Sholom Bayis and important life topics

Ki Tisa (כִּי תִשָּׂא) - 5785; we become rich spiritually from those broken parts of ourselves; bringing light and healing from the greatest darkness; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

is it true affection or self-gratification? summary of onah concept; balance is the key! Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Passion and desire in onah. Part 2. balance is the key; increasing desire is not an end in and of itself, the goal is to unite the couple and bring them closer together; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

The 5 gifts is sensitivity. Part 1. empathy; creativity; sensory intelligence (dangers of overload); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Part 5. Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, "I've gotta get out of my own way"; our "way" of life is crucial; to be a holy nation; enjoy My world, even all physical pleasures, but as a son and daughter of Hashem; connecting Eigel/Mishkan to marriage; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

alleviating internal pressure; healthy protection from your critics; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Tetzaveh (תְּצַוֶּה) - 5785; lessons from olives and oil; three levels in the marriage dynamic; not to mix with other nations; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #60. avoid perfectionism which would discourage you from improving; persistence; being careful asking personal questions; use softer approach with sensitive people; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Passion and desire in onah. Part 1. a very healthy aspect in our married life; in the right place, at the right time; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

dealing with sleepiness, and tiredness in regards to onah; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

what sensitivity really means; deep processing brain of HSP; fighting the "toughness myth"; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Sensitivity checklist hsp-33.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Part 4. Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, "I've gotta get out of my own way"; I heard, but I didn't listen; stop focusing on faults of others; the world is a mirror to us; the faults we notice in others are often our very own fault; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Terumah (תְּרוּמָה) - 5783; teacher-student relationship; power of Emes (truth); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

positive "pretending" is genuine and healthy; practicing external confidence will influence your internal state; the power of self-confident affirmations; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #59. don't bring up painful past needlessly; respond respectfully towards those who worry about you; NEVER use your gift of perception to hurt people, only use it to help and build people; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

in onah, there should be no physical union without the emotional bonding taking place; performing the act with love, and affection, and desire; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

onah reflecting conception, intention, affection and desire; the vital ingredients of onah (opposite of the "nine" middos); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

strength of sensitivity; removing the false stigma of sensitivity; the true gifts of sensitivity; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Mishpatim (מִּשְׁפָּטִים) - 5783; teacher-student relationship; power of Emes (truth); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Part 3. Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, "I've gotta get out of my own way"; 'my way was lying'; the long term loss of lying to ourselves and others; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

"your one of a kind", hear Hashem respond "and I love you"; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #58. parents and children; onoas devorim apply to hurting your children as well; pass along loshon tov; praise people to make them feel good; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

why mitzvah of Onah is Kodesh Kodashim; the sign of the Keruvim embracing; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

sexual intimacy is not a shameful act but rather a vehicle to bring the shechina into the couple's hearts and home (sources from Zohar, Ramban, Ramak and Maharal); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Yitro (יִתְרוֹ) - 5783; crucial importance of unity; talking to people with sensitivity; experiencing Matan Torah; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.