So Here's The Thing...

On this episode the fellas discuss the internal struggle that you may face when in a new relationship and you feel as if you're constantly placed in positions where you compare yourself to their ex or you may feel as if they are doing it themselves. We are also joined by rapper Saint P and he shares his stories about his upcoming and his journey and goals in the music game. you As always the music...

On this episode the fellas are back and this time we brought a special guest. We tried to peak behind the curtain into how Stizzy is in a relationship by talking to one of his "Exes" and it did not disappoint. She shares stories about him lying and catching him red handed etc... Hope you enjoy! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword...

On this episode the fellas didn't have the full squad together so we wanted to just kick back and have a chill convo. The first thing we addressed was the fact that men should NOT be saying "its the ___ for me." IDK why but we got this habit of blurring the lines of what seems to be acceptable behavior and that ain't it. We're also joined by a friend to the show SO SO in 2's absence and we chop it...

 On this episode, the fellas start off the conversation with our thoughts on "Trend culture vs. d**k riding culture." What it means to be a follower/leader in this environment and how to properly distinguish your position. We also discuss various Art forms that might've been interested in before and some that we may experiment in the near future. ENJOY!!!!!! As always the music from today's e...

On this 1st episode of 2022, the fellas are back to start off year 3 of the podcast with a Bang. We are joined by 2 lovely young ladies (Katrina and Alana) who discuss their school experiences both on and off campus, as well as their relationships that they've dealt with. Some stories got so wild that we had to ensure no names were mentioned. Enjoy!!! As always the music from today's episode has b...

On this episode we have a compilation of clips and conversations from our most streamed episodes from this crazy ass year. We went through good times, bad times, break ups and make ups and you stuck with us the whole way and we appreciate it dawg. For our first time visitors take this time to catch up on old episodes and to our long time listeners stay tuned for another good year of content, conve...

On this episode the fellas are joined by a friend to the show and fellow podcaster JJ, and we discuss how they deal and cope with heading from relationship to relationship with not enough time in between to actually heal. JJ also gives insight into the dating apps and how he've used them to look for love. As always check out the @nameabetterpod podcast to keep up with JJ & AK. Enjoy!!! As alwa...

On this episode the fellas get into how we can better describe the ways in which we provide and protect in relationships and how it differs from the generations before us and what we can see from the generations after us. We also touch base on what to do when women put you in a situation where protecting yourself can also be considered protecting them and what to do if your ex is flaunting the new...

On this episode we had our home boy from the Name a better plug podcast AK pull up to kick it with the guys. We start off the convo with our usual scenario question and then we get straight into the random slew of thought provoking conversations you know us for. We discuss dating again but this time adding in the dating app experience as well as a few nuances we have encountered along the process....

On this episode we brought the guys Loso and Jay on to discuss the ins and outs of after work happy hours. We shared the origins of how we all got into happy hours and took you through a play by play of a typical happy hour night with us. Enjoy! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 53(links below)&...

On this episode the fellas discuss a wide variety of topics and hypotheticals ranging from the youngest and oldest girls we would date to how we feel about corporations taking a stand against social issues As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 52 (links below) https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-...

On this episode the fellas are joined by our homeboy Khalid. We discussed various physical insecurities we may have had to deal with whether it was personally or having to talk someone off the ledge about theirs. We also celebrated Khalid's recent signing to his modeling agency and how he intends to navigate his new found career.  As always the music from today's episode has been curated and...

On this episode the guys get up with a long time friend to the show, and now one of the most toxic and mixist men in the eastern hemisphere @kingloonthe1st. We discuss a bunch of weird scenario questions and some of the answers get a little dicey. We also discuss the ongoing battle of who had the best album between Kanye West's "Donda" and Drake's "Certified Lover Boy" Enjoy!!! As always the music...

In this episode the fellas are back with a deep reflective conversation about certain life lessons that we’ve learned so far. We touch base of the dynamics of family and relationships as well as a message to anyone who maybe struggling with life decisions needed to make. We’re also joined by the super creative Anthony Jamari Thomas and he discussed his thoughts on the current space of entrepreneur...

On this episode the fellas are joined by 2 lovely ladies and friends to the podcast, Frenchy and Raven. Although Dre wasn't here for this episode the fellas stayed true to form and got straight to the deep unexpected questions from the beginning. We start off by asking what would they do to the age old saying" never leave someone you love for someone you like" but with a twist. Throughout the epis...

In the episode the fellas are back together finally after like a 2 week hiatus. In the past 2 weeks a whole bunch of stuff happened from the homophobic remarks and backlash that da baby is facing all the way to Rihanna becoming a billionaire. We didn’t want to come in with a full serious topic that we’re used to because  A. We’re not at full strength B. We didn’t feel like doing it because it...

On this episode the guys discussed knowing when and how to read the room. A lot of times people are oblivious of how other people are feeling so they tend to miss a lot of the signs, or sometimes they just don't care. We also discussed how important it is to reading body language and how it can possibly affect you in your relationships. As always the music today has been curated and available to l...

On this episode the guys discuss some of our first street experiences and our first examples of when we realized the streets played by different rules. From brawls in elementary school to adulthood fist to cuffs altercations, we've pretty much been through it all. We even briefly discussed gang culture and how its glorification may have impacted the youth and why some are urged to join one...ENJOY...

On this episode the guys are finally answering the questions that have been sent in from you guys the listeners. We are joined by some familiar faces and friends to the show, Toxic T and Mel from the Relayshons podcast. We tackle a little bit of everything stemming from sex smells and colorism. Enjoy!!!! As always today's playlist can be found on either Tidal or Apple music keyword search: So Here...

Since we spoke about pillow talking on episode 42, we figure we start this episode discussing "Dirty Macking" and we are joined by friend to the show Zilla. According to the Urban Dictionary, Dirty macking is Attempting to mack on another person's significant other by talking bad about them behind their back . And we know some of you have either been the dirty macker or the person being dirty mack...

2 YEARS GANG!!...On this anniversary episode the guys start by extending our gratitude and appreciation to everyone who've supported us along this 2 year journey in the podcast game. Anyone who've been a guess or any fellow podcaster that we've collabed with we appreciate it all. All that aside the guys jump right into discussing pillow talking. We each have our own opinions about pillow talking a...

On this episode Dre and Stizzy discuss social media and its pros and cons towards relationships. Also how does a single man or woman maneuver and find strong love in today's era with all of this social media influence. We also discussed how the courting process is now compared to a time before everyone was so distracted by their cellular devices. ENJOY!!! As always the music for today's episode ca...

In this episode we are joined by Shonteay Lovell the CEO of the Layc Investment Family inc. We immediately got to asking about his knowledge of Forex and why when approaching a prospective trader, it comes off as if its a scam. He also goes into detail about the rise of Crypto currency as well as the pros and cons of trading. He highlights a few different avenues to generate various streams of inc...

On this episode the fellas are joined by friends to the show and rising artists Kev Cartier and DJ monay. In this episode we started off by discussing the actions and thought process of being a "serial cheater," and what goes into putting your trust in someone . We also discussed their new project (Get Home Safe) and their upcoming plans for their careers.  As always the music for today's epi...

In this episode the fellas are joined by the founder of the Luxury Soy Candle company Dorothy B & Co. Together we discuss some of the trials and tribulations most black women go through when it comes to loves, happiness, safety and professionally. We discuss the new era of black women coming together standing up for themselves and simply getting things done day in and day out. We also discusse...