Share the Pants: Dating, Marriage & Everything in Between

Hear the story behind the name Share the Pants and what it actually means inside Nicole and Joel's marriage. They talk about wanting a traditional courtship: chivalry, planned dates, clear pursuit, and intentionality without building a marriage around rigid gender roles or power struggles. They also revisit the early dating moments that shaped their dynamic: Nicole breaking her own rules and...

Our first listener question comes from a woman who's been with her boyfriend for 9 years and is wondering if she's wasting her twenties waiting for a proposal.  In this episode, Nicole and Joel unpack one of the most common relationship conundrums:  How do you know if you're patiently waiting...or being strung along?  They discuss: Why the length of a relationship isn't always...

If you think every breakup is a failure, this episode might change your mind. We're diving into season four of Love on the Spectrum:  from Tyler's unforgettable Christmas-in-July proposal that had us both sobbing to the heartbreaking breakups that reminded us why love isn't enough. Along the way, we unpack what these couples can teach us about compatibility, communication, vulnerabi...

Welcome to the very first episode of Share the Pants ! When dating coach Nicole Powers started swiping and chatting on dating apps for her clients, the internet gave her an unexpected nickname: "The Catfish Coach." In this episode, Nicole and her husband, Joel, explain what she actually does and how a simple idea turned into one of the most unique dating coaching businesses online. But t...

If you've ever said, "The apps are trash," you're not alone. As a dating coach, Nicole hears it every day. And while dating apps can absolutely be frustrating, she and her husband, Joel, met on Bumble.  They believe modern dating gets blamed for the wrong problem. In this episode, they compare the male and female experience of online dating, share what it was really like dating...

Hosted by dating coach Nicole Powers and her husband, Joel Everitt. Share the Pants is a podcast about love and relationships. Whether you're happily partnered, single-as-a-pringle, cautiously curious, or somewhere in between, you're welcome here. Subscribe now and join us for honest conversations, plenty of laughs, a few disagreements and our take on this crazy little thing called love....