Stoicess' Secret

You met a great person and you both click, but you’re not physically attracted to them even though they are nice, intelligent and kind.  So, you ask yourself, “should I let them go or tell them let’s just be friends?”  

“I’m sorry I was sick yesterday and couldn’t attend.” “Excuse me, I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to get in your way while I was falling.” “I’m sorry the wholesaler didn’t have the product in stock.” “I’m sorry you lost your keys.” “I’m sorry it rained out your trip.” Should I keep going or have you had enough of the “I’m sorries”? What once was heard as being caring, conscientious words by the recipient...

Our relationship with money defines our lives. For many, money is an emotion. It can affect their level of happiness. It can affect how they view themselves as being successful on the totem pole as they compare themselves to others. So, how should we view money? Listen to the podcast for the Stoicess' thoughts. 

What do you do when your beloved does not want to do the work necessary to succeed?  Instead, he depends on you to do all the work and somehow put him into the limelight so he can exceed. Listen to my poem for some insight.

Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base: I’M LOSING MY MAMA’S BOY   It’s been over thirty years now and the two of you have had the best relationship ever. He is a man who respects you, honors you, values you, and most importantly, does what you tell him. Yes, it’s been a lifetime for him learning your ways, but it’s paid off handsomely for you. That is, until his eyes found some beautiful swan...

 Since your breakup, your ex is flaunting - showing off his designer clothes, the purchase of the latest cell phone, or those expensive trips to wherever - which are all signals indicating high status. You know you shouldn't care, but it's bothering you. So, what do you do now? https://stoicmatchmaker.com

On entering your home, you immediately realize your partner is upset.  Those rain clouds are moving in, and your partner is quite upset, and begins to unleash the thunder and lightning on you.  Should you tell them they’re right, or yell back as you hope for the best while the two of you begin the fight?

A colleague tells you a horrible secret about a mutual coworker. Now that you know this secret, should you keep it to yourself or “share the dirt” as your duty to help others that you perceive need to know? — WEBINAR ATTENDANCE FREE to the GENERAL PUBLIC —  See Website "TRAINING PAGE" for the link to join the weekly Webinar https://stoicmatchmaker.com  

A few years back, you left the homestead for a new job located several states away. Each holiday season, you get the family berating that you never come to visit. This year, you decide to make a one-off trip. On arrival at the homestead, you learn that your sibling was having a family event later that evening which your remaining elderly parent would be attending. However, you were told that this...

Should children try to force their parents to downsize as the parents get closer to death? Listen to the podcast for my thoughts. https://stoicmatchmaker.com  

You've found this guy you really like, but when introducing him to your friends, they don't like him. So, what do you do now?  https://stoicmatchmaker.com

They are the darling student in high school. An A+ student every semester. It’s now six months before graduation, and they’ve decided they’re not going to college. What do you do? Join me as we cover the issue. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

Sometimes to be that date everyone wants, you just simply need to believe in yourself. Let me show you how. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

You’ve been married for a decade, and there’s now a rut where things aren’t changing for the better. You figure someone needs to leave, and it's your partner that needs to be the one leaving. Listen to the podcast to see how this web is untangled. (And "Thanks" to the individual sending us this situation!)  Submit YOUR situation to us at https://stoicmatchmaker.com/contact-us/ https...

Are you blamed for anything that goes wrong in others' lives? If yes, then welcome to the Scapegoat game. Listen to my podcast for a unique spin. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

What do you do when your partner fails to complete those small tasks you asked him to complete?  https://stoicmatchmaker.com

It's the Lemming psychology of following the crowd. Your best friend is getting married, and she is asking you to do the same. You and your best friend have done everything in life together since an early age. So, do you break your pledge and say "No" or go along the journey and have that double wedding? — WEBINAR ATTENDANCE FREE to the GENERAL PUBLIC —  See Website "TRAINING P...

You learn your elderly parents bought your grown sibling a new Jeep Gladiator so he would have a decent vehicle while pursuing a newly planned college degree for higher education. You're driving a 10-year-old Toyota. Your mind begins to flip out. Are you wrong to be upset? https://stoicmatchmaker.com

How do I deal with my partner sharing his reminiscing about his Ex? Is it time to show him the door or give him some needed wisdom? https://stoicmatchmaker.com  

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Your daughter tells you Granddad swerves when he drives and demands you take his keys. Should you? Listen to the podcast for the Stoicess' thoughts. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

Doing your duty is not for the personal glory that you gain. It's simply acting as a good neighbor, citizen, and friend.  https://stoicmatchmaker.com

You saw your past partner drive by your place the other day, and somehow your heart missed a beat for a moment as you wished for them. Is there something wrong with you or is this normal? https://stoicmatchmaker.com

If someone breaks up with you, does it mean I’m not good enough for them or are they not good enough for me? https://www.stoicmatchmaker.com

Dad remarried after the divorce, and his new partner doesn't want him to see us kids. But I figured out a way. Listen to the podcast for a success story. https://stoicmatchmaker.com