Sittin' In A Tree Podcast

Submission in marriage is often misunderstood, misapplied, and sometimes even weaponized. In this episode, we unpack the true biblical meaning of submission, the role of both husband and wife, and how mutual sacrifice—not control—leads to a thriving, fulfilling marriage. If you want a healthier relationship rooted in truth, this episode is for you.

Communication is one of the biggest struggles in marriage—but it’s not just about talking more. It’s about  what kind of conversations you’re having . In this episode, we explore how negative, stressful, and routine conversations can slowly create distance in a relationship—and how  intentional positive communication  can rebuild connection, trust, and emotional intimacy. We also discuss: Why coup...

Feeling stuck or bored in your marriage? In this episode of  Sittin’ In A Tree , John and Shalon share  5 simple and practical ways to bring fun back into your relationship —most of which you can start tonight. From getting out of your routine to creative date ideas and spontaneous connection, this episode is packed with  easy ways to reconnect, laugh more, and enjoy each other again. If you’ve be...

What Counts as Cheating? Emotional Affairs, Boundaries, and Rebuilding Trust in Marriage Cheating is one of the most searched relationship topics online—but many couples still struggle to define  what cheating actually is . Is it only physical? What about emotional connections, secret conversations, or pornography? Where should the boundaries really be in a healthy marriage? In this episode of  Si...

Communication problems in marriage aren’t usually about the topic — they’re about tone, assumptions, and misinterpretation. In this episode, we share practical, real-life communication tools from 31 years of marriage, including: How tone instantly shifts a conversation Why “listening with curiosity” changes everything The danger of assigning emotions to your spouse How to pause and reset mid-confl...

What if the missing piece in your marriage isn’t just better communication… but more fun? In this episode, we explore three foundational habits that help couples move from surviving to thriving: • Making laughter a regular part of your relationship • Choosing spontaneity over routine • Learning to be playful again as adults Between raising kids, paying bills, and managing responsibilities, it’s ea...

What separates an ordinary marriage from an extraordinary one? In this episode, John and Shalon unpack the five pillars of what they call  Super Love : – Sacrifice in all things – Unconditional love as a daily decision – Presence both mentally, emotionally, and physically – Extraordinary in going beyond what’s expected – Revealing new ways to love and serve each other If you’re looking for practic...

Many Christian couples enter marriage hearing “don’t have sex”… but never learning what healthy sex inside marriage actually looks like. In this episode of  Sittin’ In A Tree , we talk openly about sex, intimacy, communication, trauma, purity culture, and what the Bible really says about enjoying sex in marriage. We discuss: • The difference between intimacy and sex • Why sex can feel awkward or d...

In this episode, John and Shalon dive deep into what it really takes to grow a marriage. Love isn't something you just "fall" into—it's something you step into and work at every day. The duo explores the paradox of attraction: how the very traits that made you fall for your spouse can sometimes be the ones that drive you crazy later on. In this episode, we discuss: The Work of Lo...

Do you feel like every argument in your marriage turns into a competition? In this episode of  Sittin’ in a Tree Podcast , John and Shalon talk about  how to fight fair in marriage  and why trying to  win arguments  often leads to resentment, disconnection, and unresolved conflict. We cover: Why most couples argue the same way over and over How “keeping score” damages trust in marriage The differe...

Having kids changes everything — your schedule, your energy, and often your  marriage . In this episode of  Sittin’ In A Tree Podcast , John and Shalon talk honestly about what happens to a relationship after kids enter the picture. From exhaustion and unmet expectations to miscommunication and emotional distance, this conversation is for couples who love their kids but feel disconnected from each...

**Marriage Isn’t a Fairy Tale… It’s Better (If You Do This)** 💍🔥What *really* happens **after “I do”**? In this episode of the **Sittin’ In A Tree Podcast**, John and Shalon get real about marriage—the work, the expectations, the communication struggles, and the small daily choices that actually build a **fun, fulfilling, and lasting relationship**.If you’ve ever wondered:* Is marriage **50/50 o...

In this Season Premier, John and Shalon dive into what it takes to find and keep the Love alive in a Marriage. Through personal stories and lived experiences, they help you work for the FUN and Fullfilling marriage you desire.

ThIs mini- episode is just an appetizer. Get to know us and a little bit of our story as we discuss upcoming episodes and what you can expect in Season 1. As it usually does with us, the discussion went a little deeper than we had planned. Episode 2 drops January 7th, so be sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode.