Stop Faking Fine

EP34. In this episode I sit down with my dear friend, lacrosse coach, ex-military leader, and new mom Jacquelyn Henry.  From our first meeting as spin instructors, to navigating life’s highs and lows as moms, this discussion is raw and incredibly real. We dive deep into the essential support systems women need, and the often unspoken challenges of postpartum life. Join us as we explore emotional a...

EP33. Join me as I share my personal journey of starting over after unexpectedly losing my husband to a very short battle with cancer. In this episode I unpack the complex dynamics of blending families, relocating, and confronting unexpected challenges on the daily.  As if getting engaged and moving wasn’t challenging enough: we found out there were unhealthy levels of radon exposure in our new ho...

EP32. Join us on a heartfelt episode featuring Pastor Tim Thorne as he shares his personal experiences and expert insights. In this discussion, We delve into the emotional and spiritual aspects of grief, exploring practical strategies and profound insights for facing, processing, and growing through these challenging times. Discover the importance of lamenting, embracing emotions, and finding hope...

EP 31. In this episode, Dr. Dan Sullivan shares his expert insights on managing ADHD through lifestyle changes. Having personally navigated life with ADHD, Dr. Sullivan emphasizes the importance of addressing root causes such as diet, stress, sleep, and genetics. Discover effective strategies to boost dopamine regulation and enhance your overall well-being. In this episode we cover: Dr. Sullivan’s...

EP30.  Join us as Shelley Loving shares her compelling health journey following her husband's heart attack.  Discover how they transformed their eating habits and significantly reduce chronic inflammation. Shelley provides practical tips on anti-inflammatory diets and how simple lifestyle changes can prevent heart disease.  What she didn't expect was how this new lifestyle would improve...

EP 29. Join us in this heartfelt episode as my husband, Neil Jensen, and I share our journey from our first date to blending our families. We discuss the challenges and rewards of dating a widow and the importance of respect in relationships. Learn how to balance the past while building a new future together. We also explore the dynamics of blended families and how to create a supportive environme...

EP28. From a challenging childhood to becoming a TV personality, Lisa Fischer shares her empowering journey through adversity and addiction. Her greatest insights will help women navigate menopause with humor and vitality. Yes, please! Now an integrative health coach, Lisa's resilience and determination are evident as she encourages women to prioritize their well-being. But our fun conversati...

EP27. Monica Hines knows firsthand the impact burnout, anxiety, and caregiving have on mental health. In this conversation, the nurse-turned-life coach, shares her insight from 18 years in the high-pressure environment of a hospital, revealing the tools she used to cope and how they reshaped her approach to health and wellness. Monica and I discuss the benefits of grounding and other mindfulness p...

EP26. In this conversation, Darla Bonk emphasizes the power of choosing how to respond to emotions and taking control of one's own happiness. Darla shares her experience of escaping an abusive marriage and the challenges she faced as a pastor's child. She emphasizes the importance of seeking help and breaking the silence surrounding divorce and emotional abuse. She also highlights the si...

EP25. This is a special episode for me because my guest, Noah Lewis, is my oldest son. In this conversation we get real about how the anxiety and grief, following my husband’s and Noah’s dad’s death, really impacted our home. Everything I share in this episode is in the hope of helping you understand you’re not alone, and empowering you to have a more peaceful home vibe. We have grown through the...

EP24. Laurel Denise, known as the internet’s most relatable planner girl, discusses the role of planning in reducing stress and anxiety. When we have so much on our to-do lists, we need space for these thoughts and dreams to live. Her approach makes planning feel doable and fun!  In this conversation, Laurel shares her journey of creating a planner business that helps people connect the dots to al...

EP23. Shifting your focus from problems to solutions is critical to reduce stress and improve performance. In this episode, Dr. Reed introduces the concept of Relentless Solution Focus, which is the mind's ability to stay focused on solutions in the face of adversity. She emphasizes the benefits of optimism and how it can lead to happiness, better health, and a longer life. More importantly,...

EP22. Tricia Thirey shares her experiences of dating after the loss of a spouse and offers insights and encouragement for widows who are considering dating again. In this conversation we explore the challenges, the appropriate timing and the importance of understanding your own grief before entering a new relationship. Tricia and I get real about our own journeys dating as widows, from managing an...

EP21. Cory Chadwick, founder of The Mental Gym, talks about the importance of recognizing our potential and how to avoid the frustration of not knowing how to reach it.  He shares his personal journey, emphasizing the need to prioritize mental health and break the stigma surrounding it. Cory explains that mental health, like physical health, has ups and downs, and shares his insight for systematic...

EP20. Dr. Sally Good shares insights on preventing dementia through small lifestyle changes and focusing on the gut-brain connection. She shares insights on how the gut-brain connection can play a key role in lowering inflammation.  Dr. Sally Good is a course creator, psychologist, coach, and author. Twenty years of experience as a scientist and practitioner have led her to numerous conclusions, t...

EP19. Learning about the impact the gut microbiome has on our overall happiness and stress resilience was a pivotal point in my journey from an overwhelmed and anxious widow to a thriving single mom. What Dr. Shawn Talbott shares in this episode will help you outline your own path to developing true stress resilience. Our conversation is full of insight on how to naturally fortify the internal def...

EP18. It’s easy to think that athletes practice, practice, practice and simply show up to the game and play. But it’s not always that simple. The mental nuisances of competitive sports is an underrated challenge, especially in our youth. Coach Mike Atunrase is back to talk all about the anxieties that plague young athletes. In this episode he shares how preparing your skillset, body, and mind are...

EP17. Amie Uitvlugt-Valenzuela is a powerhouse mom of three who joins me to discuss her journey of widowhood. We met on social media, and when we realized that we had both been on this widowhood journey for nine years, we instantly became heartfelt friends. In this episode we dive into all the coping mechanisms Amie tried as she worked through the shock of grief. She shares how she learned to embr...

EP16. Imagine if you had permission to express what you are ACTUALLY feeling without judgment… and you felt more in control of your moods and emotions. What would you say? What would you do? Nadia Fiorita  might change the way you look at therapy. She is a licensed therapist and holistic health coach. You might not think those things go together but for Nadia Fiorita it’s been a game changing comb...

EP15. Dr. Shawn Talbott shares some scientific insight that will make losing weight easier.  We discuss the benefits of intermittent fasting, how to balance your hormones, and what specific probiotics you can add to jump start the process.  This is an enlightening conversation that will change your perspective and help you ditch the weight for good.  Are you ready to find your ideal weight without...

EP14.  What is your Big Vision?  Are you clear on the difference between your big vision versus a dream? In this episode, I will give you three questions to ask yourself in order to clarify your big vision and outline the steps to help make it a reality! I’ve used these strategies for myself to take my big vision from version 1.0 to 2.0 and counting, and I have coached countless clients to do the...

EP13. Bouncing back… We use that phrase with relative ease, and yet the actual process of bouncing back is anything but easy. Maya Tyler is the CEO and Founder of Widows DO Bounce Back. She is also a best selling author, speaker, and certified life coach. In today’s episode, we will dive into action steps for how you can bounce back, grow in yourself, and show up in the way you aspire to. Listen i...

EP12. In the rush of everyday life, it’s easy for marriage to take a back seat. We focus on the kids, our jobs, and the relationship at the center of it all often gets put on the back burner. Before you know it, you are faking fine in your marriage. Listen as life coach and author, Julianne Kirkland, mom of six (including quadruplets!) talks candidly about the struggle. Find out what happened that...

EP11. Have you ever tried to shove a beach ball underwater? No matter what you do, it eventually pops back up... Sure, you can hold it under there a little while; but, the second you move... it shoots up like a cannon and knocks someone near you in the head. Or, better yet, it hits you directly in the face. I basically treated my feelings like a beach ball for far too long, until I learned a bette...

EP10. Our bodies are not our enemy or a project to complete. Sarah Larrabee started on a weightloss journey at 300 pounds. Starting in an obsese place, she shares her story of going from wanting to "fix herself" to "healing herself," and that's when things really changed. Comprehending that wellness is not a destination, but rather a choice to make a million times every da...