She Designs Her Life

Send us Fan Mail This is the episode to discuss the past month or so with dating! It’s been kinda funny and just realizing the roster is important ☺️ xo  Instagram: shedesignshair / shaydesignshair

Send us Fan Mail Let's Discuss the things and changing up the mindset from being sad to excited for the Holiday's! We all know the Holiday's can be a sad or time you feel low, but it doesn't have to be! There's a way to make the holiday's a happy time. Decorate, do it how you want to, doesn't have to be like the people you see on social media! If you hear this ep...

Send us Fan Mail The interview that I was so excited to have with Lauren Walsh, who is the Badass Relationship Therapist & Life Coach here in New Jersey.  Her practice is called ‘Be Kind to Your Mind Counseling NJ!  This interview is going to blow your mind! We are going to talk about everything relationships, how you care for yourself, what to question about your relationship, what to expect...

Send us Fan Mail The age old question, how some can manage multiple men during dating or can only entertain one...this is where I spark the conversation and how it's been a topic with me and my friends! There is a poll on my instagram that I am curious if you can talk to many men while dating or only one?  Instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesignshair

Send us Fan Mail Just when you think you're meeting someone who checks all your boxes, the horror happens of Ghosting! 👻 These are some funny stories I’ve heard, happened to me and overall just sad there is only Billy Lomis out there no Michael Meyers!  Xo Instagram she.designs.her.life / shaydesignshair

Send us Fan Mail Here is what I am reading, watching & trending...the Spooky Edition! Here is the Books on my TBR!! Fourth Wing & Iron Flame - Rebecca Yarros  Reckless - Elsie Silver The Chill - Scott Carson The Pumpkin Spice Cafe - Laurie Gilmore The Deven Year Slip - Ashley Poston Why Men Love Bithes - Sherry Argov What I am watching is Spooky Movies, going to do spooky things, doing roa...

Send us Fan Mail Let's review what my year was like, the things I am reflecting on. Noticing everyone heals at their own pace and that is OKAY! It's meant to be your journey and what you do for yourself and how you choose to heal! There is not race, or right way to get over something that was once your entire world. I think every women can agree, it takes times but when you are ready to...

Send us Fan Mail What I did to reflect on past birthdays, why I love my birthday and why YOU should celebrate your life and what you have done & will do! This she should be the time you realize its about you, your living, your life and what you are doing for YOU! This can be while in a relationship or not. Just do it for YOU. Enjoy your friends, family and all that you have done in your lifeti...

Send us Fan Mail Here I go with a ton of Woo Woo thinking and actually speaking things into existence and what I do, the living in a complete delulu life! I need to completely excited and comfortable with myself to know what I want! I dreaming of a man for the next phase of my life. I know I am ready! We should make sure we don’t speak negatively or put into existence anything bad. I am noticing w...

Send us Fan Mail Let the fun begin, let's review the dating apps (the ones I am on) and the dates and men I have met. I will go more in depth in later episodes, but had to have a fun chat on what I am seeing lately. The common themes on talking to men on dating apps, the funny stories, the research and comparison I did between two dating apps. This is just a fun conversation that is often avo...

Send us Fan Mail Let's talk about what I thought of the chapter on my dad and his life with his ex wife (Kelly Bishop), it was a lot of mixed feelings as I knew it would be. There was life before me and for Kelly I wish she knew, there was life after her.  Let's talk about what I am reading, what I am watching and why book signings are not the best anymore. Why have they changed? It&apos...

Send us Fan Mail Do we date like our parents did? Did we take anything from our parents while they were together or if divorced, how they date after? This topic fascinates me! We all pick up things from our parents, habits, thoughts, manners, they are the ones teaching us as we grow up! So the question always is asked once I tell people about my dad and his past relationships, “do you date or act...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is so important, I didn't touch on it all, but I did start the conversation on why friendships are so important to me. The friends I have, the groups that I am lucky to have and the friends I have around me, and why I LOVE them!! It's so important to have friends in your life, they will be the ones to point out the good you can't see, the ones to hold y...

Send us Fan Mail Ep. 17 Everything About My Trip to London! Sorry about the technical issues, but this episode shows we keep on going even if there is an issue. Nothing has to be perfect and we still show up!  London I am in love with you! This solo trip, was by far the one that made me feel whole again! This is the trip that made me believe everything is going to be amazing in my life going forwa...

Send us Fan Mail London Trip is here!!!!! Okay, beyond excited, this trip is like a grown up trip to explore a new city! I am also going to Taylor Swift, added bonus Paramore & Benson Boone & more!!! I literally am soooo beyond excited I am procrastinating on packing! Why do I do this, I cannot be the only one who puts off packing!! I am having a busy month, with travel, work, life, packin...

Send us Fan Mail Wow I bet you never saw that one coming! I mean, there is two different kinds of a mistress, the one who doesn't know about you and the one that does. The one that didn't know about you wants to clear up anything and give you the details so you have it and you can move on. Are you a girls girl or are you the type to be apart of the cover up? Once you listen to this episo...

Send us Fan Mail I mean, is there places to go that I am not aware of in the Central to south parts of New Jersey? Because the dating apps are a bit rough! Even anywhere in any of the states, is there places to go out? I feel like it’s rough because everyone has a love/hate relationship with Dating Apps! I know I have my fair share of dating horror stories and how guys act on them. I have heard th...

Send us Fan Mail The age old question! Let's dive into when is it time to move on...because it's different for everyone! There is many reasons why it's okay to move on quickly, but there is also many reasons why taking your time can benefit you in the long run. I have so many questions for listeners and what they think on this topic!  Let me know what your thoughts are!  Instagram:...

Send us Fan Mail Ep. 12 What is a Dream Board? It’s Whatever you want it to be, dream BIG, dream up your reality! The items I use, that you can totally steal!  Supply List:  Cork Board Push pins Washy tape Maybe a glue stick Pinterst Magazines Printer Canva or word doc Now I make a list and I get to dreaming, I only do my 6 month goals and try to accomplish them in any way I can. I make sure to ma...

Send us Fan Mail This is an amazing interview with my friend Nikki, she is a small business owner of Caught Ya Lookin Photo booth, works a full time 9-5 job, and is a single mom of two boys! We go over bad dates, dating after a divorce, being single while being a single mom, when you knew it was time to end your marriage. How she found love after being hurt! This is the most beautiful interview th...

Send us Fan Mail Alright, this one is important! I am going over the things I don't enjoy, the things I do enjoy and the things I am going to try out!  What are the things you enjoy now? Can you list them out? If not, it may be time. I hear hobbies are important! I am finding the new me, my way in a strange time, so why not find the things I once loved and do them again, making time for YOU a...

Send us Fan Mail What others Say About you is None of your Business! Plain and simple, but sometimes it can hurt to hear things, especially if it's bad! Let's talk about it... Let's discuss even if it's something good you hear. Sometimes no matter the case it truly you cannot change a person thought on you or change how they perceive you. People will think what they want and do...

Send us Fan Mail How are you curating your space? How would you do things if you had to start over after being in a relationship after 9 years? How would you make do from leaving 1700+ sq ft to a 860sq ft apartment? Decorating, shopping, this is going to Make a world of a difference for your sanity. A place for you to feel safe, also to play with your style! How I was efficient with my space and s...

Send us Fan Mail Here we go, the MOST asked question and the answer! I discuss why I tried dating, I am viewing it now as research! I am sharing a few horror stories, some funny insights. This is going to be one of many episodes and so many parts, this opens up the many topics I want to discuss. Past dates before my last relationship, and keep you updated on anything I see. Dating apps, my thought...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s catch up…What am I Listening to, Reading, & all things POP Culture!  This is like a Thursday Thoughts with Shay! As seen on my business page (@shaydesignshair), I am going to talk about all the music I am listening to, what am I reading,  The most amazing music out right now, is Taylor Swift. I am okay if not everyone loves her, but it’s on repeat for me! You may want to...