASK HARRY segment! Today, we respond to a guy who had a girl show him POSITIVE signals on a date, and wants to know how to respond to them without appearing over eager or needy! Specifically, we go over: How to respond when she asks you for YOUR number How to respond when she tell...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Pocast, we talk about a critical mistake many guys make when they're chasing after someone: namely, assuming that because they have high interest in a woman, that she must feel the same way! Specifically, we talk about: The disconnect between how fast you have interest in a woman vs. how long it takes for her to feel interested Why men are so impatient o...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about why you can't hate women and try to date them at the same time. It's another important topic in our "Dual Realities" series! Specifically, we discuss: Why so many men have this "I hate women, they're all stupid" mantra going on The dating problems that arise when you say you hate women yet continue to pursue them A personal example...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the 9 ways you can prevent you relationship from becoming one where your woman is withholding sex from you! Specifically, we discuss: How guys get into a sexless relationship in the first place - and how HE may be the one to blame for it Why a woman won't necessarily verbalize she's losing interest, and the #1 way you can tell it's...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the importance of having a dating mentor in your corner! Specifically, we talk about: The years of struggling I went through before I became good at dating - and how YOU can avoid the same fate with a dating mentor The 7 ways a dating mentor/coach can help you build up your confidence, teach you what things will work, and train you...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we disucss the importance of being detached to the dating process, and the 4 understandings you need to have about dating in general that will help you do that! Specifically, we talk about: Why it's so easy for people to take dating personally Learning not to take dating and women's acceptions OR rejections of you so personally The role your ego...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today's question comes from a guy who wants to know how to become more comfortable standing up for himself and his opinions in a relationship without feeling bad about it! Specifically, we talk about: How trying not to "rock the boat" can result in said boat getting rocked anyway The re...

It's episode #250!!! And to celebrate, the StopLosingWomen.com website has been remodeled... and It. Looks. AMAZING!! And so, on today's show, we're talking about the new look of the site, as well as some of the NEW programs we're offering to better serve all the guys out there looking to improve results in their dating lives, including: Easier page navagation The brand new podcast player 1-on-1 c...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about two issues: The first issue is the senseless violence that recently occurred in Charleston, South Carolina, where a 21-year old young man killed 9 people at a church. This isn't a political show, but I wanted to do a mini-commentary about the tragedy, as well as point out how the hatred this man had for a group of people correlates...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today, we respond to a guy who's been out with a girl at least 12 times since he first met her 3 weeks ago. Now, he feels as though she's sending mixed signals and wants to know if he should back off from seeing her a bit so that she'll come to him! Specifically, we talk about: The impo...

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we give examples of 5 different actions you need to reserve for when you're in a relationship - and how witholding said things from the woman you're in the dating phase with can result in her wanting to have "The Relationship Talk" with you sooner! Specifically, we go over: The reason most guys are ready to give a woman access to their whole wor...

In today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the 3 reasons why agreeing to help out a woman you just met will usually result in her NOT dating you! Specifically, we go over: Why unearned actions from you do not equate to love feelings for you from her What a woman is REALLY thinking when you agree to help her out - and it's NOT a good thing! The importance of not becoming a "val...