Stoicess' Secret

You know the type. They’ll threaten your job, infer what a low-life you are, demand the rest of your day be devoted to them, and don’t forget, they’ll want a full refund and some damages payment to make this right. They're your customer, and they can be like a dog with a bone when they've got a gripe against the company. Listen to the podcast for some words to consider the next time you...

Aren’t you the lucky one! You’ve found someone who is gorgeous, smart, and breathtaking. The only problem is they are your best friend’s sibling. So, do you proceed to date them? Listen to the Stoicess’ poem for insight. 

when you were growing up, your parents were very frugal because times were difficult and money tight. However, times improved when you became an adult, and you had the capability to spend money on your children for several luxuries you never had as a child. However, your children are now grown and when facing financial hardships due to overspending, they see you as an extended piggy bank for them....

It’s time to leave the nest and head off to college in another city. Your parents are worried about your safety because you’ll be living in a new city alone. Your parents want to put a tracker app on your phone so they can monitor your whereabouts. You’re having anxiety over this one. Join me as we address the invasion of your privacy.

You’ve found a new person to date and think they are the best ever. However, over time you see a change in the person. It's as if they are playing a game with you. How do you handle this? Listen to the poem for some advice to consider.

You know that being judged when you express your unique thoughts and opinions is not new. It’s because people have a tendency to look down on others who differ from them.  But have you thought about the judgmental people in the Bible? What if a trusted friend passed judgment on you and secretly had you killed in order to get their way? In this webinar, we discuss a horrible situation that one of o...

Has a parent ever tried to guilt trip you? Nagging you for not spending enough time with them since taking that new prestigious job? Join me as we take a look at this ongoing nightmare.

It began as a lovely day as you and your partner were spending time together. That is, until your partner mentions that his best friend treats him much better than you do. How do you respond? It's time to kick in your "Stoicess' Mind".

Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base: THOSE WHO WOULD WASTE YOUR TIME  We’ve all experienced people in our lives who are timewasters. When they waste their own time, that’s one thing, but when they attempt to waste our time, it’s when we need to consider taking immediate action.    But what if we are the ones that are wasting God’s time. We tell Jesus that we love Him in our prayers and ask...

When you were young, your parents assigned your older sibling as your caretaker. However, following adulthood, your sibling has not relinquished the command. If you obey the commands, a psychological smear campaign will ensue. Is it time for a head-to-head battle? The Stoicess has some thoughts on the subject.  

How do you address your partner when they accuse you of unfaithfulness simply because you glanced at another? My poem gives you some insight on how to address this situation.

Fear is one of the most awful enemies we face. Fear holds many back from pursuing their dreams and achieving their goals. They feel stuck and unable to reach their full potential because they cannot break free from the fear of the unknown or fear of failure. Sometimes that grasp of fear is held over us by others – those who threaten to remove their friendship if we keep pursuing our current journe...

Guilt-tripping. It’s an old game that seems to always have a new spin for its use by the gamemaster. The gamemaster always seems to get their way in the end, so, some would argue the game has already been lost by the unknowing players once the gamemaster begins.  On the other hand, you know there’s a “Long Game” that you need to play. Join me as we address the “Long Game”.

Nothing is right, the world is coming to an end, and they’re always looking at the cup being half empty. How do you deal with this Miserable?

As you begin planning the event for about 50 people, you start to realize that you may have overloaded yourself on this one. Just putting the guest list together was a chore, and now the potential meal list, music list, hiring a DJ, and potentially a clean-up crew has your mind swirling.” Maybe, I need some hired help for this one”, you think to yourself. “But how do you know until it’s too late?”...

The workplace nowadays has changed. What used to be an 8-hour shift has turned into a 24-hour availability requirement. It’s gotten to the point that your mental health and physical well-being are at stake. You’re seeking a balanced life and may need to make a career change.  But what if it were God doing the texting – asking you to perform a mission for Him. Would you tell Him, “Why me? Can’t you...

You’re telling a story or commenting on an idea shared by another,  but your partner jumps in, snatches the microphone from you. Is it time to take action? The Stoicess' poem will give you perspective.

Sometimes a friend thinks they are being helpful when they speak ill about their friend in another’s presence. You may have been this “another”. In hearing the remarks, you feel the sting because you’ve done the exact action that is now being condemned. In this webinar, we discuss the events of one of the greatest individuals in the Bible who stood for God despite what friends said, and another pr...

Since Covid, your bosses appear on your screen or in an email at differing times of the day. It’s sometimes as if they’ve just woken up at two in the afternoon when they start pinging you for an immediate response. Even worse, the emails start pouring in at bedtime. How do you handle?

Ever watch others trying to win someone – that prize everyone appears to want? So, how would you be the one ultimately winning that prize?

There may be times in your life when others want you around merely for entertainment. You may have even received the title of Family Court Jester. However, it can be hurtful when you are the brunt of their jokes. In this webinar, we discuss one of the greatest entertainers in the Bible and the audience that “Just Didn’t Get It”.  — WEBINAR ATTENDANCE FREE to the GENERAL PUBLIC — See Website "...

You’ve been together for a few years now. You remember the beginning days of your romance with your partner. However, time passed, and now, both of you appear to be zombies when dealing with your relationship. So where do you go from here?

They were one of your closest friends that you've always trusted. However, when you both have eyes on the same potential suitor, your friend stabs you in the back. How do you respond? My poem offers guidance. The Stoicess

The feeling of anger haunts us all from time to time. Sometimes we take our frustration out on inanimate objects. Other times it can be toward the ones we love. In this webinar, we address some different ways anger can be displayed, which can even include our relationship with God….  It’s a whale of a story.  — WEBINAR ATTENDANCE FREE to the GENERAL PUBLIC — See Website "TRAINING PAGE" f...

You’ve been together now for over a year, and you’ve not been invited to any events with your partner’s family. Now it’s fall, and the end-of-year holidays are rolling around again, and you’d like to get your calendar in order for the festive season. You mentioned the two of you carving out some time to visit both your families together this year, and you received pushback. The response was, “My p...