So.... I'm Adopted Podcast!

Send us Fan Mail You can spend decades feeling like your story starts in the middle, then one DNA match changes everything. We sit down with Pekitta Tynes, a professional comedian, inspirational speaker, and the author of Thank God I Was Adopted Because DNA Is No Joke, and she brings humor and honesty to the parts of adoption that are hard to say out loud. Pekitta was abandoned without a birth cer...

Send us Fan Mail Adoption can hold joy and ache in the same breath. We open with reunion—meeting a sister after years—and the quiet courage of calling a birth parent “mom,” even while honoring the mother who raised us. From there, we move through grief, village support, and a practical update on a genealogy case that’s finally in motion. The heart of our conversation explores transracial adoption:...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when the truth comes early, a storm knocks out the island’s power, and a single name spoken in a courtroom echoes for decades? We bring you Jennifer’s journey—from being adopted at two days old on Guam to leading an NYC adoption agency for older youth—and the winding path between belonging, uncertainty, and grace. We talk about the power of honest language in childhoo...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when a four-year-old's brave disclosure at a doctor's appointment changes the trajectory of her entire life? Sana Latrice Cotton joins us to share her extraordinary journey through foster care, adoption, and eventual reconnection with her biological family that will leave you breathless with its divine orchestration. From being separated from her twin brothe...

Send us Fan Mail This intimate conversation offers a rare glimpse into how adoptees and their families navigate the complex emotions that arise when biological relatives are found. We explore the tension between excitement and caution, the fear of rejection from both sides, and the healing that happens when communication remains open. • The deep need adoptees have to understand their biological or...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when an adoptee grows up in an open adoption during the 1990s and becomes a children's book author? Sasha Sedman takes us through her remarkable journey, revealing the beautiful complexity of relationships that form when adoption is treated with honesty from the beginning. Sasha shares the extraordinary story of her birth - how her adoptive mother became friends...

Send us Fan Mail Saran T. Baker never imagined that at 24, fresh out of college with her first job, she would suddenly become the adoptive parent to her younger siblings after her mother's tragic death. Yet somewhere deep inside, she always knew this would be her path. Growing up in what she candidly describes as the "hell home," Saran developed an early determination to one day pro...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine uncovering hidden family truths and forming unbreakable bonds across unexpected paths. Join us, John and Lisa, in a heartfelt exploration of adoption, identity, and the relationships that shape our lives. This episode features the inspiring Kalila Scott Sumners, who offers a deeply personal glimpse into her adoption journey. From being embraced as a "chosen child&quot...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when adoption intersects with marriage? Join us as we explore this question through the lens of our own relationships, with our significant others, Janice and Titus, lending their insights. From uncovering family secrets to navigating complex emotions, our 13th chapter marks a milestone in understanding the profound effects of adoption on personal identity and family...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine uncovering life-altering truths about your past nearly four decades into your life. This is the journey our guest shares, where unexpected revelations about family roots and adoption bring a cascade of emotions. We start by reflecting on the extraordinary lives of celebrated adoptees like Jamie Foxx and Babe Ruth, illustrating how nurturing environments and supportive rela...

Send us Fan Mail Our latest episode of "So I'm Adopted" or should we say "So I wish I was Adopted", promise to deliver a heartfelt tale and more.  Join us as we navigate the intricate world of nontraditional family dynamics. Our conversation sheds light on the emotional intricacies of mixed-race identities and strained family relationships, offering hope through stories of...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what it feels like to navigate the intricate labyrinth of adoption and family dynamics? Join us as we welcome Shakia Simmons, an adoptee and Hampton University alumna, who brings her unique perspective on this emotional journey. Shakia's insights, woven with light-hearted banter about football and a tribute to the late James Earl Jones, add depth and warmth to o...

Send us Fan Mail What shapes a person's path more profoundly: the family they’re born into or the family that steps in during times of need? This episode unearths the stories of famous adoptees like Ice-T and Simone Biles, whose lives were irrevocably molded by non-traditional family dynamics. Hear how Ice-T's aunts provided a sanctuary after he lost his parents, and how Simone Biles&apo...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as John shares the heartwarming and emotional journey leading up to his daughter Jayla's graduation, a milestone that brought his family together in unexpected ways. Lisa and John open up about the profound impact of non-traditional relationships and the emotional layers that come with adoption, highlighting the involvement of John's first mother in their celebra...

Send us Fan Mail As we approach Mother's Day, Lisa and I find ourselves wrapped in the warmth of gratitude for the incredible women who raised us—our adoptive mothers. Their love and influence run deep, and in this heartfelt episode, we examine the layered emotions adoptees may experience during this time. From the personal tales of country music's Faith Hill to the surprising family dis...

Send us Fan Mail Embarking on a heartwarming journey, we honor the intricate stories of adoption that have influenced lives from the humblest beginnings to the heights of influence. We pay tribute to the riveting adoption tales of figures like Nelson Mandela, whose story resonates with the biblical Moses, and actress Lynn Moody, biological daughter who uncovered her as her mother in the most surpr...

Send us Fan Mail Embark on an emotional expedition with social worker and foster parent trainer, Allison Davidson, as we uncover the layers of the foster-to-adopt journey. Allison brings a wealth of knowledge from her 25 years in the field, guiding us through the process with a focus on its financial approachability and the rigorous background checks designed to safeguard the children's welfa...

Send us Fan Mail magine standing at a crossroads, the path behind you a tapestry of silence and secrets, the way ahead promising a reunion with a piece of your soul you didn't know was missing.  As we reveal our personal experiences with adoption and the significant impact of reuniting with our biological mothers, our tales intertwine with the heart-stirring stories of others, including the p...

Send us Fan Mail Discovering that you're adopted can be like opening a book mid-story; you scramble to piece together the narrative that led you here. Our podcast, "So I'm Adopted," is that space where the adoption narrative unfolds, where stories of emotional complexity within adoptive families, biological parents, and adoptees heal and connect us. Adoptees often wander betwee...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever pondered the intricate layers of identity that come with being adopted? Join us as we welcome a special guest to share in the heartfelt exploration of this profound journey, a path marked by discovery, acceptance, and a quest for a sense of self. Together with Lisa and John, we unravel the emotional tapestry that adoptees navigate, from the simplicity of a childhood...

Send us Fan Mail Discovering my own adoption story felt like unearthing a hidden chapter of my life, one that explained so much yet raised countless questions. We, Lisa and John, both adoptees, invite you to traverse this complex terrain with us in our podcast, "So I'm Adopted." By bringing to light the myriad emotions and experiences surrounding adoption, we craft a narrative that...