Stop Losing Women Podcast with Harry Wilmington

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to keep a girl interested should you end up hooking up with her as early as the first or second date! Specifically, we go over: A MAJOR mistake guys do that chases women away when done too shortly after having first date sex Why it's important to continue to treat her in the same way as if you didn't hook up with her early on T...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who met a woman at a street fair, was hearing from her every day for a week and a half, and then one day… she didn’t text him! Does this mean she’s lost interest? Specifically, we talk about: How serious can a couple REALLY be after a week and a half of dating? Why you should avoid verbally exp...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the impact of giving a woman too many options about available date days/places to go on your dating life! Specifically, we go over: A study that shows why giving people too many options often results in them choosing NOTHING – read the full study HERE Why she doesn’t respond back to your dating request of “choose any day/place,” even...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about an amendment that should be made to the golden rule, “do unto others as you would have them do unto you!” Specifically, we go over: Why you should actually do unto others as they would LIKE to have done unto them The reason women will leave a dude even if he’s doing the things he THINKS he should do to care for her Determining your...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who has a very simple question: how do you ask a girl out in person?! Specifically, we talk about: Why you should NOT reveal your feelings about her when asking her out The main reason I steer clear of asking for a date when I first meet a girl What you can do after meeting a new woman that wil...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to handle it when the “honeymoon phase” of the relationship is over and you start having “fights” with your girlfriend! Specifically, we go over: Why I actually look forward to the “Honeymoon Phase” of a relationship ending What it means when she brings an issue to your attention The best (and worst) ways to handle an issue wit...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s our 1-year anniversary!! Last year, on September 1, 2013, I did my first podcast. At the time, I didn’t know if people would even listen to the show or agree with the things I had to say; nevertheless, I did the show, and the next one, and the next one… and now, 189 shows later, the number of listeners continue to grow, and the number of pe...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we go over how you should proceed at a woman’s place when she invites you over for “dinner” on the 3rd date! Specifically, we go over: The universal understanding of the “dinner and a movie” invitation The various steps a guy needs to take to have the best chance of hooking up with a girl at her place Why she’s more likely to go further with you...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we give you a GREAT online dating tip that you can use to get more dates online! Specifically, we go over: Why you need to ask her for the DATE instead of her number The reason most guys don’t ask for the date directly The reason girls are more apt to say “yes” to a date with you vs. after you’ve texted her for a few weeks How you’ll be able to...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who is set to go on vacation with his girlfriend and her friends. They chose one of the places to stay without consulting him, and he’s wondering if she’s trying to test him to see if he’ll stand up for himself! Specifically, we talk about: How/why recovering nice guys can feel threatened when...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we read over a woman’s post about a man wanting to date her that gives PROOF why moving too fast can cause a woman to LOSE interest in you – and FAST! Specifically, we go over: The reason you don’t give a woman a nickname BEFORE meeting her Why constantly contacting a woman throughout the day that you’ve just met can actually annoy her What this...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the subject of subtext, and why women tend to read more into your words than you actually mean! Specifically, we go over: The different communication styles of men vs. women, and why they clash The various phrases you’re saying when asking girls out that are being misinterpreted Why you need to learn to read subtext into what she says...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today, we answer a message from a guy who was dating a girl at university but separated after he discussed having a long distance relationship with her after graduation and her rejecting the idea. A few weeks later she sent him an email asking to hang out, and when he didn’t respond back right away she told him never to cont...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss why not knowing the “why” behind a dating technique’s success is not necessary! Specifically, we go over: How waiting for a better understanding of a successful dating technique can hold back your progress Why you should do your research on new dating ideas but also not be afraid to jump in feet first The BEST way for you to determine...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how guys can end up gaining comfort weight when in a happy relationship – and why it can make a girl want to eventually get rid of him! Specifically, we go over: How a guy can go from being fit and in shape to unfit and pudgy as a result of trying to keep his girlfriend happy Why it’s so hard for you to tell your girlfriend “no” wh...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today, we answer a message from a guy who saw his ex at a party and acted indifferent towards her being there! His friends said he missed out on a chance to hook up with her, and he wants to know if he treated her the right way to get her interested in him again! Specifically, we talk about: How and why a girl who lost inter...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the impact having a negative attitude towards women can have on your dating success! Specifically, we go over: Why complaining to a woman about how “all women are scum” won’t cause her to date you (duh!) Attitude shift: how to view failed relationships and/or dates as “positives” Why the Universe won’t bring you someone to date tha...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the SECRET to making a woman laugh naturally! Specifically, we go over: Why canned openers typically do NOT work The misconception guys have about how to make women laugh How her attraction towards you determines whether or not she laughs at what you’re saying Why she’ll laugh at what you’re saying, even if you’re NOT trying to be fun...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today, we answer from a guy who wanted to go after girls in his church and wants to know if he should approach them differently than non-church girls! Specifically, we talk about: How much of your game – if any – you need to change up to attract church girls How you should REALLY be viewing these church girls The myth about...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about what you can ask a girl to get the conversation ball rolling when you can’t think of anything to ask her! Specifically, we go over: Why this question is so effective How talking is used by women to bond with others (including – hopefully – you) Taking her answer and using it to branch off into other conversations …and much more! Go...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to know when to make certain moves at right time for maximum effectiveness during the dating progression with a woman! Specifically, we go over: How to tell when it’s the right/wrong time to make a certain move Asking for her number when you first meet her vs. waiting for later Going in for that first kiss – what date number sh...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who got rid of a girl who wanted to be his girlfriend after seeing flirty Instagram comments from another guy! Specifically, we talk about: Why it’s rude to lead a girl on when you know she wants to be more serious with you How your own insecurities can cause you to read a situation in the W...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss some of the small tweaks you can make to your dating game to have a BIG impact on your success with women! Specifically, we go over: How changing the words you use when asking her out or for her number can be the difference between forward movement and the end of communications The importance of keeping your first date with her under...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I talk about something I rarely talk about: how to get a girl you once had a crush on (but turned off) to be interested in you after you’ve learned the RIGHT things to do! Specifically, we go over: Why I generally do NOT agree with guys trying to go after old prospects How to get HER to reach out to YOU Why time away from her is the best thing y...

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who’s ex hit him up with a phone call! He didn’t want to answer the call, but his buddy insisted he do so! Specifically, we talk about: Why you shouldn’t always listen to your friends when they give you advice about dealing with your ex Why it’s okay to NOT have a girl in your life after you...