Single Girl Woes

In this episode of Single Girl Woes , Elle breaks down the difference between true companionship and chaotic situationships. From inconsistency and mixed signals to one sided effort, she unpacks the patterns that keep many women stuck in confusion instead of connection. This episode explores why chaos shows up more easily in modern dating, how overextending and trying to fix people plays a role, a...

In this episode of Single Girl Woes , Elle reflects on staying open to love after 40. Inspired by the movie Something New , she explores the difference between having a “type” and repeating the same dating patterns. With humor and honesty, Elle considers what it might mean to try something different, from being open to a man outside her usual type to even entertaining the idea of dating apps. If y...

Are we too old for guessing games in dating? In this episode of Single Girl Woes Season 2, Elle shares what happened when she asked four men honest questions about how she shows up in relationships. The responses revealed a powerful truth about dating over 40: being easy to love does not always mean being easy to date. This episode explores emotional availability, communication in relationships, d...

In this episode of Single Girl Woes Season 2, Elle explores what it means to be in a season of emotional growth while navigating modern dating, relationship patterns, and personal standards. Inspired by the film Waiting to Exhale , she reflects on the different emotional archetypes women embody in relationships, from over investing and overthinking to managing emotionally unavailable partners and...

In this episode of Single Girl Woes, I sit with a pattern that keeps resurfacing in my life at 46. Lack of time. From marriage to past relationships to whatever this current space is, time continues to reveal what words try to cover. I unpack two different dynamics. The man who moves like he is doing me a favor and questions how I am moving when I am unavailable. And the career driven man who says...

Dating after 45 requires clarity, boundaries, and honesty. In this episode, Elle reflects on a Love Day that shifted after showing up for a friend and a revealing conversation with someone from her past. When being clear gets labeled as “mean” or “controlling,” it raises bigger questions about partnership, ego, emotional maturity, and timing. This episode explores the tension between wanting love...

Valentines Day can feel loud when you’re single. In this episode, Elle shares an honest conversation about choosing yourself, releasing pressure, and creating meaningful moments without forcing plans or romance. From her fun era to her first Valentines Day after divorce, this episode explores redefining love, recognizing real interest versus last minute energy, and enjoying your own company withou...

Single Girl Woes Season 2, Episode 1: Soft Girl Winter is your permission slip to slow down on purpose. Your host Elle talks about choosing softness as strength, letting rest be productive, romanticizing your peace, and setting boundaries without over explaining. If you have been feeling stretched thin, this episode is a cozy reset for your nervous system and your standards. We also get into slowi...

In this Season 2 pre episode of Single Girl Woes, host Elle sets the tone for a year of alignment, soft life standards, and intentional dating. We are talking butterflies as a pause sign, why confusion is not chemistry, and how to spot misalignment early. Elle breaks down a simple pause button checklist plus boundary scripts for balance, communication, and planning, with a tease of the Season 2 co...

Welcome back, Love Bugs. In this Season 2 trailer, Elle, your host of Single Girl Woes, introduces what’s ahead as the podcast returns this February with a renewed focus on alignment, self awareness, and intentional living. Season 2 explores life as a single woman beyond the pressure of timelines. Conversations center around dating with standards, recognizing patterns, chemistry versus compatibili...

In this episode, Elle reflects on the past year, focusing on the themes of anxiety, grief, and personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of realignment rather than reinvention as the new year approaches. Elle shares her struggles with anxiety and how it affected her life, particularly in travel and social situations. She discusses the significance of releasing emotional burdens, reconnecting...

Christmas Eve can feel different when you’re single. In this holiday episode of Single Girl Woes , Elle reflects on navigating Christmas Eve without forcing cheer or pretending everything is figured out. This episode blends honesty, humor, and heart as we talk about being single during the holidays, dating with intention, making time for people who make time for you, and choosing peace over pressu...

Starting this podcast was never about followers or instant popularity. It was about having a place to vent. To release. To breathe. Therapy after the therapy. Season One of Single Girl Woes wasn’t just a series it was a mirror. A journey. A mix of healing, sass, joy, reflection, and the unexpected plot twists that showed me who I really am. In this finale I share the truth about how this season ac...

Guest: Jamila, Host of The Messy Middle Healing does not follow a straight path, and this week we are talking about what it really feels like to grow through the moments that pull you forward and push you back. In this conversation, Elle is joined by Jamila, a crisis counselor and mindfulness coach from Georgia who understands the emotional work that happens in the in between places. Jamila hosts...

In this episode of "Single Girl Woes," Elle takes a detour from her planned discussion on friendship to dive into the murky waters of modern dating. With candid observations and personal anecdotes, she explores the challenges of navigating relationships in a world where effort is rare and communication is inconsistent. Elle shares her thoughts on the importance of self-love, the pitfalls...

In this episode of "Single Girl Woes," we delve into the colorful world of dating flags...red, green, and yellow. With honesty and transparency, Elle explores how these flags manifest in real life, often blurring lines due to personal patterns. From the allure of chemistry disguised as red flags to the calm energy of green flags, Elle shares personal insights and reflections on recognizi...

What if attraction worked like the movie Shallow Hal — where you only saw someone’s inner beauty first? Would your type still be your type? In this episode, Elle gets honest about the gap between what we say we want and what we actually choose. She reflects on one of her favorite rom-coms and asks a tough question: have we all become a little too shallow to see love clearly? From “tall, dark, and...

In this episode, Elle gets real about the fine line between healing and just holding it together. From learning the difference between coping and caring, to setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, this conversation dives deep into what self-care truly looks like when the filters come off. You’ll walk away with practical ways to rest without guilt, nurture your spirit, and rebuild a li...

This year would have marked ten years of marriage, and then came the dream. Over and over again, Elle kept seeing her ex remarrying someone else. Until one morning, the dream became real. In this episode, she opens up about what it feels like when your ex moves on first — the gut punch, the grief, and the growth that follows. From random dreams to real-life news, Elle walks through the swirl of em...

In this deeply personal episode, Elle opens up about the moment she realized closure doesn’t always come from others. Sometimes, you have to create it for yourself. Through honest reflection and raw emotion, she shares how she faced lingering what ifs, released old ties, and reclaimed her peace. This isn’t just a story about endings. It’s about choosing yourself when no apology comes, about healin...

In this heartfelt episode of Single Girl Woes, host Elle shares her personal journey of navigating the complexities of dating after the loss of her father. She reflects on the profound impact of grief on her emotional state and relationships, discussing the challenges of wanting to connect with others while carrying the weight of loss. Elle emphasizes the importance of honoring grief while also em...

In the first episode of Single Girl Woes 2.0, host Elle reflects on her journey from spontaneous car chronicles to a rebranded podcast focused on self-care, community, and empowerment. She shares her personal experiences with grief, dating, and the importance of connection, while inviting listeners to join her in exploring these themes through shared stories and affirmations.

The vibes are bigger, the energy is bolder, and the stories? Oh, they’re about to hit different. Single Girl Woes 2.0 is back...where self-love meets side-eye. This season we’re unpacking it all: dating after grief, giving yourself closure, learning an ex is remarrying, and finding joy in the messy, magical middle of single life. It’s real talk, a little petty, a little poetic, and always about fi...

Sometimes you just need to get things off your chest. Better out than in.