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Using the right lube can make sex much more pleasurable.  The truth is not all lubes are created equal.  In this podcast, I discuss the different types of lubes, with their costs and benefits.  What about "all-natural" lubes? Thanks for listening.

Yes...it is 2020 and we're all over-scheduled.  We're on the move as soon as our feet hit the floor then we pass out at night.  Are we too busy for sex? Using technology can help but we should remember to make sex a priority.  

In this podcast, I discuss some of the challenges sexually active people may face while we deal with Covid-19.  I focus on dating, people who are HIV positive and the upcoming fleet of "Corona-Babies." #Kissing? #Condoms? #Coronababies?

You should be having good sex.  If not, why not? In this podcast, I do not tell you how to have good sex but I offer suggestions on why you should have good sex.  As you listen to this podcast, I'd like for you to think of ways to make your sex life better.

Can you change the taste of your semen or your vaginal secretions?  For the majority of people, the answer is yes.  There are certain food you can eat and drink.  Also, there are 'things' you should avoid as well.  For starters, hydrate with water.  Plus, eating a healthy diet also helps too.

Your overall diet can have a major impact on your sex life.  Eating the healthier foods and avoiding the wrong foods is key.  The tough part is that some foods are both good and bad for you, depending on the amount you eat.  Enjoy.

What will your sex life look like as you age?  While there plenty of myths out there, are you putting yourself in a position to be sexually active at a later stage in life? Eating healthy and exercise goes a long way in remaining sexually healthy and sexually active. Thanks for listening.

Following the age & sexual health theme for February, it was only fair to discuss dating an "older" woman.  I discuss a few things you should keep in mind while dating an "older" woman.  The podcast ends with a discussion including some of the benefits of dating an older woman.  Enjoy.

Since it is my birthday month, I'm going to talk about getting older.  So yes, I believe dating an older gentleman may be beneficial for you. Here are 5 or so reasons why dating an older gent is good for you. I'll let you decide what "older" means to you. Enjoy...

In this podcast, I discuss an article that was sent my way called 'How I learned to have mind-blowing, intimate sex every time.' The author discusses becoming vulnerable with his wife, which is important.  I discuss a few of the additional elements which may be needed to create a truly deeper level of intimacy. 

A colleague asked me to do a podcast on period sex.  Specifically, she wanted to know how to discuss this with her partner and what do other guys think about period sex.  Thanks for listening.

I think you should avoid any type of numbing cream/ lubes for anal play.  The whole idea is to experience the sensations, right?  If you use a numbing cream, you won't feel anything plus, it could be dangerous for you too. Be careful.

In this society, due to several reasons, anal play/ anal eroticism is taboo. Have you ever thought about anal play being an pleasurable experience?  I believe it can be a great experience, if done correctly and safely.  What are  your thoughts?  Thanks for listening.

After watching a rather worrisome and lonely date the other night, here are 3 tips for phone etiquette on a romantic date. Hint: Use technology to bring you together.

Which is the better, more satisfying type of sex? Both are emotionally charged with a number of pros and cons.  Of course, I mention my preference so, what do you feel about this? Do you have a preference?

Are you going make any resolutions for 2020?  What about sexual resolutions?  We are quick to think about our financial and physical health but what about our sexual health? This is a great time to think about 2019 and how we want to move forward in 2020 with better sex.

It is no surprise people in interracial relationships or marriages have to deal with many challenges, both internal and external. Question...can you be Pro- and have an interracial relationship/ marriage?  Some say no.  I say yes.  Thoughts?

Why not buy some sexy stocking stuffers for your partner?  I have just a few suggestions plus some DIY tips. Please be sure, during this busy holiday season, to take time for each other and enjoy your intimate time together.

Having a guy on the side.  For many women, there are various reasons why they start down this road.  My question...is it worth it?  Maybe your partner would be okay with an open relationship.  Furthermore, what happens when the 'side dick' doesn't want things to end? 

While being single during the holidays can be rough.  In the eyes of your family, even if you've been dating someone for awhile, its like it doesn't even matter (...still not married). What can you do?  The short answer is live the best life you can. 

Well, I made it one month.  I ate a limited amount of chicken here and there but I like the results so far.  I'd like to see other men other there commit to the challenge for a month and follow-up on their results.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone. While you visit your in-laws, a few of you will get horny.  Should you have sex?  I say maybe, but here are a few tips to help you have a good time anyhow.  #SqueakyBoxspring #CreakyFloors

Should you have a threesome?  Well, there are a few things you need to discuss before it happens.  Are they any rules?  How do you find someone?  More importantly, who?  Is it going to be MMF or FMF?  While threesomes can be fun, I suggest answering a few questions first.