Soul Led Living Podcast with Nikki Novo

I did a thing recently, and thought it came out really good so I wanted to share it with you. I was feeling myself. That thing was an interview with the ladies of Everyday Therapy Podcast . I'm so grateful to have been a guest on their amazing show. They are such pros, and they asked the best questions. There was so much great dating wisdom in this one that I just had to share. We covered topics l...

You’ve probably heard me talk about soulmates before because I’m pretty obsessed with clearing the air. When it comes to romantic relationships, there is not just one, person out there to love and cherish us. A soulmate is someone who has lived other lifetimes with us. Get it? Soul-Mate? So now that we’ve cleared that up, we can get into the real important stuff: manifesting a wonderful romantic r...

What if you found love, and then later experienced losing it? That was the case for today's guest, Carmen Ordonez, who was happily married and then lost her husband to cancer at a very young age. Suddenly, Carmen found herself heartbroken, a single mother, and single in a dating world that was very different than the last time she saw it. What she did to move forward was incredible, and I'm so gra...

When I was dating and looking for love, I was only saying I was looking for love. The truth was, I wasn’t looking for only love. What I was really doing was hoping and waiting for my ex. At the time, I was pretty aware that I was recovering from a breakup. I assumed the way to get over this would be to meet someone who would sweep me of my feet. But that wasn’t happening. In fact, I couldn’t find...

I completely believe that we have everything we need right now, from where we stand to find the love we really want. BUT why isn’t it working for you, right? Well, because unfortunately we have a lot layers of crap on top of us — limiting beliefs, traumas, anxieties, and so on. So while we’re equipped, often we have to undress the layer, one by one. Which is basically what I mean when I say,...

Have you ever fallen in love with someone who is off limits or unavailable? Cue:  “I wish that I had Jessie’s Girl.” Unavailable can be, they told you they’re not ready for commitment, or your heart is telling you they’re not open to receiving love. And off limits can me… they’re you’re boss! This can be really confusing. Because you’re like, shit, what is going on with my manifesting skills?...

If you're reading this, it's because you understand what I understand, which is that finding love is a spiritual journey back to self — back to our worth and our wholeness. What happens along that journey many times is that we are confronted with our past. And if we're not aware of it, we'll be confronted with our past over and over again. This is when we start to question "Why do I keep attractin...

The term ghosting may be new, but that practice has been around for a while. I remember being ghosted way before it was ever a thing, and feeling like crap. As if something were wrong with me. And it always seem to be "the nice guys" who would do it. You know, those people-pleaser type? Who are too afraid to confront you, so they just pretend nothing ever happened. Ugh, grow a pair. I'm actually h...

The reason we can't find love is not because there are no good people out there. It's not because "everyone on dating apps just wants to hook up." Truthfully, it's rarely what we think it is. It's always something so much deeper. When I was on my dating journey my biggest challenge was not feeling good enough. When I explored the origin of that belief, I was brought to mother. I realized that I sa...

Have you ever found yourself having the same relationship over and over again? Somehow, you're always the healer in the relationship? Or the one who financially supports everything? Or you're with people who only want to hook up? You probably think your manifesting skills are off, when really it's this one little thing that's off. When dating, we subconsciously think about what we have to offer. E...

No matter how zen we try to be about dating, there's one thing women can't get around: our biological clocks. There is nothing fun about dating when you feel like "time is running out," which is why many women opt to freeze their eggs. And while it might be common in big cities, not all of us have access to real info about the process. Not all of us have a friend who have been through the process....

We all want to feel safe. Dating is often painful because the process does not feel safe at all. Because of this desire, we often look for our potential partner to make us feel safe. Which is natural, but sometimes we can take it a little too far and create too much pressure for this person we just met. In today's episode of The Final Swipe, you and I are going to talk about how you can soothe you...

One of the best things I did in in 2018 was join a sister circle. I'd heard all the hype about sisterhood, but didn't think it was for me. I'm one to think I can do it all by myself, ha! Seriously, gathering with the same group of women, every month, for a year created so much transformation in me. For this reason, I wanted to talk to you about sisterhood. To do that, I brought on my friend Emily...

Hello lovers! It’s our first episode of 2019. Woohoo! I was so over 2018. I mean, there was some good stuff. We welcomed our third child into the world this year! But other than that it was all sorts of ego dying. What’s ego dying? I talk about in this episode. In this episode, I talk about what 2018 meant and how that will lead into 2019. I also share a few predictions for what we’ll see as a who...

Despite wanting to find love, most of us hate dating because it makes us feel all sorts of crazy. That crazy, uncomfortable feeling is not a sign that you need to runaway to the monastery. That feeling is anxiety. What's tricky is that often we don't know it's anxiety. Instead, we think that feeling means "this isn't the right thing," or "I shouldn't be dating," or "I'm not ready to date," or "May...

For the last few months, it seems like every time I sit down to meditate with my spirit guide , I have the same vision. It’s like a reoccurring dream, only this vision happens in meditation. It’s basically my spirit guide saying, “Lady, until you learn this lesson, we are not moving on to the next vision.” Spirit guides can be tough like that. What she was trying to teach me was that my external r...

Why is it that some people are on dating apps for two weeks and find the love of their life? While for others, it's more like five years? In this episode, I explain why dating luck seems to be unfair and what we can do to turn it around. I also talk about my: My group coaching course: The Final Swipe Masterclass My bestselling dating book: The Final Swipe My amazing readings

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In this episode: - I speak with astrologer Beth Bullitt

Are you really ready to find love? And if you're not, how to get yourself ready. Need some extra help on getting ready for love? Check out my book, “ The Final Swipe ” Sign up for my masterclass Or book a session with me

Get to know the podcast host, Nikki Novo, and how she became an Intuitive Dating Coach