So What Now? with Carla and Dex

On this last episode of the year we have an OG guest and Original  host of Shit I'm 30, the one and only Dexty . Join them as they discuss How Carla has the power of Life and Death coming out her tongue (7:01)  Ten things you should leave behind in 2022 (8:36) How Dexty taught Carla how to set healthy boundaries (11:30) Why Carla's therapist told her to smoke more weed (15:10) Shame surrounding be...

Carla is back this week with a special guest. She is joined virtually by none other than Ms. Mandii B herself, join them as they discuss their journey as entrepreneurs through their friendship.    3:08 Carla and Mandii recap how they met as a bartender and bottle girl.  7:00 Compartmentalizing your friendships  9:00 How Mandii outed Carla on her blog and Carla thinks she's Meghan Markel 20:31 Mand...

Busy, Petty, and Don't Come to Me as a Woman Carla is back after a crazy couple of weeks. Join her as she talks about   (2:10) Her first holiday season as a single woman (3:55) How her support system got her through this time last year  (28:17) Do women spend money on men? (40:32) Why 30 is too old to come to anyone "as a woman" (54:09) Pastors are human too!   

This week, Carla is again joined by a PWP favorite Krysta  (@krysta.monet) , founder of the tech startup Fem Speaking and Ivy's Garden .   Join them this week as they discuss, the Tulum Retreat and how we're expanding (1:00)  How Krysta started her journey of starting her apps (5:25) Her struggle with fighting with people reporting her support group (6:56) The demographic of people who enjoy Ivy's...

Gratitude Is My Superpower   Happy Monday! On today's episode, Carla is joined by her friend and criminal attorney Alisia Adamson Profit ( @alisiaesq & @hawmlaw ) Join them as they discuss their journeys from standing on couches to Friday night bible study (3:35).  How a holiday could have ruined Alisia's marriage (11:11) Practicing abstinence after marriage (20:10) An attorney's opinion on Pre-Nu...

This week Carla is joined by her friend and veteran Shit I'm 30 guest Krysta Monet (@krysta.monet) , founder of the tech startup Fem Speaking and Ivy's Garden .    Join them as they discuss the Yvonne Orji standup special (3:54) regarding being a strong black woman. They breakdown lyrics that brainwashed us as young adults (9:01) They ask why as women we can't ask for help (15:30) Carla is going o...

This week Carla gives the full rundown of the Synergy Wellness Retreat in Tulum, Mexico, she and Paola discuss their personality traits, and why having an assistant can be cringy!    Book your retreat in Tulum!  SynergyWellnessRetreat.com   Idea to Launch Academy Launch your podcast in 30 days!    Thank you, Better Help for sponsoring the show. Click here to get 10% off your first month  www.bette...

Happy Halloween! This week the sexy cat herself is back to discuss some halloween horror stories, scary things no one warns you about in your 30s, and why Carla plans on getting WILD at 50 PURRRR!   Book your retreat in Tulum!  SynergyWellnessRetreat.com   Idea to Launch Academy Launch your podcast in 30 days!    Thank you, Better Help for sponsoring the show. Click here to get 10% off your first...

This week Carla is joined by a couple of the most inspiring entrepreneurs in Orlando, Michelle Welch & Jena Melhberg . These friends could not stop laughing as they discussed the latest Ray J and Princess mess, their journeys as self made entrepreneurs, and why they don't like the phrase "women empowerment"!    Connect with us on social media: Instagram: @carlawilmaris @pivotwithpurpose Twitter: @...

This week Carla is getting a man's perspective on fatherhood! She is joined by Lil' Shawn her cohost on FLY Morning Wakeup Show. Join them as they discuss the challenges of being single parents, why vasectomies are on the rise, and when is "getting on your feet" no longer a valid excuse.  Connect with us on social media: Carla Wilmaris  Lil' Shawn WAITLIST - Synergy Wellness Retreat 2023  Idea to...

This Carla discusses how too much positivity can be toxic and, the hurricane she experienced before the actual storm. The question of "hoe-ing" in the mom group is also posed by Paola, and she shares why she was horny and scared in D.C.!   WAITLIST - Synergy Wellness Retreat 2023    Idea to Launch Academy Launch your podcast in 30 days!    Thank you, Better Help for sponsoring the show. Click here...

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This week, Carla discusses how being nice can get you in all the right places, her almost run-in with the law, and why the most expensive gifts have the lowest value.  

This is a story of resilience, hard work, faith, and obedience. Carla this weeks tells her story from 2015 being fired from her finance to being hired to be the female voice of her city in the SAME BUILDING!!!! 

Carla has been single for 6 months and she says she's ready for dating and is even in the apps that the girls are using nowadays. This week Carla with Paola go over their current dating situations and it looks like carla has bae's in every area code. 

This week Carla is back to give you an update about where she has been and the serious Law and Order episode of her life at the moment. One thing that you will for sure take away from the episode is that No Weapon Formed Against You Shall prosper when you are obedient and truly Let Go and Let God! Launch Your Podcast In 30 Days www.ideatolaunchpodcast.com use code 'pivot' for $100 off   Get your g...

This week Carla is joined by Baron Young from Reach One Recovery which dedicated to providing the "spark" of enlightenment for survivors of narcissistic abuse. We are shinning a light into men that have experienced abuse. As a society we dont allow men to share or express their pain, yet this kind of abuse will cause PTSD so many while the numbers of narcissistic abuse keep rising.  Some of the th...

Launch Your Podcast in 30 Days This Week we are joined by Myshelle also known as My Certified Angel to discuss Carla's first time doing a tarot card reading out of desperation.  Turns out that Myshelle has dealt with her own trauma that catapulted her into finding her purpose with Tarot Cards and the spirits Book Myshelle for your own Spiritual Reading

We have Mac "The Therapist" back for another week to continue to talk about Narcissism. This episode delves deeper in the conversation of how this affects the one on the receiving end. We talked about love- bombing and how its an end to their means. We had moments where realizations were made and gave a different perspective. I learned that I came to terms with the fact that although this person p...

We have Mac "The Therapist" back for another week to continue to talk about Narcissism. This episode delves deeper in the conversation of how this affects the one on the receiving end. We talked about love- bombing and how its an end to their means. We had moments where realizations were made and gave a different perspective. I learned that I came to terms with the fact that although this person p...

This week Carla Wilmaris is back with recurring guest, Paola and a special guest, Mac "The Therapist". We get deep this week, so grab some wine, a notebook, some tissues, whatever you need because we are going right into it. We are talking about Narcissism. We started the conversation with statistics and how 1 in every 16 Americans has been affected by someone with NPD, then broke down the differe...

We're back! We started this episode with reading some questions that were submitted by our amazing listeners. The questions were amazing and set the tone for this episode to start talking about how life is scary, but its ok to lean into asking for help. We touched on how men are now somewhat intimidated of women, they are dominating in a lot of different areas of the money-making industry. I also...

Today we have KBJ Energy! Congratulations to Ketanji Brown Jackson on being appointed to the Supreme court.  This week's episode we start off with my reservations of turning 35 this year. I realize that I am grieving the thought of where I thought I was going to be, and what didn't happen or will happen based on changes that have happened in the past almost 2 months. Then dive into this week's epi...

I'm back like I never left! And I have my amazing friend, Paola back for another episode. This week I want to talk about my journey. You have all been with me from corporate, to leaving and starting Shit I'm 30! to saying I didn't want anymore kids, to getting into a new relationship and being in love, to not now a newly single mom and entrepreneur.   As women we are very judgmental of ourselves a...