Sippin On Love

The gay best friend isn’t your accessory. He’s not your punchline. And he’s definitely not just comic relief. In Episode 2 of Live Out Loud , we unpack the trope, the truth, and the tension of being “the gay best friend”—celebrated, quoted, and invited, but not always fully seen. We get into representation, friendship, and identity, and what happens when people love your personality but don’t alwa...

Coming out isn’t one moment. It’s a reveal. And sometimes, the first person you have to come out to is yourself. For our Season 4 premiere, we’re opening Live Out Loud with honesty, laughter, softness, and truth as we share our coming out stories—what we knew, what we feared, what we hid, what we survived, and what finally helped us breathe. In this episode, we talk about coming out beyond the dra...

Consent isn’t awkward. Confusion is. And silence? That’s not a yes. For our Season 3 finale, we’re getting real, grounded, and unapologetically clear about consent —what it is, what it isn’t, and why so many of us were never actually taught how it works. In this episode, we break down consent beyond buzzwords and posters on school walls. We talk about how it shows up in real relationships, messy s...

Featured Cocktail: Pineapple Upside Down Henny #shoutout to @milkandhoney_dmv for blessing the culture. This week, we’re stirring up one of the spiciest topics in queer dating: preferences. Not the cute ones like “I like someone who can cook.” We mean the heavyweight ones that shape how people see you, swipe on you, and decide whether you’re “their type”… or not. Across the digital streets where “...

In this episode of Sippin On Love , we’re pouring up the Henny Sidecar Lemonade and getting honest about what self-care really means—beyond bubble baths and buzzwords. 🥃 From healing journeys to body positivity, we explore how taking care of yourself can become an act of power, not performance. We share the real, the weird, and the necessary—what worked, what didn’t, and how to build a self-care...

In this episode of Sippin On Love , we’re shaking up clarity and compassion with a glass of the Siesta Cocktail —a bold blend of tequila, grapefruit, and introspection. 🍸 This week’s conversation gets to the heart of identity: Who we are vs. Who we love. We unpack the difference between gender identity, sexual identity, and biological sex —and explore how the world’s labels often limit the full e...

In this episode of **Sippin On Love**, we’re pouring up something smooth and a little dangerous—our **Frozen Brown Sugar Peach Old Fashion**—and diving into the eternal debate: **Is it love or lust at first sight?** 🥃 We explore the rush of attraction and the science behind it—how dopamine, oxytocin, and intuition spark that instant connection that feels almost magnetic. Drawing from [Executive M...

In this episode of **Sippin On Love**, we’re serving up truth with a kick—exploring the intersections of **porn, pleasure, and perception** over a glass of our **Spicy Mango Margarita.** 🍹 From fantasy versus reality to the influence of the porn industry on how we understand sex and relationships, we’re having the kind of conversation that turns taboo into transparency. Together, we unpack how po...

🍹 Featured Cocktail: Sparkling Tequila Sunrise A bright twist on a classic — bold, effervescent, and a little flirtatious. Recipe: 2 oz tequila, 3 oz orange juice, Splash of grenadine Top with prosecco or sparkling water, Garnish with an orange slice and cherry In this episode of Sippin On Love, we uncork the truth about kinks, BDSM, and the art of communication in relationships. 🍸 From the emot...

Featured Cocktail: Whiskey Sunrise 🥃 Recipe: 2 oz whiskey, 4 oz orange juice, ½ oz grenadine. Garnish with an orange slice and cherry. Welcome back to Sippin On Love! Season 3 kicks off with the theme “My Body, My Choice” —and we’re starting where honesty meets intimacy: sex preparation . From bottom prep rituals (fiber, timing, and tools) to top responsibilities like condoms, lube, and safety, w...

In this final episode of Season 2, your favorite couple discuss what is forgiveness and it’s beneficence. Paired with a cocktail, the conversation involves past experience, the journey to healing, and compassion. Keep the conversation going as the drink flow and sip! Cocktail: Boozie Smoothie 2 oz of Grand Marnier 3 oz of Benedictine Blend with your favorite assortment of frozen or fresh fruit wit...

In this episode we have the conversation about emotional intelligence. We discuss the hinderance in the progression of our emotional intelligence and how important it is in a relationship. We reflect on past experience and how our EI effects the people connected to us. Come listen, laugh, and sip with us.  Cocktail: Strawberry Daiquiri 8 oz frozen strawberries  , leaves removed 2 oz fresh strawber...

In this episode we have the conversation about Men’s mental health, its stigma, importance,  and reliable resources to aid. Indulge with us, as we dive deeper and discuss the significance of society and the pressures they contribute to men’s health. Sip, laugh, and enjoy!  Featured Cocktail: Vanilla Creme Whiskey Highball A highball is more of a cocktail concept; it combines a spirit with a non-al...

n this episode we have the conversation about The Culture, it’s history, significance,  and its ability to bring connectivity. Connect with us, as we dive into our experiences/observations within a society that our culture operates and how it can improve.  Source: https://www.forbes.com/sites/janicegassam/2021/08/01/our-obsession-with-black-excellence-is-harming-black-people/?sh=2f4187b92fd9 Featu...

Join your favorite couple as we stir up the conversation on sex. We discuss the preparation, social perspective, and our experiences. Grab a glass, sip, and indulge in the conversation. We are eager to engage with you! Article: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a32674514/sex-bucket-checklist/ Cocktail: Vieux Carre’ Ingredients 3/4 ounce George Dickel rye whiskey 3/4 ounce cognac 3/4 oun...

Join your favorite couple as we stir up the conversation on the impact of individuality vs relationship. We discuss the importance of allowing time and space outside of your relationship; how you can grow; as well as what your partner needs to do in order to support your individuality. Grab a glass, sip, and indulge in the conversation. We are eager to engage with you! Cocktail: Cadillac Margarita...

Join your favorite couple as we stir up the conversation on how to keep the relationship fresh. Relationship stagnant or need a revamp? We provide tips, our experience,  and so much more! Grab a glass, sip, and indulge in the conversation. We are eager to engage with you! Cocktail: New York Sour Ingredients 1/4 cup (2 ounces) bourbon (we used Woodford Reserve) 2 tablespoons (1 ounce) fresh lemon j...

Join your favorite couple as we stir up the conversation about masculinity and femininity. We share our personal experiences and thoughts on representation, relationship dynamics and so much! Grab a glass and get for a blast and we Sip On Love for our season 2 premiere! Referenced Article: Stereotypical Gay Male Characters in Media May Help Members of the Larger LGBTQ+ Community Self-Identify – RT...

On this SEASON FINALE episode, your faves go a bit deeper in sharing more about our relationship, our growth and why we continue to love each other through it all. So grab a glass, fix a drink and enjoy! Featured Cocktail: Peaches & Creme Ingredients list: Crown royal peach flavored whiskey Peach Schnapps- we chose DeKuyper peachtree Cream soda- Look for a good quality cream soda for best resu...

In this episode, your faves talk about the various aspects of identity which make up our own individual intersectionality. This conversations takes us from understanding what intersectionality is, to how one's intersectionality impacts access to power and privilege. So grab a glass, fix a drink and enjoy! Intersectionality Graphics: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Fg6rtjgNtug74OXp2uGAmweTD...

In this episode we have the conversation about why communication is important in a relationship, our experiences in our relationship and how you can improve.  Article: https://www.verywellmind.com/communication-in-relationships-why-it-matters-and-how-to-improve-5218269 Relationship Conflict Resolution: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1fiUnJFFKD1nmkEOUKTp2b10Ulz-ZIvY1/view?usp=sharing Soft Start Up...

In this episode your faves talk about SEX! The good, the bad, and the questionable! From sharing our first time experiences to some of our own kinks and fantasies! Just like the convo, the drinks are flowing, so grab a glass, fix a drink and enjoy! Intimacy Games: https://intimacy.games/collections/collection Articles: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-to-talk-about-sex-with-your-partn...

On this episode your faves dive into a discussion about Boundaries: What are they? Why they matter? How to keep them? Just like the convo the drinks are flowing, so grab a glass, fix a drink and enjoy! Articles: https://studentaffairs.stanford.edu/how-life-treeting-you-importance-of-boundaries#:~:text=Boundaries%20help%20determine%20what%20is,%2C%20bosses%2C%20or%20family%20members. https://psychc...

On this episode we explore love languages and their importance in relationships. As we identify our love languages, we discuss how understanding these help to develop a deeper love and connection with one another. Grab a glass, fix a drink and enjoy! Love Languages Quiz: ⁠https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language⁠ Article: ⁠https://www.bayviewtherapy.com/amp/why-it-s-important-to-know-your-...

This episode shares how we have identified our individual and couple core values. We also share how these core values have aided our development through even some of the challenging times. As promised here is the featured Article and activity: https://www.cnbc.com/amp/2023/06/10/successful-couples-share-these-3-values-says-match-dating-expert.html Activity: https://sites.lsa.umich.edu/inclusive-te...