SPILL THE TEA with Benjamin

What happened to dead dreams ? We can’t formulate a theory because there are infinite amounts of things that makes a dream dead. On this episode, I had joba and Tamilore as my guests and they said their opinions on dead dreams. We talked on some hindrances to dreams and how the society affects dreams. I formulated 4 major dream killers , which are fear , negative company , bad behaviour and procra...

It’s not a new saying that men are the most likely to cheat, now the rate is almost even between both genders. On this episode I had Victor and Shalom as my guests. Wonderful people with different point of views or similar in some cases. They both shared their opinion on the above topic. Why do we cheat ?, this is practically a rhetorical question. There’s no perfect answer to it. My guest and I a...

On this episode, I had a double host thing. It was me(Benjamin) and my best friend Ella . My best friend and I have been together for almost 4 years now and have been very genuine in our relationship, we’ve had to endure some difficult moments also. Maintaining a good best friend relationship with an opposite gender is a beautiful and an interesting thing , but our society doesn’t want it. It’s a...

Simping,what do you understand by simping?. Well, I got the simpmaster (fisola) and Kitan to talk on this episode. We all know simping has been trending lately, the whole alpha male thing. But it’s not only men that do simp, women also simp. On this episode I and my guest talked about the simping, what simping is , who a simp is, some simp behaviours and many more. Kitan shared his awful simping e...

Societal pressure is inevitable, but it punishes a lot of youths, especially men. On this episode, I had a round table talk with joba , semilore and kayode on “men and societal pressure and expectations “ The pressure on men has been consistent almost from the beginning of humanity. And it’s very hard for us(men). I decided to talk on this topic with these guys and we had a lot of fun talking abou...

On this episode , I interviewed Deborah about her relationship. It was a long distance relationship, and she talked about how she took the risk of trying it out. This episode was definitely fun. I was very interested in what she had to to say about long distance relationship. I mean it’s an attractive topic. I think the world had a view of long distance relationship being dangerous but she said an...

What do women what ? This can be referred to as the question of the century. Women, very complicated and difficult set of human to understand. Personally I do not know what women want. But different women have different wants. On this episode, I interviewed Victoria Horace. She talked briefly about her relationship status. She said a lot of different things about what she wants as a woman. She was...

This weeks episode is “meet ashawo aidex “😂, I invited Samuel (aidex) It was an interview on his former relationship and how it was like , how his partner then didn’t reciprocate the same energy he gave. “She wanted to be treated like a queen, but didn’t want to treat me like a king” (his words). He also spoke on how she felt entitled. Being more demanding than grateful. He also spoke on the bene...

After breakfast Like we all know , breakfast is a common term used in Nigeria for breakup. Everyone eventually collects breakfast, as a popular saying “breakfast na national cake”😂. Well on this episode I was joined with Iyanu and mayowa. My guests gave their views on what breakfast means. Based on our little personal experience or what they have witnessed from people’s broken relationships, we g...

Mumu Button , you’ll be thinking what kind of topic is this. But this topic is very attractive and fun to talk about. The term mumu button is common among Nigerian youths and teenagers. It’s a soft spot for a person that makes the person compromise his or her usual standards. Is mumu button just a soft spot or it can also be a person itself?. I was joined by two spectacular guests of mine and we t...

3 months again!! How awful, students are being deprived of learning just because our federal government has refused to pay ASUU. Of course we can’t blame Asuu, it’s their right and they are reacting the best way they can. This strike is a negative news , but as well a blessing in disguise. It has positive outcome for a lot of people On this episode I was join with a political minded person , ifeol...

Knowing yourself is also discovering yourself at every stage of life per circumstance and situations you’ve encountered. On this episode, we viewed knowing yourself as a continuous process in life. The more circumstance and situation you encounter the more you learn and discover yourself. I was joined with Joba, a programmer. He shared how he started discovering himself, how he started knowing him...

Red flags are turn offs you see in a person. On this episode, red flag was defined and talked about based on personal thoughts or reasoning. I was joined with my friends Kitan and Ella , we spilled tea on red flags and we stated some red flags. The guests gave few of their red flags and we looked into them if they are actually red flags or not. We also talked about red flags being a major determin...

Everybody wants a perfect relationship but at every try some fail. On this episode we stated different relationships and talked on one,which is the romantic relationship. I was joined with friends Dewale and Phebe,we spilled some tea and pointed out some things necessary when going into a relationship. Unlike a relationship therapy it was more of fun and gist between us which will be helpful to pe...

A short intro on what the show Spill The Tea with Benjamin is about