Episodes

Should we just play matchmaker? (with Riley Smith) 18.03.2026 34:25

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the final episode of season three, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Riley talk about The Love Club, matchmaking, first date etiquette, and more. GIVEAWAY DETAILS : Enter for the chance to go on a blind date, sponsored by The Love Club, Engine Room Pub, and Should We Just? Podcast. Giveaway is open from March 18 - March 25,...

Should we just spill our dirty secrets? 05.03.2026 32:12

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eleventh episode of season three, Erika and Brenna share some of their dirtiest secrets, including: sex dreams they still think about, the most simp thing they've ever done, their biggest relationship crash outs, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠...

Should we just not get married? 18.02.2026 36:47

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the tenth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about marriage. Join them as they debate the pros and cons of getting married and share their thoughts on proposals, elopements, and weddings. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠...

Should we just get kinky? 04.02.2026 27:58

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the ninth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about kinks. Join them as they share their feelings on BDSM, cuckolding, voyeurism, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instag...

Should we just embrace the walk of shame? 21.01.2026 27:17

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eighth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna debate having sex on the first date. Join them as they weigh out the pros & cons and then share some of their related experiences. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Instagra...

Should we just make out? 07.01.2026 35:58

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the seventh episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about kissing. They share their first kiss stories, debate what makes a good kiss, and discuss their best and worst make out stories. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . I...

Should we just share our dating bible? 24.12.2025 29:53

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the sixth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk about their experiences getting back into dating, ideas for making their own dating app, and their dos and don'ts for going on dates. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Insta...

Should we just talk about consent? (with Victoria Semprun) 10.12.2025 45:20

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fifth episode of season three, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Victoria discuss consent, scissoring, lesbian porn, u-hauling, and more. TRIGGER WARNING : This episode includes graphic accounts of sexual misconduct and coercion. It may be triggering for some listeners. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own....

Should we just use sex toys? 26.11.2025 36:06

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fourth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna discuss sex toys and self pleasure. Listen in as they talk about different types of toys, stats related to masturbation, using toys with partners, and how they feel about the toys in their nightstands. SWJ recommends: ⁠Empress Suction Toy from Vush⁠ ⁠Ha...

Should we just get caught up in love triangles? 12.11.2025 36:07

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the third episode of season three, Erika and Brenna discuss love triangles in pop culture. Join them as they share their thoughts on Twilight, The Summer I Turned Pretty, The Vampire Diaries, Stranger Things, One Tree Hill, and other shows & movies. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own....

Should we just 69? 29.10.2025 32:36

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the second episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about sex positions. Join them as they rate the most common positions and share which ones are their favorite and most hated. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Should we just invite dad on the podcast? (with Jose Semprun) 15.10.2025 47:07

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the first episode of season three, Erika and Brenna interview Erika's dad, Jose. The trio discuss marriage, sugar daddies, pegging, how dating has changed in the last few decades, and what advice he would give the younger generation. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldweju...

Should we just answer your questions? (part 2) 16.07.2025 42:55

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the twelfth and final episode of season two, Erika and Brenna answer previously submitted listener questions. Tune in as they discuss past exes and situationships, giving head, the best sex of their lives, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠@shouldwejus...

Should we just get controversial? (with Katsi Peña) 02.07.2025 46:14

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eleventh episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Katsi Peña share their most controversial dating takes, debate toxic habits in relationships, and swoon over fictional characters in pop culture. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Instagra...

Should we just go on a reality tv show? 18.06.2025 32:21

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the tenth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna discuss dating shows and reality tv. Shows mentioned: The Bachelor, Love Is Blind, Love Island, Too Hot to Handle, Are You the One?, The Ultimatum, and I Kissed A Girl Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Insta...

Should we just choose girlhood? (with Jayme Worden) 04.06.2025 43:59

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the ninth episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Jayme Worden talk all about girlhood, friendships, and relationships. Join them as they play would you rather, do each other's tarot readings, and share their thoughts on female friendships, friendship breakups, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opi...

Should we just be friends with benefits? 21.05.2025 28:51

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eighth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna debate the concept of friends with benefits, whether men and women can just be friends, and the rules for keeping things casual. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠ . Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shoul...

Should we just fake the orgasm? 07.05.2025 33:14

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the seventh episode of season two, Erika and Brenna discuss faking orgasms, squirting, performance anxiety, post nut clarity, and things that are potentially better than sex. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠ . Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldweju...

Should we just lose our virginities? 23.04.2025 33:40

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the sixth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna share how they lost their virginities and discuss things they find overrated/underrated about sex. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠ . Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠ TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://ww...

Should we just come out? (with Erika Myhre) 09.04.2025 47:53

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fifth episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Erika Myhre talk all about sexuality and queerness. Join them as they share their thoughts on coming out, labels, bisexuality & pansexuality, gay awakenings, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠@shouldwej...

Should we just get real about nudes? 26.03.2025 32:33

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fourth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna discuss sexting, dirty talk, sending nudes, and the size debate. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ @shouldwejustpod⁠ . Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod ⁠ TikTok:⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Should we just confess to cheating? (with Kayt Tucker) 12.03.2025 53:56

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the third episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Kayt Tucker talk all about cheating. Join them as they play "cheating or not cheating" and then discuss home wrecking, emotional cheating vs. physical cheating, and whether they've been unfaithful. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our...

Should we just watch porn? 26.02.2025 38:40

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the second episode of season two, Erika and Brenna dive into all things porn—including their kinks, most watched categories, icks, and pornstars. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠ @shouldwejustpod⁠ . Instagram: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ TikTok: ⁠ https://www.tikt...

Should we just go on first dates? 12.02.2025 38:47

Welcome to a new season of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the season two premiere, Erika and Brenna discuss Valentine's Day, masturbating, first dates, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online @shouldwejustpod . Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Should we just answer your questions? 02.10.2024 45:26

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the twelfth and final episode of season one, Erika and Brenna answer previously submitted listener questions. Tune in as they debate girl’s girls vs. guy’s girls, top vs. bottom, butt play, calling men daddy, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwej...