So Here's The Thang

Show updates, life updates, movie reviews, and shout-outs are all included in this new episode of SHTT. Within the show are healthy conversations on friendship, marriage, romantic relationships, grief, awakenings, and more. We always ensure plenty of laughter and thought-provoking conversation that we hope you will share within your communities. Thank you for listening! Episode Shout-out: IG @tqsc...

Hey, big head! We're back with our last pop-up episode of 2024, and it's an ear-pleaser. We catch up with stories of African safaris, hikes, and tantalizing views while some enjoyed desert skies and others settled for a view of the Reunion Tower. Nonetheless, we all are grateful and share our empowering stories of growth and progress this past year. Of course, we still have all the laughs and smil...

Well, ask, and you shall receive! Get in here and feel these harmonies as Donnie takes us on a spontaneous, thought-provoking ride. It's Donnie like you've never heard him before. He smashed it like a hammer to an ant! Enjoy the show. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod....

If you're looking for a step-by-step tutorial on effectively handling getting stood up because situations will arise in our lives, but you have to be smart about it, this is the episode for you. If you're breaking up with your ex and need the Excel formula to calculate the depreciation and final amount your ex owes you for the furniture, ya'll split the cost for this is the episode for you. Join u...

Welcome Byke to the POP-UP Podcast! We missed ya'll! We have a great show today and hope to add a little razzle-dazzle to your Friday. So, what are we talking about in this episode? Well, do you like RHOA? How do you feel about 'the lying attorney' making her return? Do you watch Presumed Innocent on AppleTV? Who did you think did it? Are you a woman with a disdain for men more sensitive than you?...

We're back with another compelling episode! This time, we have a special treat for the listeners who purchased Corey's new book, Threaded. Corey's book is a memoir in which he shares intimate stories about his life, including his romantic relationships, so what better way to learn more about the book than from someone who's in it? That's right. Corey's first boyfriend enter...

Did you all miss us? Because we missed you all. We are byke with another episode, and to start it off, Jasmine is happily angry, Donnie is tired, and Corey is cozy with patience.  We were away for a minute, so we had an extended Wellness Check segment where we discussed real SHTT! From there, we touch on a few things in News You Can Use, including Beyonce, because why not? Donnie then leads us dow...

Welcome byke, ya'll! The SHTT crew has created an impactful episode we hope you'll enjoy.  We start with announcements about changes to the show to lay the foundation for your listening ears in the new season of SHTT. We always say life is about swift and consistent transition, which often means change, so we're hopeful you'll enjoy growing with us this season.  We introduced our f...

That's a wrap! Thank ya'll for another fantastic season. We appreciate you being a part of our community. In our season finale, we listened to Donnie's Honesty Hour responses and provided commentary alongside our perspectives. We also have some News You Can Use with colorful banter included. Donnie's book club information is below if you are reading along with us. Happy holidays in...

We're byke with another "Happy Hour" episode for ya'll. We've been away for a minute, and baby my, how things have changed. We're discussing a new marriage, new relationships (aggressively single where), and community. We had so much SHTT to catch up on that we didn't get deep into News You Can Use; however, we definitely touched on a couple of polarizing news topics...

This is an episode about nothing. We turned on the mics and started chit-chatting with liquor in our cups. It was a time. You should've been there, but you can listen in. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at  patreon.com/SHTTPodcast . If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at  info@soherest...

Welcome byke! We are celebrating the 50th anniversary of hip-hop, and it's providing the soundtrack for this episode. We catch up and talk about tons of music and a few eventful recent topics since we've been gone. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at  patreon.com/SHTTPodcast . If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a gues...

Hey, Ya'll! It's our anniversary! We appreciate a fantastic three years of consistent listenership. We couldn't do it without you. *insert heart hand emoji* As far as this episode? It's an assortment in there...sex, mamas, travel, music, booty cheeks, pegs, cooch, food, booty licking, Jesus, all of the things! A conversation was had. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at  patr...

So, we take it back to where it all started. The sexual liberation of the 1960s, as we address the attack on black women from other black women. Crazy right? Additionally, we finish our conversation on early relationship dynamics, and our crew catch up and news you can use. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at  patreon.com/SHTTPodcast . If you would like to submit questions or comments regar...

In this episode, we discussed being in a polyamorous relationship and all the other SHTT we usually discuss. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at  patreon.com/SHTTPodcast . If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at  info@soheresthethangpod.com . Please leave us a rating or review. We would like...

Welcome to summer! In this episode, we have an extensive conversation in our News You Can Use segment as we discuss what you'll discuss on the Twit. We have Donnie's honest hour question, and we reach into our nostalgia of experiencing summer growing up in different regions of the world. We round the episode with a spirited conversation about relationship attachment styles based on the aca...

Welcome byke! So, in this episode, Donnie and Jasmine tussle the entire time, and Corey J goes off about the made-up concept of emasculation, all while we have a special guest and friend to the show, Anitra, present. It was a time! We had a lively conversation about the gay community mirroring heterosexual normalities in relationships that led down a rabbit hole of religious and internalized homop...

Honestly, it's complete chaos on the other side of the play button. The tequila was pouring, and the conversation was flowing. All of your favorite segments are there, including Donnie's Honesty Hour. Welcome back, and enjoy! Find our VIDEO episodes at  patreon.com/SHTTPodcast . If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on...

In this episode, you are covered with the crew catch-up, news you can use, listener questions, and responses. Then we pick up where we left off last show by having a conversation asking if it is a red flag if a relationship is ALL work. Eventually, we arrived at an answer. Kinda. Corey J also announced his new venture, and you can check out the work he will be doing on his website haveconversation...

Hey, ya'll! We are back with another eppy where we share our latest life updates and the listener's responses to Donnie's question, "What's hard about dating you?" While we did let ya'll have it a few times, we also share what is complex about dating each of us. Other than that, we're sitting around the table talking our SHTT per usual. Enjoy! Find our VIDEO episo...

Ya'll still there?! We've made it byke! Welcome to season 4! Can ya'll tell how excited we are by the use of all these exclamations? The crew is back with a guest host from season 1, Sabrina (aka to Corey as Pal), and it's a wang dang doodle. There's an extended crew catch-up this episode, and then we get into a conversation on masculinity and feminity from our personal experiences. There's also s...

Shout out to everybody; we had a good time!  Get into our last episode of 2022 with the crew digging into some News You Can Use where a pastor tells a woman to wait for a man who she claims to be her husband; however, the man is in a whole relationship. Whole.  Also, the Monopoly board game has come to kill, steal and destroy, and we'll explain more inside the episode. We recap our top 2...

What's this episode about, you ask? Sex, drugs, lies, and vulnerability. Enjoy the show!  Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, or you would like to submit your own "So Here's The Thang," please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com . We will read questions,...

Hey, ya'll! If you like a splash of News, You Can Use mixed with a deep dive into relationship dynamics in the course of dating, then listen. We hope you all enjoy a great Thanksgiving with your friends and families.  Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, or y...

In this episode, we wrap up our series on accountability and explore how we can implement levels 7 and 8 after the reflective work of levels 1 through 6. We're not sure how this will work and probably didn't land on a resolution; however, we have an awareness. Next, we discuss relationships and how our commitment temperature adjusts as they progress. Finally, we kick around the importance of a fri...