Shat Chat

hey y'all! today we are chatting all about this New York Times article "My Husband Had an Affair, and I Divorced Him. Should Our Kids Know Why?" by our favorite: Lori Gottlieb! we unpack our own perspectives on this topic, drawing from our experiences as children of divorce. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @phil...

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about growing pains and how people can fulfill a need in your life for a specific period of time. We'll also discuss how you change and go through different phases in any kind of relationship. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about a reddit thread where a young person is being pressured by their recently divorced parent to attend an extended family holiday event. this brings up some interesting questions: how much say should a kid have in this kind of situation? is it always best for them to just go along with it to avoid conflict? or are kids sometimes just being insensitive when t...

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about the term “grey divorce” and while the name might make you think it's about a complicated or unclear divorce (grey area) it actually refers to divorce after the age of 50 – when those grey hairs might be starting to show!  Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch listen on apple...

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about whether or not it is okay to have your step father walk you down the aisle, thanks to an Ask The Therapist article by the New York Times and Lori Gottlieb. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpodAna: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch listen on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about marriage - why even get married? what is the difference between a relationship with all of the legal paperwork in the eyes of the state and a long term committed relationship without it?     a question sent in by our long-time listener and fan: Erin Connelly!   Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engi...

hey y’all! today we're chatting all about living alone after divorce, inspired by the article 'This Is What I Learned About Life After My Marriage Ended' from Apartment Therapy. we'll discuss what we noticed our parents taking on during that transition and how those experiences shape our lives now. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 M...

hey y’all today we’re chatting about how going through key developmental stages helps us understand who we are and what we want—making us less likely to face a full-blown midlife crisis.  we’re diving into the stages we should go through (according to passages by gail sheehy) and how growing up as divorce kids might disrupt them. When we miss or delay important emotional milestones, how does that...

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about reconciliation and what that might look like for kids who are going through divorce. do you hope for it? do you not? is there false hope? does it feel worse to hope for it when deep down you know your parents arent actually going to get back together? Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @...

hey y’all! welcome back - season 2 episode 1! in honor of valentine's day we are chatting all about love! but mostly love in female friendships - how lucky we feel to be surrounded by so many amazing women, women who have allowed us to be vulnerable, women who are constant and show up in our lives every day and women who accept us no matter what our life may look like on any given day Give us...

hey y’all! today we are celebrating ONE year of Shat Chat, complete with our favorite episodes and what we are thankful for as we go into the holiday season. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about parents one upping each other and whether or not we as children of divorce noticed it or felt that it was uncomfortable. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about how each of us fights, handles arguments and conflict, and whether or not that stems from how we experienced fighting throughout childhood. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about when your parents should call it quits and when they should stick it out !! Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about marrying young and if that has any correlation to the possibility of getting divorced. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about our european travels from our favorite food and drinks to sights and of course the wedding! Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about being in school, after-school activities, and how that looks or differs as children of divorce. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about eloping vs an extravagant wedding with 200+ people and if either one is more likely to result in divorce. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about the most common reasons couples get divorced based on a Forbes article.    check out the full article here:  https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/ Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about influencer divorces and how it would be to split up while being in the spotlight, what that means for your “fans” and how much or how little should you share. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about the foster dogs we’ve had and what we can learn from them as it relates to being a child of divorce. making sure we are showing them love, consistency, and trust. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about our relationship dealbreakers, which we have separated into 3 different sections: behavioral health, lifestyle, and communication. a topic brought to you by our very own, eric thompson (or as y’all know him thompy)! Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about letting go. letting go of control over other people, reclaiming control of ourselves, and how that looks for both of us as divorce kids but as people with different approaches to it. Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpod Ana: @anamharvey Hannah: @savi1968 Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about having an infinite capacity for love, how brave it is to love, and how all love has some sort of an expiration date.  all thanks to a youtube series called diary of a ceo. this episode highlights a divorce lawyer, james sexton, and his take on love (we are specifically speaking about the section on love and loss) Give us a follow on Instagram! @shatchatpo...

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about relationship timelines and we touch on how long each of our parents dated before they took the next steps. how long should you date before getting engaged, and how long should you be engaged before you get married? is there a right answer?  according to brides.com most couples date for 2 -5 years before getting engaged and are engaged for 12- 18 months be...