Sholom Bayis and important life topics

unconditional love; cherishing your spouse; allowing yourself to lose an argument; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 7. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men Chapter 1. Lesson 4-5. Understand role of women's emotion; Honoring your wife more than yourself; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh1Lesson4-7.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

SIYUM on the seder on kindness by R Zelig Pliskin, final important points. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

Onoas devorim, insults & put-downs. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

How to request of your spouse in healthy positive ways. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

Define differences, help your spouse to help you to listen. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

(Zelig Pliskin) guarding yourself from being taken advantage of; don't blame people for not following your suggestions; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 6. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men Chapter 1. Lesson 3. Part 2 - being attuned and sensitive to the emotional world of his wife. http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh1Lesson1-3.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Lower your defensiveness - practical suggestions. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

invite conversations you dread; sometimes delay a discussion until the mood gets better; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

The goal of giving pleasure and avoiding causing pain to your spouse. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Your spouse is Hashem's choice for you; as a treasure to be revealed; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Love is not jealous, and to greet each other with love. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 5. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men Chapter 1. Lesson 3. Part 1 - my wife is my home http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh1Lesson1-3.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Don't let mistakes, complaints, or needed boundaries hold you back from doing kindness. (Zelig Pliskin)   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

common goals; partner in fulfilling your mission in life; Stay curious & open; forget about being right. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Stay curious & open; forget about being right. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

avoid mixed messages; the gift of listening; sometimes "don't just do something, stand there!" Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Surprise him/her with praise; once a day only to constructively criticize; cut back on advice. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 4. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men fulfilling emotional needs knowing your wife so as to be kind to her by fulfilling her needs http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh1Lesson1-3.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Healing your marriage, healing yourself: living in the "appreciation" room in your heart Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Recording says 42 but its 43. Happiness producing questions & the chessed of teaching someone to say "no" (Zelig Pliskin). Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Talk less; strike when the iron is cold; stay focused; be solution-oriented Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Be the one to change first; healthy vs. unhealthy criticism. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Remember the sandbox; fake it (its real!!) for 10 days; comply nicely to even trivial requests. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com