Sholom Bayis and important life topics

your spouse is priority #1; being loyal and attentive to one another.   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

why talk to our children about sexuality? (Part #1.) Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

(Zelig Pliskin) Serene zerizus & calm time management. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

See things from your spouses' point of view   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 17. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men Chapter 4 lesson 1-2. Lessons from Rambam: no excessive fear in home; speaking softly; no unhealthy comparing to others; don't give rebuke in tense times or in front of others; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh4.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

Learn to understand your spouse's unique reactions and feelings.   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Quick summary on rest of book "Talk to me like someone you really love", and recommendation of english sefer "Divrei Sholom" by Rav Reuven Feinstein. http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Talk to me like someone you love. 45-63: I don't feel heard; you didn't do anything wrong; it's my issue; your behavior embarasses, threatens me; I want to be close to you  http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Praying together and for each other, and healthy emotional preparations for better sexual intimacy. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

(Zelig Pliskin) Serenity by having meaningful goal and to develop the skill of "serene". Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 16. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men Chapter 3 lesson 3-4. how expressing gratitude is the primary middah both in marriage & in the service of Hashem; working toward loving & appreciating your wife IS a crucial middah tovah to incorporate within yourself http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh3.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and...

Talk to me like someone you love. 31-44: I can see that i missed the point; please give me another chance; I know I haven't made it safe for you; please don't give up on me  http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Talk to me like someone you love. 22-30: I'm afraid to be real with, when you won't communication with me, I feel like I'm nothing to you;  http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Talk to me like someone you love. 14-21: Right now I don't need a lecture, I need your love;  http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Talk to me like someone you love. 8-13: I didn't see how much sense you are really making; I was overreacting; I want to let it go;  http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

To encourage, motivate, and sacrifice for one another. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 15. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men Chapter 3 lesson 2. Steipler's letter ztl: how expressing gratitude creates more love & benefits towards you; using shelo lishmah concept in healty ways (including within marital intimacy); http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh3.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail...

(Zelig Pliskin) awareness that "you are valuable" and "gratitude" are ingredients for serenity, calmness, and peace of mind Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Talk to me like someone you love. 4-7: all I want is for you to listen to me; l love you but I need my own space now, please dont take it personally;  http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

never using sex as a system of reward and punishment   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Talk to me like someone you love. 1-3: starting over; acknowleding defensiveness; I'm not rejecting you by saying no;  http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RelationshipRepairVerbalTools.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

how often to be physically intimate? Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Kuntres Ki Shalom. Part 14. Guidance for chassanim AND all married men Chapter 3 lesson 1 & part of 2. Steipler's letter ztl: foundations of love; gratitude; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/KuntresVayadatahCh3.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

being forgiving & responsible in marriage; healthy responsibility bring freedom & joy. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

(Zelig Pliskin) 15 seconds ago is ancient history, I have so much to do!! Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com