Defy Expectations Ltd
So you want to be a leader... Really? By Defy Expectations
We’re here to explore the highs and lows of leadership today with our guests and help you navigate the complexity of being a leader. From every aspect, from the sublime to the ridiculous and everything in between. With weekly guests from all levels of the organisation.
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Jul 2, 2026
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Episodes
The hidden forces that shape leadership with Dave Schoof 02.07.2026 22:50
Helen explores the intricacies of leadership with Dave Schoof, who focuses on blending business results with consciousness expansion. They discuss the importance of unlocking innate genius, the balance between execution and influence, and the transition required to navigate today's complex leadership landscape.
What resilience actually is and how to build it with Helen Honisett 23.06.2026 20:31
What if resilience isn’t about pushing through, but about how quickly we can return to balance under pressure? In this solo episode, Helen shares insights from her recent research into resilience, nervous system regulation, and what it really takes to help leaders perform sustainably in high-pressure environments. Discover why resilience is more than mindset, and how understanding the scienc...
Ethical persuasion and the power of human decision-making with Patrick van der Burght 18.06.2026 25:59
In this episode, Helen meets Patrick van der Burght, an expert in ethical persuasion. They discuss the science of human decision-making and its application in leadership, with Patrick sharing the key principles of persuasion, emphasising their ethical use for long-term success, and practical tips for leaders to enhance their communication and influence.
Understand and lead yourself with Paul Petera 04.06.2026 22:00
In this episode, Helen meets Paul Petera, a veteran in leadership and culture. They discuss the significance of self-awareness, the evolution of leadership roles, and practical tools for building successful organisations, highlighted by insights from Paul's career and his book, 'Built On Purpose.'
Leadership through emotional intelligence with Gerrit-Jan Van Velze 21.05.2026 26:43
In this episode, Helen delves into the highs and lows of leadership with Gerrit-Jan Van Velze, an executive coach with a rich background in professional rugby. They discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and feedback in both sports and corporate settings, and how these elements contribute to creating a sense of belonging and high performance within teams.
Self-awareness as a leadership superpower with Ben Brearley 07.05.2026 25:20
Helen is joined by Ben Brearley, who shares his journey from corporate roles to leadership coaching, discussing the importance of self-awareness and self-acceptance in effective leadership, 'accidental leadership,' and how to adapt one's style authentically.
Thriving in an age of digital transformation with John Fallon 23.04.2026 33:05
In this episode, former Pearson CEO John Fallon joins Helen to unpack what 'digital-first' really takes: Why customers set the pace, how incumbents reinvent, and the enduring value leaders must protect as models shift. From AI vs. dot-com déjà vu to middle managers as the organisation’s “shock absorbers,” John offers a practical, purpose-led playbook for change.
Engaging the majority with Mark McBride-Wright 09.04.2026 25:33
In this episode of So You Wanna Be a Leader, Really Helen talks with Mark McBride-Wright about rethinking inclusion by engaging the majority. Together they explore how men’s mental health, vulnerability, and the SAFE leadership model can reshape what truly inclusive leadership looks like today.
Driving Impactful Change with Debbie Plager 26.03.2026 25:39
In this episode, guest Debbie Plager shares her passion for empowering leaders, and discusses the impact of coaching, and the importance of holistic development to drive organisational success.
Building Winning Sales Teams with Sean P Shannon 12.03.2026 22:10
In this episode, host Helen Honisett speaks with Sean P Shannon about his passion for building high-performing sales teams. They cover Sean's experiences in solution sales, the importance of curiosity and integrity, and the challenges of transitioning from sales to leadership.
Leading Beyond the Bid with Matt Light 26.02.2026 27:47
Helen speaks to Matt Light, a passionate advocate for people development and leadership in the bids and proposals industry. They discuss the crucial role of bid and proposal teams in generating significant organisational revenue, the challenges of ensuring team wellbeing under high-pressure deadlines, and the importance of breaking out of traditional perceptions to foster leadership qualities with...
Unraveling leadership visibility with Susan M Barber 12.02.2026 28:57
Helen is joined by Susan M Barber, who delves into the essentials of leadership visibility. Susan shares her personal journey - from being overlooked to becoming an advocate for self-promotion and visibility.
Consistency is your standard with Willy Kuhne 29.01.2026 23:47
Helen is joined by Willy Kuhne, to discuss the intricacies of leadership, the importance of consistency, and how self-awareness shapes great leaders. Willy shares his journey from East Germany to Google, and discusses the role of standards, structure, and ongoing development in building high-performing teams.
Your personal brand is your competitive advantage with Lirone Glikman 15.01.2026 22:44
In this episode, host Helen Honisett discusses the intricacies of leadership and personal branding with guest Lirone Glickman.
Achieving the promises diversity makes with Bernadette Smith 18.12.2025 28:42
In this episode, Helen speaks to Bernadette Smith about the challenges and societal shifts in DEI, the significance of an inclusive 360 approach, and the barriers to achieving true diversity.
Cutting through complexity with Dominic Colenso 04.12.2025 22:07
Helen speaks to actor-turned-leadership expert Dominic Colenso about his new book 'Cut-Through: The Pitch and Presentation Playbook', and how leaders can use the power of story, communication and messaging to huge advantage. Dominic's new book is available now, here You can find out more about Dominic on his website and YouTube channel
What makes us human with Robin Camarote 20.11.2025 21:56
In this episode, we explore the complexities of leadership with guest Robin Camarote, discussing the importance of impact, the challenges of leadership roles, and the significance of curiosity and self-awareness.
Break the rules and go for greatness with Charles Spinosa 06.11.2025 27:26
In this episode, we explore the complexities of leadership with guest Charles Spinosa. Charles shares his journey from academia to consulting, emphasising the significance of defining one's passion and taking moral risks in leadership.
Growing through adversity with Matt Kutz 23.10.2025 27:50
We speak to Matt Kutz, a passionate advocate for leadership development through adversity. Matt shares his journey, drawing from personal experiences, including battling prostate cancer, to highlight the importance of humility, strategic thinking, and compassion in effective leadership. We discuss the significance of flexibility, continuous learning, and the role of suffering in fostering authenti...
Building your emotional intelligence with love with Alicia Farricielli 09.10.2025 18:23
We speak with Alicia Farricielli about navigating the complexities of leadership, the importance of self-awareness, effective communication, emotional intelligence, and nervous system regulation, and provide you with actionable insights for creating a supportive and thriving business environment.
Mastering high performance without sacrificing your health with Rachael Edmondson Clarke 25.09.2025 22:49
Can you achieve high performance without sacrificing health and fulfilment? Rachael shares her personal journey, the 'Four R' model, and practical tips for leaders to balance ambition with well-being.
Defying Leadership Norms with Jen Sherman 11.09.2025 23:35
Join Helen as she talks to Jen Sherman, a seasoned leadership development expert, about her journey from marketing to coaching leaders. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and the impact of effective leadership on team dynamics and corporate culture.
Embracing your fears with Mark Franklin 21.08.2025 21:13
We speak to Mark Franklin, a mindset coach passionate about helping small business owners overcome their fears, and delve into the four common fears he identifies in entrepreneurs.
Slaying your Imposter Syndrome with John Little 07.08.2025 19:56
In this episode, Helen Honisett speaks with John Little, known as the 'Imposter Syndrome Slayer.' They discuss the impact of imposter syndrome on leaders and explore actionable strategies to overcome self-limiting beliefs.
Transforming Minds and Workplaces with Matthew Punter 24.07.2025 23:10
Matthew Punter shares his journey overcoming educational challenges due to ADHD and autism, discusses redefining neurodiversity, the importance of passion in leadership, and how organisations can better support neurodivergent employees.
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