Shut Up! Tell Me More

Welcome to Week 1 of the Shut Up! Tell Me More Summer Replay Series! This summer, we are revisiting some of our favorite conversations from the past two years, and there was no better episode to kick things off with than this one. Pam sits down with Johnny Bananas, the longest-running reality television star in entertainment history and the seven-time champion of The Challenge, for an unfiltered c...

Pam sits down with Forbes Riley, the Queen of the Pitch and one of the most successful women in the history of infomercials. Long before social media influencers existed, Forbes was building trust with millions of viewers and selling everything from the ThighMaster and Ab Roller to the Jack LaLanne Juicer, ultimately generating more than $2.5 billion in product sales. But behind the massive succes...

What is happening to my body? If you've suddenly started waking up at 3 a.m., forgetting words, feeling anxious, losing your patience, shedding more hair than usual, turning the thermostat down when everyone else is freezing, or wondering where your libido went, you are not alone. In this episode of Shut Up! Tell Me More, I sit down with board-certified family medicine physician Dr. Alexandra Volo...

The risk of developing ovarian cancer in a woman's lifetime is about 1 in 70. Most women don't know the symptoms, and many cases aren't diagnosed until the disease has already spread. Known as the "Whisper Killer," ovarian cancer often presents with subtle signs that are easy to dismiss. But as you'll hear in this episode, some women may have no symptoms at all. In this p...

Shut Up! Tell Me More  Replay! We originally recorded this episode in February 2025, and it remains one of the most fascinating, surprising, and unforgettable conversations we've ever had on the show. Naomi Swartzentruber, grew up in a strict Amish community, living without modern technology, plowing fields with horses, and milking cows by hand. At just 17 years old, she made the life-changing...

Entertainment lawyer Brenda Schamy joins Shut Up! Tell Me More for a fascinating conversation about the hidden side of the entertainment industry. What actually happens behind the scenes when some of our favorite content creators, actors, podcasters, and entertainers are negotiating major deals and contracts? Before representing talent, brands, and content creators, Brenda worked as a public defen...

In one of the most fun episodes to date, Pam sits down with hilarious content creator, luxury real estate professional, and podcast host Eric Goldie for a funny, revealing, and incredibly entertaining conversation. Eric opens up about surviving an armed robbery where a rare watch was stolen, what happened when he got arrested for underage drinking in college, and the reality of becoming a successf...

Margaret Josephs is telling ALL. In this episode of Shut Up! Tell Me More with Pam Comiter, Margaret opens up about the real reason she’s leaving The Real Housewives of New Jersey, the emotional effects of filming, and how reality TV fandom has completely changed. From parasocial relationships and online obsession to the pressure of public scrutiny, Margaret gets honest about what it’s really like...

Who actually decides what becomes a pop culture headline? Molly Goddard is back on  Shut Up! Tell Me More  and this episode is packed with behind the scenes stories from the entertainment world. Molly Claire Goddard, writer and multimedia producer at OK! Magazine and contributor to Morning Honey and Wonderwall, opens up about celebrity PR, entertainment journalism, Bravo drama, and the stories dom...

How does one person know not just who wins The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, but what happens in every episode before it airs? For years, fans have relied on Reality Steve for accurate Bachelor spoilers from final picks to scene by scene breakdowns. In this episode, he finally explains how he does it. We get into how Reality Steve started, his first major spoiler during The Bachelor Jason Mesnick...

Pam sits down with Maria Cozamanis, also known as DJ Tumbles from  Members Only Palm Beach , for an honest and revealing conversation about what really happened behind the scenes of the hit Netflix reality show. Maria shares that she knew exactly what she was getting into when she signed on, offering a perspective that challenges what many people assume about reality television. The conversation d...

Divorce advice, prenups, alimony, custody battles, and the reality TV legal drama everyone is talking about right now, this episode breaks it all down. I’m joined by Palm Beach based marital and family law attorney Heather Greenhill Stohlman, who handles high conflict divorce, child custody cases, domestic violence cases, and complex financial divorces. She shares real legal advice on divorce, ali...

This episode goes there. I’m joined by Dr. Rachel Needle, Licensed Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist, and we dive into what’s really happening in modern relationships. From infidelity to AI relationships, nothing is off limits. We talk about how common cheating really is, whether emotional cheating is worse than physical, and if a relationship can actually recover after betrayal. Then we ge...

Hi friends! This is a conversation I never thought we’d have publicly, but I’m so glad we did. Today I’m sitting down with one of my best friends, Bari Kellam, to talk about something we’ve never shared before. Bari opens up about her experience with an eating disorder, how it began with diet pills, what it looked like at its worst, and the moment everything changed. We get into the turning point....

Ro-mina Ustayev from Netflix’s  Members Only Palm Beach  is here and nothing is off limits. From immigrating to America, to building a life in Palm Beach, to stepping into the world of Reality TV on  Members Only Palm Beach , Ro-mina shares the full story behind the headlines. We get into everything from what it really takes to make it on Netflix, to the pressure of filming Reality TV in Palm Beac...

This episode is magic (literally!). Internationally recognized Mentalist, Kevin Nicholas pulls back the curtain on the world of high level magic, revealing how he built a reputation that led him to perform for billionaires, celebrities, and some of the most exclusive audiences on the planet.  Kevin shares stories from some of his most elite  and  scandalous performances, giving a rare glimpse into...

After taking some time away from the microphone following the loss of my dad, I knew that returning to the podcast had to begin with an honest conversation about grief. In this episode, I sit down with someone I deeply admire, Melissa Hudson. Melissa is a mom of three and a woman who has experienced every parent’s worst nightmare. She lost her middle child, Harrison, when he was just five months o...

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Justin Paperny to discuss his former life as a stockbroker, the series of decisions that led to a federal investigation, and the moment everything changed. Justin shares the emotional weight of being under investigation, the anxiety of waiting for sentencing, and what it was like to surrender and report to federal prison. He offers a candid account of...

In this episode of  Shut Up! Tell Me More , I’m joined by Maggie Kelley, the creator behind Best of Bravo, for a wide-ranging conversation about the current state of Bravo, reality TV, and pop culture. We touch on the new era of  Vanderpump Rules , including recent comments about Katie Maloney and the bigger question Bravo fans keep asking: can reality TV reboots actually work, and which ones do i...

We are going behind the scenes of reality TV. Jennifer Graziano is the creative force behind Mob Wives. As the Mob Wives Creator, and Executive Producer, she set out to tell the real stories of the women living that lifestyle, and what followed was some of the most riveting and emotionally charged reality television ever made. Over six seasons and four spin offs, Mob Wives delivered unforgettable...

Loren Brovarnik has been part of one of the biggest reality TV franchises of all time. For over a decade, viewers have watched her fall in love, get married, and build a family with her husband Alex on 90 Day Fiancé. But this conversation goes far beyond what we see on screen. Loren opens up about motherhood, raising kids while cameras are rolling, and what it’s really like to live such a public l...

From food influencing to creating some of the internet’s most craveable recipes, Justin Schuble joins me for a wide ranging conversation this week. Justin opens up about what he’s manifesting in the new year, how he first broke into food influencing, and the creation of his wildly popular account DC Food Porn. We talk about how his content evolved from highlighting DC’s hottest food spots to what...

Sharon DraftSharon Pfeiffer’s life sounds like a movie, and she’s telling it all. In this episode of  Shut Up! Tell Me More , I’m joined by Sharon Pfeiffer: former mob girlfriend and mob wife turned actress, stand-up comedian, playwright, podcaster, mother, and grandmother. Sharon takes us from growing up on Long Island to becoming involved in “the life,” sharing what it was really like behind the...

Renee Graziano is back on  Shut Up! Tell Me More!  and this time, she’s giving us a real life check-in. Renee shares a dating update, talks love, growth, and where her heart is right now, plus clears the air on the status of her relationship with Drita, addressing the buzz after that recent Instagram post. We also dive into Renee’s newest passion project,  B.A.D Body Butter (Beautiful And Dangerou...

This episode begins with the story of an extraordinarily kind act Brian Austin Green did (one that brought him and Pam together), setting the tone for a conversation filled with warmth, wisdom, and genuine heart. Brian opens up about leading with kindness and honoring Luke Perry’s legacy, the joy and complexity of raising five kids, and the intentional work behind co-parenting with Megan Fox while...