Slay Girl Slay

We have gameplans, we have to do lists, and we know what we want – but our excitement won’t get us there. We wait for “motivation” to carry us to the finish line, but when we’re not motivated how can we still get the job done? One day we can be super motivated to work towards our goals, and then the next day be over it – both days the work still needs to be put in. Our habits define who we are sis...

Happiness does not come from jobs. Happiness does not come from bae. Happiness does not come from the extra zero in your bank account. It may afford you more freedom…but what is freedom, if you are too sad to enjoy it? Even in isolation, under all of these rules, restrictions, and guidelines – you can find happiness. Why? Because happiness does not come from other people, places, or things. Happin...

You are a human being first. You are not perfect, and you were not created to be perfect. Your walk with God, your faith in God, is between you and God. Not you and your friends. Not you and your family. It’s between you and God, period. If you had it together all the time, and if you did everything right – what would God have to work with? Regardless of what everyone else says, come as you are si...

“I hope so” and “I know so” are two very different things. While sometimes all we can have is hope that things will work out for the better, we have to remember it is our faith that gets us through in times like these. Our girlfriend Hope is cool and all – but we all need our girlfriend Faith to gas us up, remind us of who we are, and show us where we are still destined to go. Subscribe To Our You...

Stop trying to get the “formula” or the “cheat codes”. Create your own formula, and do what’s best for YOU to get to where you need to go. You have to not be afraid to make your own rules. Stick to your own plans, and trust that you will get there on your own time. It’s so easy to just do what everyone else is doing because they “look” successful. Do your own thing boo. Subscribe To Our YouTube! W...

Season 3 of the Slay Girl Slay podcast is here! When we last chat, we dedicated our episode to ‘All the Girls That Lost’ last year. In this season sis – we’re coming back for everything that’s ours. What we thought was a setback, was really a setup. It’s comeback season this year, and after this episode we want you to go for it all. If there is no more room at the table, it’s time to build your ow...

This is it Boo! Dedicating this episode to all the girls that “lost” this year. The girls that lost relationships, jobs, friends, loved ones, their peace, and their joy. This podcast is dedicated to all the girls that went for it this year, and got knocked down. The girls that show up every day, and still feel like they are getting nowhere. We see you Boo. This last one is for you. Subscribe To Ou...

It takes more than just sticking a picture of the things you want to manifest, on a vision board. This week we’re giving you all of our favorite visualization habits – that can absolutely change your life. You want that store – go stand in it, even if you don’t have the money. You want to be that NY Times Bestselling author? Go stand in the book store and visualize your book on the shelf. We have...

You’ve reflected on your year. You’ve taken the time to plan your goals. Now it’s time to prepare yourself. Prepare yourself for this new decade upon us. Prepare yourself to execute every single one of your goals. It’s time to prepare for a new season. This week we’re finishing out our Preparing for 2020 series and giving you all the tools you need to finish this year strong! Subscribe To Our YouT...

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This week is part one to a 3 part series we’re doing, in preparation for this new year that is now upon us. If you know us, you already know we do not take goal planning, & dream chasing lightly. To kick us off, we’re talking all things reflection. How can we completely slay next year, and enter into this new decade with confidence, if we don’t know what we did this year or how to improve? Sidenot...

Issa Girl Gang coming?! Tune into to hear more about it! This week we’re talking about the best way to honor our bodies, and how to get our physical selves prepared for slaying this new decade. Anything from taking care of our skin to breast exams are all on the table this week, and we want you to be ready, prepared, and capable for all that you will be receiving in this new season you are enterin...

How are we going to make a list for the type of man we want, but not make a list of the type of woman we need to be first? Single girls everywhere – this one is for you boo! Being single is not a curse, it is a season. The season to do your thing, at your own pace, on your own time, and find your own happiness. Often times we’re looking for others to make us happy, and to treat us with respect and...

Who cares if you’ve never made a sale, never booked a client, never sold a book and only have a manuscript – call yourself an entrepreneur, call yourself a stylist, call yourself an author if that’s what you choose. We have to stop waiting for other people to validate our goals. Validate them yourself. You have to start walking, talking, and acting like the very person you want to be in this world...

You get back what you put in sis, and we aren’t just talking about work. We’re talking real people, real connections, and real blessings. Ash shares a very good (and personal) story about what happens when we follow our hearts, trust our instincts, and choose to do the right thing for someone else. Regardless if we think they deserve it or not. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component t...

No more excuses boo. Time to get your head back into the game, and prioritize how you want to finish the end of this year. It starts now. No more excuses. No more second guessing. No more negative self talk. You either want it or you don’t. You either are going to be about that life, or you’re not. This week we’re gearing up for the entire grind, relentless hustle, and all the focus for the rest o...

You can’t copy and paste everything you see online into your real life. You can’t copy and paste someone else’s mind, someone else’s creativity, or someone else’s life! You have to be just who you are, every single day, whether you have stacks sitting in your bank account, or you’re just trying to get by. We get it. It’s so easy to want to be like someone else. But it’s a lot easier being you, tha...

This week we’re all about the purge! We’re talking all things tidying up, creating & cultivating peace within the spaces we dwell in, and Ash shares a short & sweet thought on our community, black men, and the late Nipsey Hussle.  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website   The post Spring Cleaning: Tidyi...

We can’t just throw up a bunch of quotes about self improvement, doing better, and being a woman that’s “moving different” without embracing the changes that come with it. The sooner you can adapt to a situation, the sooner you adjust. The sooner you let go of trying to control a situation, or a person, or an issue in your life and can start moving with the changes that are happening instead of ag...

Kicking off Season 2 of the Slay Girl Slay podcast! Ash is back after a short break and takes no time serving up a huge slice of self confidence, discussing the importance of knowing your worth, and how sometimes you just have to slide your credentials across the table to remind people of who you are. Did you miss us? Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTub...

From one to 15 thousand. We thank you for such a great year! 2019 is yours for the taking boo. Become a different person. Embrace change. If it’s too easy to achieve, you already know it’s not for you. Regardless of what you are after in the new year – be crazy enough to go for it. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTo...

You control the level of confidence in yourself, not your job, not your title, not your followers, not your environment – just you. You have the tools, the resources, and the power to walk into any room like you own the place. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Confidence is Queen appeared...

Ash gets personal this week as we touch the surface on just how important forgiveness is, and how NOT forgiving someone and holding onto that baggage can keep you from getting to your next level. If you’re carrying the baggage of what someone did or said to you, how can you hold the weight of the blessings that you’ve been praying for? Yeah we went there. Drop them bags right here sis. Subscribe T...

This week on the SGS podcast, we’re talking breakups, lashes, lipstick & swooping those baby hairs we all know how to do so well. It’s important to mourn the people that purposely leave your life, & then rise like fire and make a major comeback. Speaking of comeback, when they leave, they always come back boo. We promise. Just be ready for them. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component...

This week we are getting real with our goals, and teaching you how to not just think outside the box – but think BIG. Big Dreams. Big Goals. Big Plans. Big Blueprints. When you write stuff down, as it relates to your future, and how you wan’t your life to be? The things you want literally jump off the paper – and happen for you. What you need for this episode? Pen, Paper, and a dream. Subscribe To...