So What's Even Happening?

Balancing ambition and love isn’t easy—and sometimes we’re the ones making it harder. In this episode, we explore modern dating standards, especially for driven, entrepreneurial women. Are we being too picky, or are we just unwilling to settle? We unpack financial expectations, lifestyle compatibility, emotional availability, and what it really means to date while building a legacy. Get ready to l...

Social media can be both a powerful tool and a source of burnout. In this episode, we get honest about our complicated relationship with content creation, visibility, and the pressure to perform. Are we posting for impact or for approval? We talk about mindful digital presence, managing visibility without losing yourself, and how to reclaim your time and energy while still showing up online. Key D...

What could change if you gave something your full focus for 90 days? In this episode, we explore the idea of going all in on a goal—whether it’s personal, creative, or business-related. We dive into the psychology of habit formation, the power of momentum, and what it takes to actually commit. We also challenge each other with wild 90-day scenarios (hello, no online shopping!), and talk through wh...

Pivoting doesn’t mean starting over—it means stepping into alignment. In this episode, we talk about how to evolve without abandoning the core of who you are. From career changes to creative redirections, we break down how to embrace transformation, manage identity shifts, and find confidence in the unknown. Plus, we highlight iconic pivot queens like Rihanna and Issa Rae, and debate who did it be...

Only 9% of people feel they’re using their time efficiently—and we’ve got questions. Are we actually too busy, or are we overcomplicating everything? In this episode, we explore how to simplify our workflows, daily routines, and expectations. From ditching perfectionism to leveraging systems that work for you , we’re unpacking how to stop doing the most and start doing what matters. Tune in for pr...

33% of adults report feeling lonely most or all of the time. So why does it still feel so hard to talk about friendship in an honest way? In this episode, we sit down to unpack the relationships that often go unchecked—our friendships. From the people who light us up to the ones who subtly drain us, we’re doing a full-blown Friendship Audit. We ask the real questions: Are your friends truly pourin...

Society tells us that quitting is for the weak—but what if it’s actually the boldest, smartest move you can make? In this episode, we challenge the stigma around quitting and explore how knowing when to walk away can lead to greater success, happiness, and personal growth. Whether it’s a dead-end job, a one-sided relationship, or a passion project that no longer sparks joy, we break down the signs...

Everyone is talking about living the soft life —but are we really prioritizing rest, or just avoiding discomfort? In this episode, we break down the difference between intentional rest and avoidance disguised as self-care. We dig into the real reasons behind burnout, why many of us feel guilty about resting, and how to unlearn the hustle mentality without falling into the trap of avoidance. Plus,...

In the 'delulu' era, how much of success relies on our beliefs, and how much depends on taking intentional action? In this episode, we unpack the meaning of delusion, the art of manifestation, and explore the essential balance between dreaming big and grounding ourselves in reality. We explore the power of belief, goal-setting, and strategic moves so you can learn how to apply those stra...

The day we filmed our very first podcast episode also happened to be the same day Donald Trump was re-elected as President. Talk about a rollercoaster of emotions. In this episode, we reflect on what it felt like to wake up that morning, knowing the weight of the day ahead. We made a conscious choice to tread lightly, protect our peace, and prioritize our emotions before letting the media flood ou...

"Should" is a sneaky little word that can drain your joy and creativity. We dive into why “should” is so triggering (especially for introverts and creatives), how it shows up in sneaky ways, and how to let it go in favor of inspiration and curiosity.  If you’re tired of feeling pressured by expectations—yours or others’—this is the episode for you. Join us in creating a world of curiosit...

Are you addicted to the hustle? We’ve been there. This episode is all about the art (and challenge) of resting.  Learn how we had to remind each other (and ourselves) to slow down, why rest is essential for long-term success, and how embracing recovery can actually boost your productivity and creativity. Get more real talk about rest and resilience: 🎧 Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podca...

Self-care is more than bubble baths (though we love those too).  From small, simple acts of kindness toward ourselves to giving ourselves permission to rest, we share our favorite ways to refuel and recharge.  Tune in for fresh ideas on how to pour into yourself, even when life gets busy. Find balance, joy, and self-care inspiration: 🎧 Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us...

Who says fun is only for the weekends?  We talk about finding joy in unexpected places—like email inboxes and workout routines—and share how bringing playfulness into your daily life can boost your creativity and energy. Plus, we dive into the role of other creative outlets that bring more fun into our lives. Subscribe for more tips on creativity, fun, and balance: 🎧 Listen and subscribe on: Appl...

Motivation comes in waves, and burnout can hit hard. So how do you keep the spark alive when you’re feeling drained?  We explore cycles of inspiration, share personal stories of losing and regaining creativity, and discuss strategies to fill your cup so you can keep pursuing your goals. If you’ve ever struggled with boredom or burnout, this one’s for you! Get more inspiration and follow our journe...

Anxiety is part of life, but staying in motion can help you push through. In this episode, we open up about the first moments we felt real anxiety and how it’s impacted us as creative entrepreneurs.  We break down practical strategies for managing anxiety by taking action, setting small achievable goals, and staying in momentum when fear tries to hold you back. 🎧 Listen and subscribe on: Apple: h...

Hosted by Accountability Partners Cortney and Xiomara, So What’s Even Happening? (SWEH) is a fresh, honest, and hilariously relatable podcast about the ups, downs, and WTF moments of pursuing big dreams, navigating creative careers, and figuring out life one step at a time. Join us as we dive into candid conversations about creative burnout, self-doubt, productivity myths, and the magic of finding...

A year in review of having an accountability partner. The highs, the lows, and how staying consistent has transformed our creative businesses. We share how to structure weekly meetings and the power of asking, "How can I support you?" 🎧 Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/so-whats-even-happening/id1789610782 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MhlMV...

In our first episode, we share the origin story of our accountability partnership—how we met, bonded over personal development (thanks, Mel Robbins), and committed to making 2024 our best year yet.  Discover how weekly meetings keep us motivated and on track as creative entrepreneurs. 🎧 Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/so-whats-even-happening/id1789610782 Spot...