Sholom Bayis and important life topics

Power of words series #36. don't assume he or she won't mind hearing insults; heckling; making fun of height; helpful sounding insults; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

You + Me = We What is wrong with giving in? Often giving in can cause serious damage in marriage; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Chukat-Balak (חֻקַּת-בָּלָק); keeping Torah as a "chok" to do the will of Hashem; seeing the good, not the negative; Hashem sees our inner potential; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Restoration #9. Five step plan to healthy and happy marriage (even if it's very strained currently). Action Step 5: "Acknowledge the Other". Part #3. "Love Infusion" - appreciation and date nights; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

comment on HSP 10; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

tendency for HSPs to feel flawed, even as children; how they are very special but deeply misunderstood; feeling best when not too high and not too low; the shutdown mode as a defense mechanism; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Chukat (חֻקַּת); seeing the inner essence of a person not the externals; your mouth is a holy vessel that needs protection; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

true intimacy starts with getting comfortable with ourselves; to become the best version of ourselves, which will give us the ability to see the best in our spouse; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Korach (קֹרַח); Rav Moishe ZT"L on true mesorah; lesson of nasseh v'nishma; keeping within the confines of what the Torah allows us to do; removing confusion from our hearts by following the Torah; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

the danger of unhealthy "shoulds"; destructive stringencies creating severe damage of self esteem and create OCD tendencies; using an unhealthy "should" to control and manipulate people; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #35. gratitude for hearing ways to improve; avoid guilt-inducing tactics; be sensitive to other people; removing hatred from your heart; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Restoration #8. Five step plan to healthy and happy marriage (even if it's very strained currently). Action Step 4: "Acknowledge the Other". Part #3. the life changing skill of mirroring; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Korach (קֹרַח); avoiding the devastating effects of machlokes; wisdom of On's wife saving him; Korach needed to appreciate him being a Levi; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Restoration #7. Five step plan to healthy and happy marriage (even if it's very strained currently). Action Step 4: "Acknowledge the Other". Part #2. taking your listening to the next level; it's a marriage-saving skill that every husband or wife can develop; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Shlach (שְׁלַח-לְך); meraglim wanted an exclusive spiritual life which was not what Hashem wanted; to strengthen emunah; staying away from lashon horah; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

ten reminders for sensitive people who feel judged; protect yourself from unhealthy assessments of other people; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/hsp-30_ideas_advice.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual intimacy; Spiritual intimacy and good middos (character traits) are the keys that bring blessings to the other three forms of intimacy; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

acceptance prayer; beginner's mind; be authentic not perfect; re-framing old messages into new empowering ones; focus on the roses, not the thorns; success of other people does not diminish your worth; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Shlach (שְׁלַח-לְך); the Chofetz Chaim's insight into the meraglim; avoiding the feeling of worthlessness after a sin; recognizing our inherent great value; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #34. be aware of healthy goals when you speak to another person; Insulting others is creating a spiritual Churban to the one who insults; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Behaalotecha (בְּהַעֲלֹתְךָ); appreciate what you have even when we have challenges; humility is recognizing your gifts are from Hashem; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Restoration #6. Five step plan to healthy and happy marriage (even if it's very strained currently). Action Step 4: "Acknowledge the Other". Part #1. to learn to speak and listen with the goal of connecting; entering the world of your spouse; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Marriage Restoration #5. Five step plan to healthy and happy marriage (even if it's very strained currently). Action Step 3: "Detox your marriage"; stop the verbal abuse; create a safe and nurturing environment; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

ten reminders for sensitive people who feel judged; protect yourself from unhealthy assessments of other people; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/hsp-30_ideas_advice.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Behaalotecha (בְּהַעֲלֹתְךָ); working towards not complaining; appreciating the ayin tovah of Moshe Rabbeinu; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.