Silver Divorce Podcast

This is a very special milestone episode. It is the 50th episode. When this show started, I wasn’t sure we would make it a  year, but here we are and we are ranked in the top 10% globally among 3.5 million podcasts. Thank you to each one of  you for being a loyal listener. Today, we are talking about a common fear: being alone. Solitude is generally perceived as bad. People desperately seek to fil...

If you are in the military or married to someone who is a service member and you are considering divorce, there are very unique aspects to a military divorce that you will want to know. Listen as David Smith, a retired US Air Force Dental Officer, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Certified QDRO Specialist, Military Divorce Financial Specialist, and founder of Sand Oak Divorce Solutions shares...

Do you find yourself more anxious, stressed, perhaps becoming sick more frequently? There is a reason for that. It’s called Retired Husband Syndrome (RHS). Listen in as I share what RHS is and how you can manage not to lose your health and your sanity. RHS is a real psychosomatic illness. It refers to a physical condition where wives experience stress, anxiety, or other health problems after their...

Divorce signifies the end of a marriage, a relationship, and a shared future, which can be deeply painful and evoke feelings of grief. Society does not always recognize that grief after divorce is real, causing many to keep their pain in the shadows. Listen as Tracy Nalory Fultz, a licensed clinical social worker, and owner of Heartfelt Needs Counseling and Caring Center helps walk us through heal...

More couples are divorcing after age 50 than ever before. Yet, there is another phenomenon on the rise: the Silent Divorce. Many married people experience this phase for years before deciding to divorce. Some never divorce for financial reasons or they still have children in the home, or because they think this is the way it has to be when you are older. Listen in as I talk about the growing aware...

We're doing a podcast swap with the Empowered Career Woman Podcast! This episode is a departure from our normal format as we delve into the topic of how women can show up in the workplace, be seen, be heard, and receive the respect we deserve. Dr. Veronica Anderson shares her enlightening and practical method for creating successful careers and fulfilling relationships. She also reveals the se...

If you are struggling with emotional pain from your divorce or even events in your past and are unable to move forward in your life, listen as Patrick Ward, a neuroplastician and founder of Healing Mindshift, shares how to release emotional pain by working with the subconscious mind to rewire the memories and beliefs that quietly shape how we feel, think, and show up in life. Patrick shares: How o...

If your divorce was the result of the trauma of abuse or betrayal, you probably spent decades in a state of confusion and disconnection. Listen as Stephanie Blyler shares her work at Connections That Heal, and how she gently guides women to reconnect with themselves, with God, and with others in a safe community. She helps women move from second-guessing and self-doubt to grounded awareness and qu...

When your divorce is final and the assets are divided, you may not think about how to protect what you have. It is vital that you think about what you need to do to protect yourself and your estate in the future, no matter the size of your estate. Listen as Nancy Cogar, an attorney who focuses her practice on the vital areas of Elder Law, Estate and Long Term Care Planning, Trusts, and Probate dis...

The word “divorce” conjures up images of fierce court battles. Yet, in the United States, nearly 95% of divorces are settled out of court. There is a process that will not only save dollars, but has a better chance of preserving family relationships. In this episode, Brenda Bridges, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, mediator, Certified Divorce Coach, and author shares how to navigate one of l...

In this episode, which is a replay of one of our earlier shows, Pat Owens, a Divorce Care facilitator, discusses the importance of putting boundaries in place during your divorce process and after,. Boundaries help to foster a sense of trust, safety, and respect both during the divorce process and after. It is important to stand in your power to protect your mental health and well-being. Some impo...

There is no escaping menopause. Every woman will experience this life-changing event, with varying degrees of disruption to our lives. For many, they attribute menopause to the disintegration of their marriage. Listen in as nurse practitioner Laura Chastain discusses the effects of perimenopause and menopause on our bodies and relationships, and shares tips on how to communicate with your spouse a...

So many times, the focus is on the wife’s perspective. But what if we explored divorce from the husband’s perspective? What if we attempt to understand his emotions, his pain and motives? Listen as Dr. Bernadette Atanga, a physician, speaker, and leadership coach with more than 30 years of experience in Internal Medicine and Pediatrics with special interest in Emotional Health and Cultural and aut...

If you were a stay at home mom or perhaps worked part time during marriage and are now faced with finding a job after your divorce, listen in as Maggie Carrington, a seasoned HR strategist and business advisor with more than 35 years of experience, and founder of HR Habitude and Candor & Courage At Work® shares her wisdom. Reentering the job market after a long absence can present several chal...

Substance abuse is cited as the main factor in nearly 35 percent of divorces. Older adults are using opioids, alcohol, marijuana, and heroin at increasing rates. So much so, that it is being called the silent epidemic. Listen as Debbie Loudermilk, the Director of Outpatient Services for the Council for Alcohol and Drug Abuse Services, discusses why this is happening at increasing rates and who is...

Understanding your options for the house when undergoing divorce is a significant challenge. Often, we make the decision on whether to keep or sell the house based on our emotions. Perhaps it is where the kids are living or where they grew up and you have a sentimental attachment, or maybe you are determined not to let your spouse keep it out of spite. The most important thing to know is there are...

Globally, nearly 1 in 3, or 30%, of women have been subjected to physical and/or sexual violence by an intimate partner. Survivors of domestic violence struggle to voice their experiences in a way that can rise above the often overpowering narrative of their abusers. The scale of the problem leaves many without support. Human counselors, while passionate and dedicated, could never meet the needs o...

The road to recovery after divorce is paved with stones and boulders. Because divorce is so common, society expects us to “suck it up” or “get over it” quickly. We think there is something wrong with us if we have not snapped back to our usual chirpy self within a few short months. Listen in as I share three common roadblocks to recovering after divorce. In this solo episode of the Silver Divorce...

“And they can’t understand what hurts more - missing the other person or pretending not to.” One of the hardest emotions to manage when divorce is new and raw is a longing for our spouse. What we miss is, in reality, the person they once were. How do we begin to manage our emotions and memories and cope with loneliness? In this solo episode of the Silver Divorce Podcast, I’ll share.: Practical tip...

In the US, about 75% of people who divorce remarry, with roughly half of those remarrying within five years. Yet, the divorce rate for second marriages is hovering around 60-67 percent, many say because we tend to marry the same type of person we divorced before taking time to heal and find someone who shares our same values. How do you find a love online that will be a life partner? Listen as Dr....

*Please share this podcast with friends, follow, and leave a comment or question.* When divorce knocks on your door, the financial aspects can leave you bewildered. You are not sure what the smart money moves are or how to make wise decisions. Listen as Andrew Hatherley, a certified divorce financial analyst shares how he helps people make wise money moves. Andrew discusses: How a certified divorc...

This week, we are doing something different. A podcast swap featuring My Morning Cup with Mike Costa. Mike interviews leaders around the region as they discuss careers and life. I sat down with Mike to talk about my meandering career and how the Silver Divorce Podcast came to be. I hope you enjoy this departure from our norm. My Morning Cup is released on Mondays. If you like what you hear, head o...

*Please share this podcast with friends, follow, and leave a comment or question.* There is no doubt that a contentious or high-conflict divorce tests your sanity. It is especially painful when an affair partner is involved. In this bonus episode, I will share ways you can break free of the pain and begin to heal your broken heart. You can break the bond of constant communications to give you the...

*Please share this podcast with friends, subscribe, and leave a comment or question.* Many women struggle with self-doubt and overthinking, especially after major life transitions like divorce. Mind shifting can help you identify the root cause of your inner critic while regaining confidence and clarity. In this episode, transformational coach Kelly McCooeye shares how to clear the emotional and m...

*Please share this podcast with friends, subscribe, and leave a comment or question.* Navigating a blended family after divorce can be exceptionally challenging, especially if emotions are raw or one spouse has moved on to a new partner. Perhaps you are the second wife wondering how to maneuver through a new family dynamic. Listen as Judy Herman shares strategies for guiding  your family through r...