Spiced Wife: Marriage, Sex, Faith, Life, and Jesus

This season finale is both a closing and a calling. In this episode, I share that I will be stepping away for a while, and we center our hearts again on what God has been speaking all along: we are called to  arise . Not by doing more, striving more, or filling our lives with busyness, but by finally becoming who He has already called us to be. Sometimes, the way forward begins by stopping. We sto...

In this episode, you'll learn how to stay in agreement with God in every area of your life. We dive into Numbers 25 and explore God's perspective on wholehearted devotion and staying focused on Him. From there, we talk about what it practically looks like to remain aligned with God each day.... even in a life that feels full of tasks, responsibilities, and constant busyness. Join the Wife Support...

This is a two-part episode. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven honest questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for real-life challenges in marriage. Questions about: Husband not lead...

This is a two-part episode designed to strengthen your faith and give practical guidance for your walk with God. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven vulnerable questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and...

In this episode, we answer a candid sex question from a wife and share a few laughs about arising in both comfort and confidence—embracing femininity and sex appeal without overthinking it. We then turn to the often-misunderstood story of Job's wife, a woman with a poor reputation whose words are frequently judged without grace. Together, we explore what it looks like to extend compassion instead...

Today, we are stepping out of the shadows where life dictates our emotions and choosing to arise in truth. This episode is about understanding the power God has given us to decide—how we think, how we respond, and how we live. Don't remain in a prison of your own making. Freedom begins with a decision. Choose to think better, live freer, and see life through a renewed mind.   Videos on having an U...

Today's episode calls us to arise as wise wives, not mothers to our husbands. Our husbands don't need a second mom, and many of us slip into that role without realizing it. We'll talk about how to identify motherly behaviors in marriage, why they hinder change, and practical ways to shift back into a healthy, God-honoring wifely posture. Download the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://...

This is going to be a year that we ARISE! On January 5, we are starting off the year with a 21-day fast. Let's talk about the details!    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.y...

In this episode, we talk about what may be blocking our ability to hear from God clearly. We also answer two powerful questions from wives: • One wife asks how to hold on to hope and faith while separated from her husband. • Another asks whether she should submit when her husband wants to control finances he isn't contributing to. Together, we'll unpack these questions with wisdom, biblical perspe...

Let's go to the Bible and talk about losing it all to gain it all. The Lord is our refuge and tower. He wants to be our main point of help and answers. We need Him more than anything.    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spi...

Have you ever prayed for an answer only to have God respond in a way you didn't expect? Have you ever asked Him for help and felt like the guidance you received wasn't direct, simple, or easy to grasp? In this episode, we're talking about those moments—the unexpected turns in life and marriage—and how to recognize God's blessing even when it doesn't look like what you imagined. If you're feeling d...

What happens when you're passionately pursuing Jesus, but your husband isn't walking at the same pace? In this episode, we talk about navigating a spiritually mismatched marriage with grace — encouraging your husband without nagging, trusting God's timing, and building unity even when your paths look different. Find practical wisdom, biblical strength, and renewed hope as you believe God is still...

WARNING... Mature audience ONLY! This email came in asking a very detailed question on the topic of oral sex and where it is in the Bible. As you know, this is a God-centered podcast that is not scared of all topics. We stay holy, transparent, humble, and honest with all topics for the focus of marriages that glorify God. Let's Grow!  Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spic...

Should a wife get a part-time job to help out, or should a husband get more work? Let's talk about it!   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDp...

Let's discuss this hot topic on what the role of provider looks like in a marriage, based on God's perspective! Take some time to listen all the way out. Don't listen with flesh, listen by the Spirit. Here we GROW! We will open with Scripture encouragement and then dive into the questions! 11:40 - Questions read 57:14 - Sermon from a male perscpective on husband providing   Get the APP and Join th...

In this episode, we are getting powered up to take down every demonic force coming against our marriage! It is time to activate spiritual maturity and truth. We are also addressing how to confront the issue of porn in your marriage, addressing feeling intimidated, where to start if your husband is watching porn, and the spiritual aspects of it all. Buckle up and press play! Here we GROW!   Get the...

Are you feeling that you need to go to a new church for a new start in your life? Or have you been gone a while and now want to go back to church again? Maybe you have never attended a church before and want to know how to find one? If any of these apply, this episode is for you! We will discuss where to find a new church, how to identify the right one, and what to do before the search even begins...

In this episode of the Spiced Wife Podcast, we're diving into the talk about getting in the mood for sex, and I'm sure it's not what you think. It's amazing to feel sexy and confident—but what happens when life gets hectic, and that feeling just isn't there? How do you navigate those seasons without letting intimacy become a chore or an obligation in your marriage? Let's talk about practical ways...

In this heartfelt episode, I'm responding to a question from a wife who's fighting for her marriage while her husband is ready to walk away. We'll explore what Scripture has to say about this difficult situation, turning to Romans 12 for guidance on love, patience, and perseverance, and 1 Corinthians 7 for wisdom on marriage and separation. If you've ever felt alone in wanting to save your relatio...

In this episode, I answer a question from a wife who is fed up with her husband's friends' wives being extremely inappropriate towards her husband and disrespectful towards her. Take a listen and share in the comments what you would do in this situation?    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/c...

In this episode, I answer a heartfelt question from a wife whose husband believes in God but chooses not to follow Him. She is feeling weary, frustrated, and in need of encouragement to remain faithful to the Lord. If you've ever felt the same, this episode will lift your spirit and remind you of the strength found in God's truth. You'll learn how to keep pressing forward, what prayers to speak ov...

In this episode, I'm answering question number two from a wife who shares a very difficult situation. She married while living in the world, but five years into her marriage, she gave her life to Christ. Since then, her husband has not only refused to convert, but he mocks her faith and argues with her about not living in sin with him anymore. On top of that, he has been unfaithful multiple times...

Have you ever wondered if you made the wrong choice in marriage? Or felt the pain of a spouse who seems to dislike your family or maybe prioritize their parents and family over you? In this episode, we're diving into the real struggles a wife faces when doubt creeps in and when family comes between the marriage covenant. Together, we'll explore God's design for marriage, practical ways to know the...

It's a brand-new season of Spiced Wife ! This season, we're diving deep into your real questions about faith, marriage, intimacy, and womanhood—so be sure to send your questions to info@spicedwife.com  to have them answered on the show. Before we jump into the Q&A episodes, this show sets the tone by pointing us back to the most important place for every wife and every marriage: the secret place o...

Today, Ashlyn opens up about her personal struggles with darkness and the unwavering faith that has carried her through. In this final episode of Season 8, we also wrap up our book club discussion on I Surrender All by Priscilla Shirer, with a deep dive into Chapter 8, which affirms our purpose and identity on earth. With raw honesty and empowering truth, Ashlyn offers encouragement to help you fi...