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In this episode the fellas are joined by the homie Kay as we discussed love languages. With Valentine's day coming up we went over certain appropriate gifts to get women as well as if fellas deserve or recieve gifts. We also take a quick detour into kay's love life and how she has never been in a serious relationship as well as her love languages.  As always today music has been curated and a...

On this episode, the fellas discussed a new concept called relationship's remorse. Just like survivor's remorse where you feel guilty for being somewhere or achieving something that you don't deem yourself worthy for, relationship's remorse is when you feel like you're in a relationship with someone and cant help but think that your partner deserves better. As always we also discussed past relatio...

In this episode the fellas are joined by a long time listener and a fellow creative Tia or Toxic T as we like to call her. We discussed cheating in a relationship and the various kinds of cheating. We also discussed reasons why people would cheat and question whether a valid reason can be used as an excuse to cheat. ENJOY!!! As always this episode’s playlist can be found on both Apple Music and Ti...

In the last episode of 2020, the fellas are joined by a good friend and fellow podcaster Frac from the Fric and Frac NYC podcast. We discussed a wide array of sexual topics ranging from our individual sexual bucket list, any limitations when it comes to your partner as opposed to a random 1 night stand and much more. There was also talks about drinking squirt juice and salad tossing. Enjoy!!! As a...

On this episode the fellas sit down and reminisce on old high school stories. We also discussed certain things we would like to change based on what we know now. And of course it wouldn’t be the So Here’s the Thing podcast if none of us talked about any old girls from High school and how they are doing now. As always this episode playlist can be found on Apple and Tidal Keyword search: So Here's T...

On this episode the fellas addressed the age old stigma that "boys get hurt when they're young and carry that pain throughout all of their relationships." We also discuss our toxic traits and what we've learned from each relationship. We're also joined by 2 callers who shared their experiences dealing with toxic men and taking that pain into their next relationships.  As always this episode's...

On this episode the fellas are joined by one of their longtime homeboys Paris. We discussed the feelings and thoughts that most men go through when it comes to parenting and dealing with the rush of responsibilities of a young father. We also share our personal experiences along with the trials and tribulations that we've dealt throughout our times as fathers.  As always the music on today's...

In this episode, the fellas discuss the upcoming presidential elections happening 11/3. We aren't by any chance political pundits, nor are we clearly educated enough to have an in depth political conversation, but we are 3 black men that grew up in the hood and slowly figured out that we don't know shit about politics.  Enjoy As always the music on today's episode is available on tidal and ap...

On this episode we sat down with Niesha from the #SipNFactuals podcast. We discussed everything from relationships and marriage and of course sex. We also explore the new nuances with dating or meeting prospective daters during the pandemic and how to navigate the dating scene.  As always this episode's playlist can be located on Tidal and Apple music Key word search : So Here's The Thing...E...

In this episode, the fellas borrowed an excerpt from the Trill Elevation podcast entitled "loosing your identity," We discussed how often times people end up loosing themselves while in pursuit of making someone else happy which in the end would result in them ignoring their own personal needs.  we also got a call from Cheeto and a new friend to the podcast Yolein. Enjoy!!! As always this epi...

In this episode the fellas discuss the importance of entrepreneurship. They discuss various pros and cons of being entrepreneurs and what comes with starting up your own business. For some odd reason we jump down a rabbit hole of Youtube couples doing things for views. As always subscribe and tell at least one person to subscribe as well.  "Support does not always have to be financial,"- SHTT...

In this episode the fellas discuss all the stupid sh*t people do or say when they want to break up with someone. They also discuss how they may use the break up to make their ex jealous as well as certain petty things exes do to "win the break up." As always today's playlist is exclusively available on Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing EP 26 (Link Below) https://tidal.com/playlist/c50b684f...

The boys are back after a 3 month hiatus due to COVID-19. In this time a whole lot has happened and the guys just briefly discuss some of the major occurrences from that time. As always we appreciate the support from our listeners and we are back with great content and more. As always today's playlist is exclusively available on tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing EP...25. (link below) https...

In this episode the fellas are joined by JB from the Hour Truths podcast. We discussed the rules of engagements when it comes to exes and your friends and how fragile that dynamic can be when certain lines are crossed.  All songs played on today's episode can be streamed on Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...Ep 24 (Link Below) https://tidal.com/playlist/d9f6c1c7-9b0a-4f9c-a056-b6901f...

In this episode we had an opportunity to sit down and have a generational enlightening conversation with an OG. We were joined by a special guest "Turk" who has spent the last 26 years of his life Incarcerated . In that time he obtained both a Bachelors and a Masters degree all while maintaining a healthy relationship with his loved ones. He's now successfully transitioned back into civilization a...

In this episode the fellas discuss the pros and cons of dating someone at work. They also touch on the idea of having a work wife/husband and how it can both positively and negatively affect your actually relationship.  All songs played on today's episode can be streamed on Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 22 (Link Below) https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/08ae3d79-c3ae-4c37-bc38...

In this episode the guys discuss various aspects of parenthood including adopting and fostering children. We also discuss some bias behavioral traits that parents may exhibit between their adoptive and biological children as well as factoring in the step children component within a family. All songs played on today's episode can be streamed on Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 21 (Lin...

In this episode we were joined by the lovely Melissa from “relayshons podcast.” We talked about everything from domestic violence and other forms of abuse people would face in relationships. We also explored her views on marriage and how we unlearn certain norms to be able to allow yourself a shot at true happiness. All songs played on today's episode can be streamed on Tidal keyword search: So He...

In this Episode the fellas start of with a tribute to the late great Kobe Bryant and all of those who lost their lives in that tragic helicopter crash on 1/26/2020.  Naturally leading to reflect on lost ones in our own personal lives, and how life as you know it can change at any given time. Surprisingly the episode took a turn some how and we got lost into the rules of "Monopoly and Uno" (id...

In this episode the fellas discuss accountability. Holding themselves accountable for certain failures in past relationships, past friendships and the family dynamics. We also try to identify toxic traits that’s we’ve experienced and some we have ourselves. Episode 18 playlist is available on Tidal https://tidal.com/playlist/ab2033d0-b9a4-4c1b-aad7-e9dd15c77967

In the final episode of 2019, the fellas reflected on the year and decade that they've had. We shared some of our failures as well as our accomplishments and even look ahead to our goals for the upcoming decade.  Podcast Playlist available on Tidal: So Here's The Thing... EP 17 https://tidal.com/playlist/8040ae7d-e70d-4246-b01e-2e89596b2c3a

After a brief hiatus due to some personal issues, the guys return with another one for ya head top.  Since it was a busy week, we didn’t really prepare a topic, but we discussed a range of topics from childhood whoopings to NYC mass transit. We're also looking for a willing participant to help us further understand the LGBTQ+ and how we should address such issues on our platforms. So enjoy th...

In this episode the fellas are discussing basic relationship protocol. we started off the episode giving our opinion on the "lil Fiz & Apryl Jones" fiasco, and then we describe certain rules and guidelines when dealing with your friends and their relationships. Enjoy Podcast Playlist available on Tidal: So Here;s The Thing...EP 15 https://tidal.com/playlist/8689940f-83cb-4818-83dc-70760b80b5cd

Most of the time, men are looked at to be strong, logical and closed off emotionally. In this episode the fellas sit down and unpack our honest feelings. We discuss our mental state which tends to go unheard while dealing with issues such as abortion, miscarriages and simply telling someone you love them. BE CLEAR, WE ARE IN NO WAY ADVOCATING THAT WOMEN SHOULDN'T FEEL HOW THEY DO, all we’re doing...

This week the fellas just got together and talked about prominent movies and shows that impacted their lives. They’re also joined by Tara Samuels from “tee__caters” who stopped by to share her story and what inspired her to make such great, authentic Southern and Caribbean fusion cuisine. Enjoy!!!! Podcast Playlist available on Tidal: So Here's The Thing...EP 13 https://tidal.com/playlist/e641dd35...