Shameless Sex

This episode is all about fingering and hand sex on orifices - specifically pussies and assholes. Repeat guest Darshana Avila teaches us all about how to use your hands on all the holes for more pleasure (and even better orgasms). About our guest: Darshana is nurturing a culture of Erotic Wholeness. Many know her from her groundbreaking work on Netflix's Sex, Love & goop where she shared her traum...

In this ad-free bonus episode we get to know Meesh, a badass retired elite rhythmic gymnast who is now a kinky poly nudist healer. Meesh shares how she utilized sex as part of her personal healing journey from CPTSD, what it means to her (and how it enriches her life) to be a nudist and how this differs from being an exhibitionist, as well as how she tapped into her ultimate free sexual self (and...

Can psychedelics (mushrooms, ayahuasca, MDMA, ketamine, etc) help with sexual healing? If so, how? Can they enhance eroticism and pleasure? What is psychedelic therapy? How can someone find the right therapist or practitioner for them? About our guest: Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist #88224 specializing in sex, trauma, and ketamine assisted psychotherapy (KAP). She is a pub...

What are some of the main causes of erectile issues for penis owners? Are they usually physiological or psychological? And when it comes to psychological erectile issues, what can people do for better, stronger firmer erections? What if I try all the "hacks" and nothing works? What are my other options? About our guest: Dr. Nazanin Moali is a sex and relationship expert and has helped many individ...

What are “kink roles”? What is age play? Why are some people into age play and what do they get out of it? What if someone wants to bring age play into the bedroom? Where do they start and how can they talk to their partners about it?  About our guest: Heather Shannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who helps queer, kinky and/or non-monogamous people explore who they are as sexual beings and...

What are the pros and cons of watching porn? How can porn enhance someone's (sex) life, and how is it harmful? Is porn or sex addiction real? How might someone know they have an issue with viewing porn? What if I feel like porn is affecting my sexual and personal life and I want to work on it? Also, does the type of porn I watch matter? And if I once had an issue with porn does this mean I can nev...

We are on a roll for all-time fangirl moments! In this episode we interview podcast icon Dan Savage of the Savage LoveCast! We learn all about the changes in the field of human sexuality Dan has witnessed as a sex columnist since the 90’s (and podcaster since 2006), as well as his thoughts on the ever-shifting language around sex, gender and orientation. We also explore various terms in his latest...

This episode was recorded during Shameless Sex Podcast's first women's retreat in Costa Rica. We talk all about how to extend orgasms, anal sex safety, witchy "orgasms", and finding sexy like-minded community - all via questions and comments from actual retreat participants. Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for the next Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Click here to lear...

In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex. About our guests: Double Teamed Podcast is on a mission to...

Another major fan girl moment for Shameless Sex! In this episode we interview another one of our idles, Dr. Carol Queen. If you thought April was a sex toy mogul then be prepared to be wowed by the queen of sex toys and sex education. In this episode we discuss the meaning of sex-positivity, the evolution of pleasure products and sex ed, as well as our top recommendations for toys and lube. And th...

What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot so important? And how does getting creative with different archetypes lead to different moods in the bedroom? Re...

Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual experience? If so, why have so many men never experienced it? What are the pleasure benefits of learning to have multiple orgasms? Are there health benefits as well? How can penis owners learn to have multiple orgasms? Is it hard to do? And where do they start? What if someone starts to practice learning how to have multiple orgasms but i...

Fan girl moment! In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fan...

In this playful and deliciously provocative episode brilliant writer, sex expert and activist Zachary Zane joins us to discuss all things bisexuality. We dive into everything from the differences between bisexuality to other orientations to Zachary's own journey in uncovering and embodying his ultimate bi (and often empowered slutty) self. About our guest: Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnis...

How can mindfulness lead to more pleasure, better orgasms and deeper connection with lovers? Is meditation the same as mindfulness? How do mindfulness and fantasy work together? Can I be present and fantasize at the same time? What are some key tips and tools for mastering mindfulness in the bedroom? About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s traine...

What is codependency, where does it come from, and how does it show up in both casual and long term relationships? How can people work on their codependency? What about dating? What are some of the top mistakes people often make when dating while really wanting a relationship? What if I'm casually dating while looking for my longterm partner? Are there top do's and don'ts...like should I not have...

In the last couple of week's we've talked about sexless relationships and how to keep the fire burning in long-term partnerships, and now we are continuing the conversation with the hilarious and knowledgable Horny Housewife - specifically on "sex ruts". What is a "sex rut", why does it happen, and what can couple's do to get out of it? How can implementing sexual fantasies shift the rut? Why is “...

What are some common obstacles that contribute to couples losing the spark over time? What are some of the ways couples experience pressure around sex, where does it come from, and how can they overcome it? What skill are most important for couples to learn so they can bring sexy back and rekindle the flame, as well as keep that flame burning in the long run? What about sex, longterm relationships...

What does it mean to be in a “sexless" relationship? Why do so many people in long-term relationships, especially marriage, start having less sex? What are some things that a lot of people do in relationships that are not helpful in keeping the fire burning? What are some ways couples can reignite the fire? And what if one partner is unwilling to shift this or says “this is just how I am, I’m just...

This episode features two humans from one of our new favorite podcasts called F*ck Yeah. We shamelessly discuss everything from what we've learned from past relationships, moving on after breakups and divorce (and cheating/affairs), our latest and hottest sexual revelations, non-monogamy, and so much more. Not only is this episode extra special as it was recorded by four badass podcasters poolside...

What is “the lifestyle” aka swinging, and how do people get into it? Why do a lot of people enjoy swinging? What makes it so hot and fulfilling? Are key parties a part of it or still a thing? How can newbies dip their toes into the lifestyle in a way that feels really good for everyone? What about jealousy? How can people deal with it when it comes up? Swinging experts Dan and Lacy of the Swing Na...

What is the prostate, where is it located, and what does it do? Why is it important for penis owners to be in touch with their prostates? How does the prostate tie into sexual pleasure? Is it a sensory organ? Can it really lead multiple orgasms? Repeat guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Forrest Andrews has been one of our regular guests on...

Why are a lot of people uncomfortable with getting on top and riding that D? How can people become more confident in their riding skills? What if the way I ride the D isn’t what my partner likes? What is the difference between grinding, thrusting and scooting? And what is the Cowgirl Workout all about? Will it teach me to ride that D to a T? Repeat guest and riding expert Tyomi Morgan answers all...

This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more. About our guest: Stirling Cooper is an...

What is being an incredible lover in casual sex and dating all about? How can I become one? How does having a self pleasure practice aka batin’ fit into this? What is "the power of the thrust"? And why is learning how to attune to my lover so important for great sex? Intimacy expert and repeat guest Fabienne Annick answers all this and more. About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and...