Sister Signs & Red Flags

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes the biggest red flag isn't the person you're dating—it's the version of yourself you become to keep the relationship. In this deeply personal episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags, Leka reflects on four defining relationships and the different versions of herself each one created: The Ride-or-Die, The Cool Girl, The Martyr, and The Compromiser. Through s...

Send us Fan Mail Every relationship is built on a shared understanding of reality—but what happens when two people are no longer living in the same one? In this episode, Leka examines the tragic case of Pastor Brodes Perry and Latoshia Daniels. What began as pastoral counseling evolved into a secret relationship shaped by hidden conversations, conflicting expectations, and profoundly different und...

Send us Fan Mail What do we really mean when we say we want authenticity? In this Gemini Season episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags, I explore Drake, Kendrick Lamar, and J. Cole through a lens that goes far beyond rap beefs and album releases. What begins as a conversation about hip hop quickly becomes a conversation about identity, performance, public image, and the stories audiences tell the...

Send us Fan Mail People fall for Gemini Rising because they know how to make you feel mentally and emotionally engaged. The problem? Relationships can't survive on stimulation alone. In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags, I break down the blessing and the curse of Gemini Rising in relationships: from the curiosity and adaptability that draw people in to the communication patterns th...

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes we don’t stay because something is good… we stay because it’s familiar. In this deeply personal Red Flag Dating Story, I open up about a years-long situationship with “Stephen” — a relationship built on history, emotional attachment, loyalty, chemistry, and potential… but never true growth. This episode explores:  emotional breadcrumbs   loving someone’s potential   self...

Send us Fan Mail In this special Mother’s Day episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags, I explore inherited silence, emotional survival, motherhood, and generational patterns through storytelling and astrology. From my grandmother… to my mother… to myself… this episode reflects on the emotional lessons passed down between Black women, the difference between survival and healing, and what happens wh...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to Sister Signs & Red Flags … where astrology ain’t therapy… but it’s close. 🔮 In today’s episode, we’re getting into Sounds Like a Sign: Earth Signs Edition 🌱 Because when it comes to Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn… they don’t just fall in love… they invest in it. This playlist breaks down:  How Taurus loves through feeling and presence  How Virgo loves through e...

Send us Fan Mail This is a case about relationships that never really ended. They overlapped. In this episode, we break down the murder of Johnathan Willette and the complex entanglement between him, the mother of his children, and his son. What happens when people stay connected long after the relationship has changed? And what happens when nobody truly lets go? This episode explores the patterns...

Send us Fan Mail Taurus Rising energy feels safe, steady, and easy to build on… but what happens when nothing ever changes? In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , I’m breaking down the blessing and the curse of Taurus Rising: why it feels so good in the beginning, and how that same comfort can turn into stagnation if it’s not actively nurtured. Because sometimes, the reason nothing went...

Send us Fan Mail This episode introduces Astrology After Dark: a storytelling series rooted in emotion, memory, and experience. These aren’t just astrology breakdowns. They’re moments. Feelings. Realizations. Tonight’s story explores Aries energy through attraction, chemistry, and the illusion of mutual connection. Because sometimes… what feels shared isn’t actually experienced the same way. Astro...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , I break down Aries Rising energy in relationships. Specifically how it shows up in the early stages of attraction and connection. Aries Rising is bold, direct, and magnetic… but that same energy that pulls people in can also cause things to move too fast. This episode explores: The behavioral patterns behind Aries Rising first impr...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , I dive into another Love You to Death case where love, deception, and red flags collide in the most devastating way. Jocelyn Peters was a third-grade teacher, a devoted daughter, and a woman preparing for motherhood. At seven months pregnant, she was building a future: planning for her baby, her home, and the life she believed was...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , Leka shares the story of her second marriage and how she knew it was over before it officially ended. What started as a connection on Plenty of Fish quickly escalated into moving in together, navigating financial imbalance, uncovering infidelity, and ultimately realizing there was no real partnership in the relationship. This episo...

Send us Fan Mail I’m back with another travel vlog-style episode! This time, I’m taking you on a weekend road trip to Memphis, Tennessee , where I experienced a little bit of everything: good food, good music, a little history, a little rain, and a whole lot of laughs. From the sizzling shrimp at Blues City Café , to late-night dancing at Tin Roof , to my visit to the National Civil Rights Museum...

Send us Fan Mail He lied so much, y’all… he’d lie about what time of day it was. In this Red Flag Dating Story, I’m breaking down how The Lying Libra slid back into my life with charm, late-night calls, and “bae I love you” texts... and left me with a handful of excuses, missing money, and one major reality check. This episode dives into how Libra energy can show up when the scales tip too far: fr...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when love turns into imitation and partnership becomes possession? In this Libra-season Love You to Death episode, I’m breaking down the haunting case of Nicole Alston , a young woman from New York whose 2007 murder went unsolved for sixteen years. Her dismembered body was found in rural Georgia, but her name and her identity were stolen by the one person she trusted...

Send us Fan Mail Season 2, Episode 11 — The Judge, the Teacher, and a Virgo-Coded Murder This case still haunts me. A respected judge. A beloved teacher. And a murder rooted in control, image, and ego. We’re breaking down the story of Aisha Fraser : a Capricorn woman who deserved so much more, and the Virgo-coded energy that failed her. Production Credits: 🎵 Original Theme Music by Robert William...

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes the universe doesn’t whisper; it winks. This week, I share how a full moon, a wild Aquarius red flag story, and a very specific 14:44 runtime aligned to remind me that I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. In this Season 1 finale, I reflect on the lessons, laughs, and curveballs from the past ten episodes: from messy dating stories and true crime astrology breakdowns to...

Send us Fan Mail He called me “Beautiful Queen” so many times I started wondering if he even remembered my real name. In this Red Flag Dating Story, I break down how a Hinge match went from overwhelming flattery to boundary-pushing, to the coldest “okay” I’ve ever heard all in a matter of days. We’ll unpack the 🚩 red flags, the astrology (Gemini curiosity meets Aquarius detachment), and how Pisce...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when you let Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius take over the aux cord? You get bangers, boldness, and big “I know I’m the shit” energy. Welcome to Sounds Like a Sign , the zodiac-meets-music mini-series from Sister Signs & Red Flags . In this episode, I explore what it means to move like a fire sign, through lyrics, attitude, and unapologetic anthems. Every song tells a...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , I share the story of Dee Whigham, a 25-year-old Black trans woman, nurse, and unapologetic light, who was murdered on the first night of Leo season in 2016. But this episode isn’t just about what happened. It’s about why . About the spiritual violence that happens when visibility becomes a risk. About ego, identity, astrol...

Send us Fan Mail Mercury retrograde ain’t the problem. It’s you. It’s me. It’s all of us. In this brutally honest episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , Leka pulls the curtain back on one of the most misunderstood astrological events: Mercury retrograde. But instead of blaming tech glitches or old situationships for the chaos, she asks the real questions: Why do we go back? What are we really l...

Send us Fan Mail It’s your girl Leka, and in this special vlog-style episode, I’m taking y’all through my very first Essence Festival, from the Garden District Airbnb with no washcloths to the 2AM Lauryn Hill surprise performance. I share everything: chaotic parking, food that shut my Gemini mouth, biscuit-induced nostalgia, waiting in Target lines I didn’t know were controversial, and the pure jo...

Send us Fan Mail It’s Cancer season: the sign of loyalty, emotion, and love so deep it hurts. But when that love turns obsessive? It can become something far more dangerous. In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , I tell the story of Tierra Hall, a vibrant 17-year-old Black girl from Durham, North Carolina, whose life was tragically taken in 2015. Her killer? Her ex-boyfriend… who once c...

Send us Fan Mail He brought a toy.  Lied about his name.  Lied about his zodiac sign.  Ghosted me after one night.  Then popped back up like I was waiting on him with Mary J. on repeat. In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags , I’m breaking down my real-life encounter with a Zodiac shapeshifter, and baby, it’s messy. From fake names to fake charts, we’re talking straight deception with a s...