Sips & Smacks

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Guys....... We're so tired. We need a vacation and we're taking one! They just happen to be separate and we clearly did not coordinate because they overlap in inconvenient ways.  Anyway, there is no new episode this week, but there will be one next week!  Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - A...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk to Melanie Zoey about her short film SPANKO and how spanking in media influenced us through our lives! Show References: SPANKO Trailer Instagram: @spankomovie Facebook: facebook.com/spankomovie Twitter: @melaniezoey SPANKO UPCOMING APRIL/MAY SCREENINGS: LIVE IN CHICAGO: At the legendary Music Box Theater, ,in-Person: 9:30 PM +...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Let's talk about Rex's absolute favorite subject: consent. There's a lot to think about when finding a play partner, finding a new partner, or even just going to a party! We're here to break it down.  If you want a lines notebook, send us an email at sipsandsmacks@gmail.com!  Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in bet...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk to Michal, a kink aware therapist! We talk about what it's like to be in therapy, how therapy works, and what kink aware therapy is! Episode References: @michalrogersmsw (TikTok) Shameless by Nadia Bolz-Weber (Amazon) Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (Amazon) Mental Health Match Kink Aware Professionals American Associatio...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk about the importance of finding community. Whether you're in an established domestic discipline relationship, figuring yourself out as a spanko, or anything in between, we think finding community is an important part of feeling like our true selves. Episode References: Adalia's Punishment Strap (Etsy) Patreon Good Gir...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We're back with an episode about DD in LDRs! Let's talk about Long Distance Domestic Discipline Relationships or LDDDR as I (Rex) have now termed it. How do people in long distance relationships also manage the domestic discipline aspect? Join us as we discuss punishments, aftercare, and playing even though we might be miles apart.  Pat...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Chaos reigns once again! Join us as we continue our discussion on scolding (and go slightly off track)! Episode References: The Art of Scolding by Jillian Keenan Truants & Trains by Adaliak and Peachy Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bac...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We couldn't decide on a name for this episode, so enjoy some of the alternatives: Pot o’ Scold; The Scold-en Rule; All that glitters is not Scold; Scoldfinger; Heart of Scold; Scolddigger; Hot & (S)cold Join us as we talk about the gold standard of scolding! Episode References: Spanko Duck Lamp (Amazon) arrogance diminishes wisdom (B-sid...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) On this episode we welcome Adalia's and Rex's friend, Maura! She tells us about her experience finding herself, her partner, and her favorite implement along with her experience being a top in the spanko world. Maura's Twitter: @drpepperyllis Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah -...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We here at Sips & Smacks believe in the trifecta of Domestic Discipline: Smacks, Snacks, & Snuggles.  Of course, what you think is the trifecta for DD and aftercare is going to be different than ours!  In this episode, we talk about aftercare and what that looks like for each of us.  Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We're not perfect and neither is this guide, but we've put together a "How To Get Started" guide to Domestic Discipline. How did you get started in your DD relationship? We'd love to hear it! References: Heart Paddle Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Ann...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) That Thing We Do has an elephant in the room and as practicers of DD we feel responsible to acknowledge it.  This episode contains discussion of domestic abuse and Christian Domestic Discipline. Sources: An Inside Look at Domestic Discipline and Its Abuse of Power Bad Fantasies by Jillian Keenan Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in bet...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk about what it feels like to be in a domestic discipline relationship with a romantic partner! Well, we try anyway... we had a few technical difficulties as well as too much silliness coursing through us to truly stay on topic.  ** Disclaimer ** We experienced some issues recording and as such, sometimes the audio was out of syn...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) That Thing We Do (TTWD) is undeniably loud! How do we navigate that when we have young kids in the house? Where do we hide the implements? What does a domestic discipline relationship look like with a family? In this episode we welcome the wonderful Sam who shares her experience with raising a family, being a wife and mom, and practicing DD with...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) ... we like spanking... 😰 Join us as we talk about coming out and finding community with new friends and old friends! Jillian Keenan's "Something To Tell You"  on YouTube Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - Ben - Berkele...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we get serious about safewords and scenes gone wrong. You may have experienced it yourself or you may be worried about what to do if it happens to you! You are not alone! What safewords do you use? Do you like the traffic light system or do you use something else?  Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia'...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Or maybe... not so fast. On today's episode, we're all in agreement that the bathbrush hurts! Join us as we welcome a very special guest (Dan!) and we talk about our favorite and least favorite implements! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi -...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Surprise! I know we told you that we weren't going to have a new episode until January 8, but what kind of bottoms would we be if we had self-control? Join us as we discuss ethical non-monogamy and playing with others! Jillian Keenan's "Are Spankos Asexual?" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73C3NhzlGu0 Patreon Good Girls &...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Just a brief message to say happy holidays to you all! There won't be a new episode this week or next, but we wanted to say a quick hello to you all!  Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - Ben - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - Carolina - Ca...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) On this episode of Sips & Smacks, we discuss what sexuality means for us and other ways that intimacy can be expressed. We also dive into labels: what are ours? What do they mean? Where do we fit in?  Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bac...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) On this very special episode, we welcome the wonderful Jillian Keenan! Join us as we talk about Daddy kink, Domestic Discipline, and of course the most important thing: Obi-Wan Kenobi. Kinking Out Loud Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@KinkingOutLoud Sex with Shakespeare: https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Shakespeare-Heres-Much-Pain/dp/0062378724 Good D...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) ...and what does he do? It's Daddy Kink/Age Play time! Let's all embrace our inner child and enjoy life. Being an adult is hard! Jedi Paddle: https://gluttonforpunishmentcrafts.com/collections/paddles Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) The episode in which Rex does not know how to speak and even the correction mid-episode doesn't explain it well (note to self: write the corrections first instead of trying to make it up on the fly... Thank goodness for Adalia!). In any case, join Rex and Adalia as we talk about the 4 Ds! Let's all be good people by not being dishonest,...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Don't do the crime if you can't do the time(out)! Join us this week as we discuss some other punishments that aren't spanking! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Ann - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - Ben - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - Carolina - CatNamedEaster -...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) In this episode, we dive into how we started our DD relationships from two very different perspectives. Miss Rose Paddles on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/MissRosePaddles Submissive Planner on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/listing/823039136/the-submissive-planner-monthly-weekly Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia&apos...