Stop Losing Women Podcast with Harry Wilmington

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I give my younger self some advice with 10 things I wish I had known when I was trying to date back in the day! Specifically, we go over: The misconceptions I had that girls wouldn’t want to date me The importance of understanding what a date is… and isn’t Why all girls who flake on you should be sent packing The one and only way a woman’s actio...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, Harry goes to various dating forums to answer post questions placed up by other members! Specifically, we go over: How to respond when a girl you’re talking to online doesn’t want to give you her number (but wants yours) Why a girl may continue to hang out/flirt with you after she’s rejected your date offer The importance of carrying a condom on...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who met a woman online, and in the course of a week’s time they went out everyday, talked to each other on the phone all the time, started a few fights, had sex (him for the first time), had some more fights, and eventually she dumped him! He now wants to know where he went wrong. Specifical...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you shouldn’t throw a hissy fit just because a girl’s not wanting to sleep with you on a date! Specifically, we go over: The reason I used to get upset when sex was taken off the table The numerous reasons a woman may not want to have sex that night after the date – and it has NOTHING to do with her losing interest in you What...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of becoming the kind of guy a woman would want to align herself with! Specifically, we go over: What Jennifer Lopez’s previous relationships can teach you about how a woman aligns herself with men she likes The qualities women look for that help them to decide if they’re going to date you Why it’s harder for women to...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who has a woman from school he meets up regularly with at the gym. He wants to take her out, but she keeps flaking, despite the flirty signals and gym invitation she gave to him, and wants to know how to move forward with her! Specifically, we talk about: Why you must NEVER accept a woman’s...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you MUST be okay with paying for those first dates with a new woman! Specifically, we go over: How it is that the woman is actually paying MORE than you are for that first date (and not in the way you think) The importance of planning dates that don’t cost much, yet can still impress Why it’s okay to take a girl out to dinner a...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s questions both have the same theme: guys who texted too much, started to lose the woman’s interest and now want to know how to cut back on their message-sending in an attempt to rebuild her interest! Specifically, we talk about: Can it be done? Can you scale back on texting once you’ve been established as a serial te...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we have another segment in our series of videos called “A Non Juan Story,” where women tell us stories about men they went out with, and the things they did to cause them to be turned off! Today, we have a girl named Magdalene stop by to tell us all about a guy that wanted to date her, but had too many attitude, wardrobe, and emotional issues to...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I interview musician and close friend T. Whistle, a man who is one of the 3% with “Natural” game! We pick his brain and ask him about his secret to making attracting women to him look so easy! Specifically, we go over: Mistakes he made early in the game, and the importance of NOT ignoring “red flags” The importance of detachment and not being so...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a comment left by a loyal listener on a previous podcast about whether or not a statement I made on that podcast goes against what I’ve preached in various other podcast! Specifically, we talk about: His issue with me saying it’s okay to talk to dates about exes in podcast #156 (Bragging About Your Greatness withou...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how you can find YOUR dating process so that you treat all girls you’re dating the same (in the beginning)! Specifically, we go over: Why all girls think they’re “different” from other women – and why they’re really NOT The process I use on every new girl I date during the 1st three months – with success! Why it’s okay to use simil...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of being respectful of her time! Specifically, we go over: What a girl is REALLY saying when she accepts your date request, and what she has to go through to prepare for it Why it’s YOUR job to know your schedule BEFORE you ask her out Why she has every right to NOT accept your request to reschedule a date The areas...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a question from a listener that wants to know how to talk to a girl and figure out where he stands with her! Specifically, we talk about: Why there’s really no need to have the “Where Do I stand with you” speech The ACTIONS you should be doing to build her interest and make her want to be in a relationship with you...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how you can brag to a girl about your successes without coming across like a douche bag! Specifically, we go over: Why girls will NOT be impressed if you directly talk about your accomplishments The RIGHT way to bring up your successes without it looking like an act of desperation The passive ways you can let a woman know you’re we...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to comfort a girl when she’s going through a hard time! Specifically, we go over: A HUGE mistake most guys make when their girlfriend is going through a problem How doing “nothing” is actually doing something The REAL reason a girl dumps you during a tragedy – and it has to do with YOUR “helpful” response to her situation Why s...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer FOUR questions today, including: Should a guy write his ex telling her how he’s changed? How can a guy get better at approaching women in public to ask them out? When is my “Online Dating Course” going to finally come out?? What can a guy do after he’s slipped back into his AFC ways of acting and is causing his gir...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we have a new segment called “A Non Juan Story,” where women tell us stories about men they went out with, and the things they did to cause them to be turned off! Today, we have a girl named Destiny stop by to tell us her dating horror story – hopefully you guys will be able to use it as an example of something you should NOT be doing on dates!...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I interview comedian and entertainer Tre Luv, who also happens to be quite the ladies man! We pick his brain and ask him all about the art of the cold approach! Specifically, we go over: A MAJOR signal a guy should look for from a girl to indicate her interest Why what you wear is so important How words and confidence play a HUGE role in her cho...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! I got a message from a listener who wants to date but not seriously, and is worried about leading women on! He also asks me some other questions, including: How long have I been a dating expert, and what are my credentials? How is serial dating different from random hook ups? How do you date a girl as a half-decent person wi...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the 5 steps a guy should take to keep a woman interested AFTER the first date! Specifically, we go over: The “Lather, Rinse & Repeat” dating method Why it’s CRUCIAL for you to NOT do certain things to help you gauge HER interest The importance of not contacting her immediately after the first date How waiting 3 months to make her t...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about abundance mentality vs. scarcity mentality, and it’s effect on your dating life! Specifically, we go over: Why it doesn’t benefit you to believe you only have a choice of ONE girl How a guy ends up with blinders in dating What happens when you allow your ego to become too involved in your dating life Why you should always keep an o...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! I got an interesting message from a listener who’s having a tough time getting over a girl, and asked me what steps I took to become better with women – so, I answered his question! Specifically, we go over: The situation I went through with a girl in college that caused me to fail my first senior year – and the HUGE lessons...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the power of not talking so much! Specifically, we go over: Why you can’t talk to your girl in the same way you talk to your guy friends The reason women are more sensitive to words than guys are Why it’s okay to not answer every question she asks you The importance of monitoring your side comments to her BEFORE they are said The s...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how a guy can help her release her desire to sleep with him without having her feel bad about it later! Specifically, we go over: The importance of helping her create a “plausible excuse” for her “yes” decision Why women do not respond with “yes” to direct pursuits of sex What to talk about during the date that will make her want t...