Soul Family Podcast

Have you put your teacher/mentor on a pedestal? Are you struggling with accepting the fact that you've outgrown your teacher and it's time to either move on to another teacher more suited to your needs or realise that it's time you become your own teacher? Are you afraid of offending them or perhaps avoiding dealing with it because it's uncomfortable? Maybe you are afraid of embracing your own gre...

As a healer, are you working with anyone and everyone that comes to your door? Do you feel fulfilled working with them or are you just going through the motions? Do you feel like what you have to offer is not being received or appreciated? Do you feel that you are too much for your clients? Maybe they feel overwhelmed because you are trying to overfill their cup. I feel that medicine resonance is...

Aligning with Infinite Intent is a skill that not everyone can master, but when you do, it can lead to a much more graceful life. The river of life will flow in whatever direction the Infinite sees fit for the perfect moment. We can either align with that or try swim upstream against it because we don't like the direction it is going. In my own experience, and with 20/20 hindsight, I have noticed...

When an issue arises in a relationship I find it most helpful to not take it personally and stand side by side with your loved one as you address the issue together as a team. See the issue as an opportunity for growth for both of you and the strengthening of the relationship. When one person in a relationship has a blind spot for example, they may be displaying distorted behaviour than is very cl...

Step 5. Start planning your future without your loved one. This can bring up a lot of guilt, so be prepared to deal with that. Will you stay at the same job? Are you in a situation to take time off? If so, take as much time off as you can so can make a decision from a place of clarity and not distress. What is the best thing to do for your kids? Can you work part-time? You may want to enter anothe...

Step 3. Connecting with your loved one in the soul world. One of the biggest mental challenges to losing someone through death is for the mind to not only adjust to the fact that the person is no longer here in the physical world, but that it can't place where they are. This uncertainty can be very taxing on the nervous system and psyche, and can be a barrier to truly overcoming grief. After you r...

Step 1 - Allow it! There's not much to be done when you've just received the biggest blow of your life. Be gentle with yourself and take all the support you can get. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and even weak. It's OK. These initial few days will be crap and no one can really say or do anything that will change that. It's about surviving and getting through the funeral, etc. Step 2 - Release th...

Many light bearers of the planet feel like they need to justify their existence here on Earth at this time. They feel like they should be doing more. Healing more people. Doing more ceremonies, more meditations, attending more retreats, doing more inner work, etc.. They feel like their progress through life is measured by these actions and even how much they have sacrificed to be the best they can...

The matrix or virtual AI reality we currently live in is designed to control, confuse, weaken, and syphon off our energy until we expire. When we have personal experiences of this through our interactions with people and situations, we tend to take it personally and engage with these narcissists. We try to change them, fight them, and blame them, yet never seem to get anywhere. These situations an...

A spiritual awakening can bring unprecedented levels of clarity that can trick on into believing they have just discovered fire before anyone else! Don't be fooled into thinking you know it all just because you suddenly find yourself surrounded with people who can't see what you can see and appear to be completely asleep and unaware. As you leave your old life and the most of the people in it, you...

Tough love firstly requires that we are tough and ruthlessly honest with ourselves. We have to eradicate all of our triggers, traumas, belief systems, and programs before we can be in the position to be tough on others, if that is what the moment requires. When we live our highest truth as clear vessels of Infinite intent we can take action through effortless knowing of what the moment requires. L...

Silent Mind and an open heart are the core tenets of not only spiritual maturity, but spiritual mastery. Dialogue of the mind is a common occurrence is almost all beings, as a combination of too much information/knowledge and programs/belief systems running how we experience life. Ridding yourself of these programs and taking time to be in silence without your phone and other sources of "noise" ca...

Freedom from the shackles of the past. Releasing the stories of the past, and any notions we have had as to who and what we are, are prerequisites for us to be able to be full present to the magic of the moment. We have to be able to completely self-annihilate and allow the road behind us to be dissolved so there is no turning back and only the unknowable road forward exists, which only appears as...

Dedication and undaunted perseverance. The more you deepen into your connection to source the more inclined you are to make better choices that are life-enhancing for you and those around you. This deep connection also assists you to release old habits and adopt better ones that become the building blocks of your spiritual maturity. Some of these higher choice habits and rituals can become daily o...

Fearless exploration of light and shadow. Shadow can be viewed as the parts of ourselves that we fear, are ashamed of, are guilty about, etc.. They are the parts of ourselves that we don't wish to look at. They can be so intense that we will do anything to avoid dealing with them and so we distract ourselves through addiction, shallow living, etc.. However, on the spiritual path you cannot outrun...

Self- Love One cannot have true self-love without having self-knowledge first. The imprints and labels we have been saddled with throughout our lives have caused us to believe things about ourselves that aren't true. We have therefore rejected parts of ourselves as a result. These are the parts of ourselves that we see as unlovable. We also have genuine traumas that have caused us to feel shame, g...

The battle for self-knowledge. Who am I? Who am I not? What am I? What am I not? In a mirrored reality it is very challenging to understand who you truly are when almost everything you think you know about yourself has come from the mirrored world around you, i.e. backwards/inverted reality. Most of the time we have been observing what we're not rather than what we are. By observing and experienci...

Self-transparency and seeing through the masks that people wear, and the lies they tell themselves and others. To see through people's lies you have to be completely honest and truthful with yourself. Ruthlessly so! Stalking yourself is a key aspect of spiritual growth where you question your thoughts and actions to make sure you are not trying to manipulate, control, or impose your will on people...

Triggers in the early days of your spiritual journey can be quite obvious to spot and can be easily traced back to some previous trauma. As your spiritual journey progresses it can be more challenging to find the subtle triggers that cause you to feel uneasy. Sometimes you will see them as a pattern stemming from a previous trauma that has largely been dealt with. At other times it can be the matr...

Part 4. Being at home for yourself and not getting pulled into other people's realities. Other people's emotions and dramas can cause us to self-abandon and be with them in their stories. This causes us to leak energy and leak consciousness. Being at home for ourselves and assisting those in need from a place of empowerment serves both parties much better. When we have a dysfunctional inner nurtur...

Accepting responsibility for your environment. Each of us exist in our own unique reality and our external environment is part of our greater selves. Our environment can be a reflection showing us what we're not or perhaps something we need to work on that is showing up magnified to get our attention. Our environment can also be our expression which is showing us what we are. This increasingly bec...

Seeing the perfection in life and mining the gems of your experiences. Having the backdrop to how you view life as one of underlying perfection can help keep you out of the holographic world of mirrors and in the real dream of the Infinite. If your intention is always to see the benevolence of life you will have a greater chance of uncovering the gifts of your experiences. Overcoming the initial s...

This is the first episode in the series of exploring the 13 signs of spiritual maturity that I have noticed on my own journey over the last 20 years. There are many more but these are just some that have stood out to me. This episode covers your ability to bounce back from seeming major setbacks as a yardstick of your spiritual maturity. If you spend weeks or months trying to overcome a major setb...

Divine timing is not something that we can control. It is something we must align with and surrender to. Trying to work on our small self's timeline is an agenda and black magic as we are trying to enforce our will on life. When we are in alignment with Infinite intent, we are feeling the currents and flows of life and allowing them to carry us rather than forcing their direction. Sometimes the gi...

Are you holding back on expressing your true authentic self out of fear, false humility, or self-judgement? If so, you could be casting a shadow in your life that can show up as opposition, hostility, or even negative entities around you. Firstly, you need to plug your energetic leaks from trauma, belief systems, and programs. Then you can start to fill out your inner space with your true presence...