She Designs Her Life

Send us Fan Mail Let's catch up on what happened this month and what I am watching and some random thoughts.  Follow me on Instagram for the stories & connecting: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned

Send us Fan Mail Let's chat about MDW, the mix of working out like crazy, errands, exploring even in the horrible rain! I managed to have the best times even in the worst weather.  What am I watching: Farmer wants a wife, guilty pleasure its so good! The Valley, kinda boring, Below Deck, The Madison is so good, but makes me cry, restarted Yellowstone, In the City, fall/winter summer house and...

Send us Fan Mail Let's Chat about my Bucket List! This is what I want to make sure I do this summer, it is a longer list, but these 10 things are pretty damn cool!  Let's connect on social media!  instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned I filmed this and made all my own edits. 

Send us Fan Mail Resetting with my friends that I have known HALF MY LIFE! And one gal for 10 years! This was the most perfect way to reset with my girls, myself and go about enjoying my time off. Gearing up for concert season! What I am watching: The Madison, Love Story, The Rookie, Below Deck, all the Real Housewives, Summer House. The Farmer Wants a Wife!  What I am reading: The Off-Campus seri...

Send us Fan Mail Hello Spring! Let' s catch up and discuss what I have been up to, the things I am getting into this Spring and all the things I am planning and looking forward to!  What am I watching:  Laguna Reunion, it was so well done! Honestly I did tear up! Makes me want to watch that all over again! RHOBH, it makes me sad to see them all behaving that way, I am anxiously awaiting Summe...

Send us Fan Mail Let's catch up and see what going back to the roots is not so bad!  Watching: RHOBH, kinda boring, but good insights from Erika, Southern Charm and that reunion was brutal. Salley is odd to me, can’t place why. Age of Attraction, now that is a wild ride and then a reunion is coming. ooooffff! Love on the Spectrum is coming back! Yay! I am catching up on the Rookie, Below Deck...

Send us Fan Mail Let's catch up! I talk about the hilarious Girls "relaxing" getaway weekend. Adjusting back into my apartment, the chaos it has been. Watching: RHOBH, kinda boring, Southern Charm is losing the charm, Craig is nuts, sorry. Love is blind was serving the Troll Chris, then Alex still sucked. Age of Attraction, now that is a fun show! I am wrong about everyone's ag...

Send us Fan Mail Well the curve ball that I was not expecting was to have my home, my apartment, my bachelorette pad get filled with water. That I would have to be out of it for a month while it's being repaired. We are safe, but we are in a hotel and things you realize you need, you're without, simple things and then also, simplify things in my own life. Maybe this was to teach me to be...

Send us Fan Mail Oh boy, running into a Ghost is always fun, or is it? Let’s chat Valentines/Galetine’s Day and define talking stages …again! Why I deleted dating apps, what funny mischief will I experiment with now! What am I watching: Traitors, The Rookie, Tell me Lies, Below Deck, Southern Charm, The Valley, Persians, Real Housewives: Beverly Hills (maybe that's it), Bridgerton! Reading: T...

Send us Fan Mail I am in a new spot! Home, in my office, welcome to Northeast Snowy ted talk on how to create the Life You See for YOURSELF, but NOW!  Make the changes, make the moves, plan it out, do the damn thing. I made changes without even knowing in 2020, then I actually put the plan in action in 2023. Things do not just happen, you must plan ahead! I am now 2 years later and I am evolving m...

Send us Fan Mail Let's chat about funny dating stories that I have heard about. My opinion on dating and why I feel someone becomes a ghost, the switch up is beyond easy to read and it's sad how predictable these dudes can be. Boy math jokes being read out loud! Boy Math edit: "wanting no kids, but doesn't bring condoms"! Linked: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTSfMqADNEn/...

Send us Fan Mail Let's recap what I did for a new traditions during the Holiday's, starting with Winter Solstice, why I took off from recording. What I did for Christmas Eve/Day, between the black hole before New Year's Eve/Day. Let's get to understand why starting traditions and incorporating self care is so important during this time of year. I made my dream board for January...

Send us Fan Mail Wellll I am! I have big goals I want to accomplish! Just sharing the things that help me and who my medium is! What we have discussed. I will find a way to share my June-December vision board looks like on social media!  Cindy Luffred instagram: revelaingsoul Follow me along on Instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned Recorded in ChopStudiosnj

Send us Fan Mail Let's chat about the Holiday's, things that I do that may help you if you're feeling stressed out! The Holiday's can be stressful and overwhelming, but they do not need to be! I Hope these help, they do wonders for me! I alter it all each year a bit. Where I donate to, what is coming up, touching on a few things that make me happy during the busy holiday season...

Send us Fan Mail Let's talk about stories of some bad dates, my sister's wedding, the roadtrip I did to get there. Then I discuss the why to spend Thanksgiving alone! I literally have been going through a very busy season and lots of change. I selected to stay home, alone, make my own Thanksgiving and the 'Why' behind that! It's kind of amazing!  Instagram: @she.designs.he...

Send us Fan Mail Let's catch up after my week off! This episode is pre recorded and I needed a break. I discuss what I do for myself after having my moments of times when I feeling heavy and overwhelmed. Chatting about making sure I take breaks and I get myself back to a place of ease. I needed to share everything that is going on soon, my little sister's wedding, why I decorated nice an...

Send us Fan Mail Let's discuss it all and catch up! Halloween, the Vogue article , dating culture, authentically showing the world things on social media. How I was attacked on a funny post and how being an adult is so damn hard. The choices and decisions, the emotional rollercoaster and even identity crisis. It all happens! Let's discuss it and let me know your thoughts! Instagram: she....

Send us Fan Mail Tom Jara is the owner of Wonder Washers of New Jersey. Tom was very raw on his journey, how he made changes and finally getting a mans perspective on what runs through a mans brain in his opinion.  Please go check out Tom on instagram: @wonderwashers_NJ Watch the full episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/UMZ_cbC8xlk Instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned

Send us Fan Mail Let's make a space our own, what I am doing and some things I am calling myself out on. There is a way to consciously make your space your own, I view it as manifesting and making space for the things you want to come into your life. I am making space for all the things to come to me! YouTube video: https://youtu.be/9Kxn1JsLeVw Instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned

Send us Fan Mail Let's chat about the planning of my party, my theme, the vendors, why I won't ever have another party. I also did this recording after a facial, I was make-up free! Let's chat about the show I am watching, things I am listening to & currently reading.  Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s8sDbimNFkU Recorded in Chop Studio @chopstudiosnj List of Ve...

Send us Fan Mail I still cannot believe I am turning 40, but these are the things that stuck out to me the most, I have journaled and looked this over many times. I will also go deeper one day with these topics over time! I hope you enjoy these! Also, go check out my YouTube page, for this video!  Youtube Channel:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOU3_vkFEyDhj-vkM-Ywc_w Video to this Episode: htt...

Send us Fan Mail Let's discuss the summer and the dates I've been on, the things I have been doing and where I am meeting guys out. It's kinda funny, or a horror story, totally up to you on how you view it. Also, simply knowing you're "hot" goes a lot deeper. Let's jump in! Instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned

Send us Fan Mail Everyone goes through overwhelm, it's how we deal with it. I spread myself so thin and was completely at an all time low at what should be a happy time! I was so so low and kept going and only blew up once, I was shocked at that. There is some ideas here that I share to help when we are feeling the lowest. I made sure to be open about my salon closing and then moving to my dr...

Send us Fan Mail Let's welcome the badass mamacita Stina, she is my best friend who is an amazing business owner, friend, sister, daughter and mom! She has An amazing business called Stina Does it (hire her!!), she is single like me, navigating while being a single mom! We cover all the fun things, dating, funny Q&A and I bleeped out some things, to avoid any issues, so excuse the odd noi...

Send us Fan Mail The theme of this episode is reinventing, why do I do it. Why is it important to learn the things that work and the things that don't. I go over the things I like to try, the way I manage my time and how to get your confidence back.  The place I will share all my favorite things I shop for:  https://shopmy.us/shop/shaydesigns find me on Instagram: she.designs.her.life / shayd...