Sholom Bayis and important life topics

to attain healthy self love; avoiding complaining, self-pity and scapegoating; avoid being enticed by the "rewards" of not loving yourself; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Toldos (תּוֹלְדֹת) miseras nefesh for Bris Milah the danger of Eisav showing the outward kosher sign to the world Yitzchok wanted children specifically from Rivka Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

connecting to Hashem heals marriage; more on combating business; making sex a blessing instead of a burden; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

fighting the danger in marriage of being too busy to connect and care; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Letter #9. healthy initiation from the wife towards her husband; recognizing not just beauty of the physical body but also the holiness of the physical body; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/מכתב הדרכה המיוחס - דפוס חדש.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

physical intimacy (not sex). Part 1. the great importance and healing aspects of hugging, kissing, cuddling increasing exponentially their emotional and spiritual bond Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #9. asking forgiveness; not asking a store keeper prices needlessly; healthy assertiveness; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Chayei Sarah (חַיֵּי שָׂרָה) the healthy emotional approach towards life and death feeling clean every single day developed spiritual sensitivity not to be discouraged by struggles in understanding Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

common mistakes about self-confidence; allowing yourself to be vulnerable; cultivating healthy loving self-kindness; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

safeguards against emotional affairs; bring Hashem in your married life; small steps of emotional connectivity is crucial; "great" sex doesn't always mean a great marriage; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

emotional connection; coping with long distance marriage; emotional availability; sensitive responsiveness and trust; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Letter #8. to fulfill the mitzva of onah; a husband should not hyperfocus on the sexual alone, but focus on emotional caring and love, but he cannot under focus on the sexual either; he needs to arouse his sexual desire for her so she feels wanted; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/מכתב הדרכה המיוחס - דפוס חדש.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gma...

emotional intimacy. Part 2. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Vayeira (וַיֵּרָא) importance of Simcha the Simcha, why the righteous are compared to a tree pillar of Chesed Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #8. not to arouse fears in other people; avoid arrogance which triggers serious onoas devorim; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

healing aspects of walking; if you knew you couldn't fail, what goals and dreams would you strive for; developing the skill of persistence; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

to withdraw from withdrawal; setting boundaries even with your own children; to intentionally be emotionally connected; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

From suicidal to hopeful, how I learnt to fight Jazz Thornton | TEDxAuckland • October 2018 Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Why Life Matters Rabbi Simon Jacobson at Meaningful Life Center Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Why Do You Matter? Rabbi Simon Jacobson at Meaningful Life Center Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Lech-Lecha (לֶךְ-לְךָ) Hashgacha Peratis in every journey Hashem in nature Avraham's faith in Hashem in every situation Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

not to be shaken by challenges in marriage, such as illness, job loss, even birth of children; being intentional to stay physically and emotionally connected; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Letter #7. onah is a mitzvah, no less than any other mitzvah like tefillin, matza, ect. that bring kedusha on a person; this mitzvah clearly shows that Hashem wants every Jewish wife to experience sexual and emotional pleasure from her husband, and He requires the husband to do this for her; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/מכתב הדרכה המיוחס - דפוס חדש.pdf Email address for feedback, q...

emotional intimacy. Part 1. a skill that can be learned by all power of words, and how you are empowered to use it wisely to build emotional intimacy with your spouse Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Messages on parshas Bereshit (בְּרֵאשִׁית) Rav Cahan: story relating to Harav A.L Steinman ZT"L on his powerful ability to always look at the positive and to bring out the best in people Rav Cahan: profound thought on how to cope with with mistakes not to give up, but go to "plan B" (a while ago I had a shiur about how plan B was really the true plan B all along....) a powerful practical insight t...