Soul Led Living Podcast with Nikki Novo

I recently did readings with the hosts of Mindfully Millennial, and I just had to share their thoughts on their experience. Today, we're running a recording from their podcast where we talk about how I became intuitive, and how I'm able to see people's blocks without ever seeing their faces. I know, guys, it's bizarre. But truth is, we're all energy. If you're a tad bit interested in how reading w...

Today is our wedding anniversary. Eight years! I can't believe it. For a while there, I really never thought I would have a relationship past two years. Here I am, all grown up! In today's episode, I wanted to share with you my story of how I met my husband. How we came together. What worked. What didn't work. I know it's kind of an old story, but love is a classic story, right? I wanted to share...

This is your year for love, right? But haven’t you said that before? Isn’t it super scary to think that you’re in the same place all over again? I got you, my friend.  In this episode of The Final Swipe, I discuss your 2020 plan. This is how this year is going to be different.  It’s a mix of honesty, inspired action, and mindset.  Get your notes ready! Write down what comes up as we...

Why do some people from our past just feel sticky? Energetic cords, my friend. I see these often on people. They look like little ropes coming from one person to the other. Sometimes, we're the person holding on, and sometimes they're holding on. Who care who is the doing the holding. What's important is that we release them. If we don't, they become littler energy leaks in our aura. Don't be afra...

When we think "boundaries" we tend to think about setting them for people we don't really like. Or for people who we have to keep at an arms length. We rarely think of setting boundaries for people we do like. In this episode, author and master coach Nancy Levin schools us on the magic of boundaries, and how they make us look sexy while dating. She also shares her story of being in a controlling r...

The reason so many of us hate dating is because many times it feels very far from romantic. The swiping, meeting strangers... it can all feel really transactional. Which is really just another word for masculine. Let's change that, shall we? In today's episode of The Final Swipe podcast, feminine energy coach Anya Grace is here to school us on how we can make the process more feminine, flowy and j...

We all love to hear stories of how couples meet. For one, it gives us hope. But also, because we feel like we're listening to a magical story that actually occurred. It's like a real-life romantic comedy. Finding love seems like magic, because it often feels like we have no say in the matter. We think it happens by chance, by luck, by fate. And it doesn't help that most people will tell you these...

It’s that time of the year! When all your family members and old friends get all up in your love life! So fun. You can hear it now, “Sweetie, why haven’t you met anyone yet? You’re so smart, beautiful, and successful.” Ugh, yeah, that’s what I’m saying! Have no fear! We are going to make you holiday dinner table ready with today’s episode. We’re going to learn how to navigate that energy, how to l...

Alright, so manifesting is all the rage, right? You’ve studied up on it, made the lists, closed your eyes, and still nothing. There’s even people out there that will tell you to demand from the Universe. Expect the Universe to deliver! And yet…. nada. What’s going on? Why isn't it working? Well, my friend, let me tell you about the one step you may be missing. The part where you take inspired acti...

Before every reading I do, I meditate. I focus on the person’s energy like a nosey mom going through her child’s drawers. I’m looking for what’s working, what trauma remains, what fears exist, and what future is set in place. Everyone is different, and there’s a ton of variation in people’s energy, but one thing I see 9 out of 10 times is a little fence around the heart. Some look like a thin curt...

I see life in dating metaphors. Always have. Always will. And that started because, one day I just started to see my insides based off what I was doing in my dating life. It was the beginning of my awakening. Apparently, I’m not the only one. On today’s episode of The Final Swipe, we have author Kacie Main with us, whose dating experience was so spiritual that she gave it up for lent. This is such...

The reason we look for soul mates is because we're looking for a feeling. We're looking for a feeling of depth and intimacy. There's a misconception that intimacy and depth happens with some people and doesn't with others. When in fact, WE create the space for that. We can either make an environment that doesn't allow for depth or we can make one that does. In today's episode, I'm going to teach y...

I know, I know. You want to meet people organically and in person, because that is how you get a better read on people. I get it! But it's 2019, and dating apps are a thing. So let's embrace it, rather than romanticize our old flip phones. Today on the pod, I offer three steps to help you get a read on those online profiles. Here they are: 1. Recognize your judgements It's important just to note t...

Today we go over a common question I receive often: How do I manifest, but not feel obsessive over calling in a partner? Such a good question! Here are my tips. I have three for you: 1. When manifesting is not working, it's because we're being called to a journey of letting go It's important to understand that manifesting is natural. We're doing it all the time. We want something, and within littl...

Conscious dating, you guys, is a thing! And today, we have the godmother of conscious dating, Angela Holton on the pod sharing wisdom. She shares with us her own personal experience — how she turned her dating life completely around to something positive and empowering. We chat about not feeling bad for ourselves when dating, how to reduce shame around dating, and how to attract without obsessing....

Do you find yourself hanging onto old love despite your logic? It makes no sense, right? You know your worth and that this can’t possibly be good for you, but for some reason you’re afraid of letting go.  You’re afraid that you may never feel this way again despite the relationship being a total shit show.  I’m here to tell you you’re not crazy. Not because you’re right. Truth is you’re...

Today’s episode is a tough one.  Here’s why. Many of us are looking for divine masculine energy. Whether we’re in search of a heterosexual relationship or same sex relationship, we’re looking for either predominatly divine femine or predominatly divine masculine energy.  Today I’m speaking to those of you looking for a partner who is predominantly in their divine masculine energy. ...

I’m pretty obsessed with spirit guides if you haven’t noticed.  I first got into them when I went to visit a psychic who was supposed to tell me that my ex-boyfriend was going to come running back to me. No such luck. Her reading was so fascinating that I had to understand what she was doing. She explained to me that she could speak to angels. Whaaaat? And these angels apparently were around...

I often think of us as little kicked dogs trying to find love again even though we were abused in a past. Have you ever been with an animal who was hurt in the past? You go in for a snuggle, and they just back up out of fear of getting hurt again. That's us, you guys! Don't you ever feel like that? At some point, you will be loved... really loved, and it'll be hard to believe it. One day, you'll a...

Have you ever had a reading and the person told you one thing was going to happen and it never did? What's the deal, right? Did that person take you for a ride? If you're wondering about this phenomenon, you have to listen to this episode. In this episode, I talk about what futures look like in a reading; I explain how you can allow your future to come in; and how to deal with the anxiety of datin...

Because it's not, and Shani Silver wants to tell you why. Shani has been single for a decade, and one day she just became tired. Not tired of being single, but tired of being mad about it. And that's when things started to change for Shani. In today's episode, Shani shares how she changed her life by taking a different approach to being single than what we're normally taught. She explains how she...

If you’ve hung out with me lone enough, you know all about dating blocks: The strange stuff we believe that get in our way when it comes to love. We get that healing those blocks is going to be part of the journey. But truthfully, sometimes you just need some damn good dating strategies. And that’s what today’s episode of The Final Swipe Podcast is about. Tips! Because no one ever teaches us how t...

There is one thing we can’t go without when dating. If we try to leave this part of us out of the process, we will be completely lost. That thing is: our feelings. Connecting to what we feel is what gives us the direction towards what we want. It’s our compass. But, sadly, we’ve also learned that feelings are bad. We either want to jump out of our bodies when they come up, or we turn them off all...

Chances are you’ve heard about chakras, but really, what the hell are they? In today’s episode of The Final Swipe, we talk all about the heart chakra. In my private sessions, I use the chakras to read energy, which is how I’m able to see blocks in people. When I see an imbalance in that center, it’s either too open or too closed. When I was starting out on my spiritual journey, my heart was too cl...

It's not an easy convo, but we need to have it. For those of us struggling with dating, our soul is asking us to stretch. We are going to have to put ourselves out there and challenge ourselves in a way that you've never done before. Because if we keep doing the same stuff, we're just going to see the same result, right? The stretch is scary and really uncomfortable, I get it. In order to avoid th...