Sorry For My Language

Aging is so misunderstood that if asked the simple question "What is aging?", how would you answer? In this episode I attempt to answer this as sensibly as possibly.

I had Heart surgery (a procedure) 10 days ago and I am better than ever after the aches and pains of the process. By the way, nurses are hand-picked by God.

I am getting heart surgery in the morning. This is my pre-op preamble about it.

War is good for nothing but folded flags. How do you grieve?

There's a more than one way to keep adults civil and to raise children. Drop comments to let us know how you feel about this solution. https://grindstoneuniversal.com/ Originally recorded 3.3.26

Jingle Bells was created by a racist person in Medford, MA who introduced his song in Minstrel shows for money. The exploitation of black people was so lucrative that this song became a huge success and an American family holiday tradition. The composer of this song later left his abolitionist parents and traveled south to join ranks with the Confederacy and fight in the Civil War. His sister then...

If things stay the same, things will stay the same. Ask yourself what you're doing to shake things up in your life. What book are you reading? What course are you taking? What new habits are you creating? I recently took an A.I. course and learned just how much I don't know about the changing world in which we live. Repurpose yourself to prepare for a better life. Originally recorded Dec. 10, 2025...

Actions speaks voliumes. This episode was originally recorded Nov. 12, 2025

Originally recorded 11.25.25

Originally recorded 8.14.2025 In the federal agent occupation of the Nation’s capitol, there are solutions to the problems. These solutions exceed excessive force. Let’s look into some of the solutions between the people and the police. https://grindstoneuniversal.com/

This was originally recorded on 8.11.25 Today in Washington, DC the president has assumed the role of rescuing the nations capital from bloodshed, squalor, and rampant drug use. By invoking Sect 740 of the DC home rule act, the DCMPD is now officially under direct federal control. Blaming the abject failure of city govt, Donald Trump has said that it is now time for federal intervention of street...

The human brain has different functions, many of which are not studied enough. From the Beta, Alpha, Theta, and Delta waves, we go into the programming of your mind and harvesting the desired results on this episode. Originally recorded 8.8.25

Recently in the WNBA, fans have been throwing sex toys onto the court during the games. This can be seen as extreme misogyny and derogatory behavior to denigrate women who are in a professional environment. Understandably, this action can be seen as irresponsible and mean without any redeeming value. On the other hand, there is a bright side held within this teachable moment. Will the WNBA find th...

This weekend a new term was introduced into the lexicon of dating. The word is heterofatalism. It is the nihilistic behavior of women who are heterosexual yet tired of men’s dating behavior. What are they to do? Perhaps there’s room for alternative perspectives to reach the lonely. On this episode of “Sorry for My Language” I entertain various perspectives as well as one newly found unlikely coupl...

Originally recorded July 25, 2025 Are you a goalpost mover? Do you feel that there is a life after this? Do you think good people get rewarded for being good and bad people get punished for being bad? or Do you think is cause and effect the universal rule? Let's dive into this to understand if we're adequate judges for any of these standards. What if the bad person thinks that they're the good per...

Orginally recorded 6.9.25 he battle between the Mexican population in California and the U.S. government is rooted in colonial conquest, broken treaties, racial injustice, land theft, and ongoing systemic discrimination. It is a long history of resistance, resilience, and a fight for justice and recognition in a land that was once part of Mexico. https://grindstoneuniversal.com/

Starting a YouTube channel has several advantages for everyone. Video journaling offers several unique advantages over traditional written or audio journaling. Here are the key benefits of recording your thoughts on video regularly: 1. Emotional Expression & Clarity • Facial expressions and tone capture emotion more vividly than writing. • Helps you see and hear your true emotional state, whic...

People need people. Make a friend of yours a good friend and separate them from mere associates. There is a huge difference. Distinguish friends from good friends, then recruit people who show potential of being good people for you. Spend more quality time with those who are your friends by actually connecting with them when you are around them.

Ryan Coogler’s Sinners is a daring foray into supernatural horror, set against the backdrop of 1930s Mississippi. With Michael B. Jordan delivering a dual performance as twin brothers Elijah “Smoke” and Elias “Stack,” the film intertwines themes of Black identity, family legacy, and the American dream through a unique blend of crime and vampire horror. The narrative follows Smoke and Stack, World...

Listening to your body and mind can be confusing. Which one overrides the other? I think the body/mind conversation should be an internal dialogue rather than simply an old adage. https://grindstoneuniversal.com/

There’s a big difference between being nice and being kind. Toxic positivity is usually a trait when someone follows the societal norms of being nice. This behavior will usually be more of a formality than an exercise in honesty. The kind one is often kind enough to be honest and never spare anyone of the gift of the necessary truth. These characteristics can change your life by changing key compo...

Why is it that we always have to prove ourselves as something that we aren't to people who don't eve care? For childishly perceived social value, I understand. However, beyond childhood it makes no sense and the imposter behavior often ends unfavorably. This was originally recorded on 4.9.25

Did you once think that every billionaire attained that status by some measure of evil? I did. I actually think that was true until recently Social media and direct to consumer marketing has changed that. Let’s figure out now how your angelic self can get a billion dollars in this new economy https://grindstoneuniversal.com/

Hesitation does not favor any of us in the grand scheme of things. Measure twice to cut once, but don't think about until the opportunity outgrows you.

Hobbies save lives and purpose builds legacies. The things that you choose to do on your time are totally your business, just please make sure you are up to some real business. As we can learn from the spider, our spare time is actually our preparation time to build things that will lead us to necessary utility and purpose. The use of our moments become infectious and may just change the way some...